Banish Shame and Experience More Pleasure

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Becoming Bob – The Shameless Art of Loving Vaginas

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Performance Anxiety

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How I Spent My Summer Vacation: Embracing Celibacy

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The Secret Spice

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The Best Essential Oils for Tantra and Sensual Massage

The Best Essential Oils for Tantra and Sensual Massage By Joshua Tantra massage is a sensual and intimate practice that ...
happy relationship

Cultivating Happy Relationships . . . and finding dishsoap

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How is Sacred Eros Different from Escorting Websites?

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Melissa St Mari’s Couples Course

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How to Choose a Practitioner

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Knowing Your Sexual Style Can Improve Your Sex Life

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What are the secrets to maintaining spark and desire for couples?

What is Tantra? What is Sacred Sexuality?

What can they teach us about ourselves for a closer connection and more satisfying sex? What are some tips for more intimacy and connection with my partner?

All this and much more in these articles on Tantra, sacred sexuality, intimacy and love.

For example:

Ask yourself, “How does it feel to be loved by someone?”  And then ask, “How does it feel to be desired by someone?”  You may be surprised how differently love and desire feel in relationship. Being loved feels comfortable, secure, anchored, being taken care of.   Love feels safe and secure, like a melting together.

Yet, love is not aways enough.  We humans have another basic need–our desire for adventure, novelty, surprise, taking risks and even flirting with danger, like a coming apart.  Now it gets interesting when, as in our culture, one person is supposed to fill all our needs–both our need for love/security, as well as our desire to dabble, autonomously, in the unpredictable, uncharted and risky. Desires are like dreams, we do not choose them they come to us. Our desires are our highest intelligence, turning our world, charting our destiny.

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