By EveLynn Touch in our modern culture is a very touchy subject.   There are right ways and there are wrong ways.  There are good ways and there are bad ways.  There are socially acceptable ways and there are socially condemned ways. In our society, the socially acceptable way to touch and receive touch is through…

by Evelynn Performance anxiety runs rampant in our sexual beings.  It is an issue which evolves from our concept that we need another to complete the self; or that another needs us to be complete.  Men have been taught that they must be the performers – the magical ingredient that makes his partner have a…

by Kathleen VanKirk DHS , MA Orgasms, what’s not to love? – That wash of electrical energy that bursts from our genitals to our toes; leaving that achingly pleasurable pulse of satisfaction and relaxation. How could something that feels so good be good for you too? Usually, anything that causes such pleasure (downing a bottle…

By Anastasia This is a comprehensive compilation of much research and study on women’s sexual response. It incorporates information from Charles and Caroline Muir’s book Freeing the Female Orgasm and information from One Taste’s Orgasmic Meditation. It is adapted from Deborah Sundahl’s Female Ejaculation and the G-Spot book, and is based on my own experience…

by Shola Erotic Trance is an altered state of consciousness reached through a combination of breath and touch. In a holistic existence, the mind, body and spirit are in equal balance—each part is aware of the existence of the others; and their importance to the whole. However in this culture, the mind thinks it runs…

I suspect that I entered the world of tantra like a lot of other people…by accident. I wasn’t really looking for it or even knew what it was. I am a married man, in my forties, with two great kids. I have been reasonably successful in the business world and I am generally a happy…

by Asttarte Deva True Tantra Most of us go along with our lives, doing a job, having a home, and living the mundane life of this conservative world; often forgetting what is most important to you. Issues and triggers come up in marriage/relationships, and what many do to deal with them is find an escape;…

by Devi Ward Tantric Arts of Love As a Tantric Sexuality Educator, one of the fundamental methods that we teach for prolonging sexual pleasure is the art of semen retention. But what is semen retention and why would one bother learning it, much less incorporating it into everyday sexuality? Semen Retention has several different purposes,…

Anna Marti is a “sex and spirit” counselor and intimacy coach in Portland, Oregon. Her approach to sexuality is influenced by her knowledge of Eastern spiritual sexuality practices (often collectively referred to as “Tantra”). Although her counseling work is non-denominational, this interview (conducted in her Portland office on 12/26/97) begins with an inquiry into some…

by Charla As a sex and intimacy coach, my most important job is to give people permission to have more fun. I’m a pleasure activist. My mantras are “Choose fun. Do it for you. Have it your way. Say yes to desires—and express them!” I encourage women to flirt, turn themselves on, and brag. I…