My Erotic Vocal Coaching service welcomes individuals of all genders and orientations, couples & poly relationships.
Erotic Vocal Coaching | Los Angeles, Bay Area, Online | KJ Song
You may be wondering how singing and kink go together.
Here’s the deal: your body is literally an instrument for God/The Divine to sing through.
Your Eros, your life force energy, deserves the best of the best.
Give your erotic energy the love, space and attention it’s been aching for *give it your voice*.
Forget trying to “sound good”. You ain’t here to be impressive or pretty. God doesn’t care about that. This is the path of being PRAYEROTIC, and I’m here to show you the way.
I’m KJ, your queer non-binary erotic vocal coach helping you navigate your edges of resistance, learn to surrender and let God f*ck you wide open. From there you won’t be able to hold back your voice even if you tried. Because real, true singing is like God f*cking you raw, real and with a soul-fervor.
Sound edgy? Good.
Most likely, if you have an edge around singing, there’s a strong chance you could be struggling to articulate your voice elsewhere, which is SO important in kink space.
*Maybe you have a hard time speaking up in the bedroom
*Maybe you have a hard time articulating your needs in sex and in your intimate relationships or at work.
*Maybe you experienced religious trauma or something in your childhood that shut your voice down, made you not feel safe, didn’t allow you to truly express yourself.
I understand this. I was a singer and vocal coach for over a decade, THEN I entered the world of kink and saw how deeply woven they are. As I learned how to surrender my body with the aid of floggers, paddles and ropes, I heard my voice articulate my desires and boundaries and saw how linked they are. Once I experienced this level of surrender my voice and life changed. I was able to speak my yes’s and no’s with much more ease and clarity. The quality of sex I was having sky-rocketed, my orgasms came more fully online, and I started being able to access states of ecstasy I had only experienced in mind-blowing sex while singing by myself.
Now it’s your turn. Your voice is your vehicle for liberation and the key to accessing the fullest, deepest surrender of the sub-state. You get to communicate how you want God to f*ck you. To do that, you need to become deeply acquainted with your instrument.
This is my speciality.
Here’s how we can play together:
- sensual toning so you can experience the hotness of orgasmic singing
- vocal/anal connection and play so you can access more power and support from your root and sex
- erotic breathwork so you can deepen your relationship with your body anytime, anywhere
- gender bending/kinky queer exploration so you can shame-bust and affirm your inner slut
- intimate body-based prayer so you can build trust within yourself and attune to the messages/songs God has to offer you.

I offer 4 month and 1 month immersive virtual containers.
Please note: This is NOT about our erotic connection. This is about me, your Dom, creating a space of surrender where you, the sub, get to have ecstatic communion with God. I prioritize keeping this practice as potent as possible. I reserve an intimate number of slots for this work to keep it deeply personalized and catered to you. Your safety is paramount. This work is sacred, and it’s edgy. We work closely with consent and adhere to clearly communicated dynamics.
To connect and book:
https://kjsong.com/application
Here’s to being f*cked open by God,
KJ
PS: I also offer in-person duo sessions with a trusted lingham and yoni massage practitioner in the LA area. Our clients often experience profound release and freedom in their bodies. To request both of us, please specify in your email.

My Erotic Vocal Coaching service welcomes individuals of all genders and orientations, couples & poly relationships.