Sex Coach Seattle
The Pleasure Principal, Seattle
My Sex Coach Seattle service welcome women, men and couples to my studio in Seattle
Video conferencing and telephone consults available.
Sex Coach Seattle | Seattle, Washington | Amy
Through kind and compassionate sex and conflict coaching, I help you see your relationship to yourself, to understand your relationship with others, and to understand your relationship to that which causes you joy in order for you to live the full expression of your life.
What I do:
Nonjudgmental work with men, women, and couples through active listening, education, somatic mapping, sexuality & sexual expression, consent & boundaries, breathwork, spirituality (tantra), and redefining narrative. Some of this uses quantitative data, some of this relies on psychology, some of this relies on yoga and hands-on assistance/somatic touch, some relies on education, and some relies on intuition. I work via telephone, video conference, or in person. In-person sessions require a referral or two forms of government-issued identification.
What I do NOT do:
I do not do unclothed work, nor do I perform sexual favors. I do refer to those in sexological bodywork or surrogacy, where licensed and legal, when clients need to work on specific issues related to the work of these fields.
I specialize in individuals and couples who need help with:
– Understanding Your Partner
– Getting Into Your Body
– Uncovering Your Sexual Needs, Desires, and Kinks
– Information on Sex & Sexuality
– Embodiment: How to Get In Your Own Body and Out of Your Head
– Non-medical orgasm or ejaculatory issues (intimacy/emotional work)
– Masturbation and Masturbation Addiction
– Reconnection After Children
– Harnessing the Divine Through Sexual Alchemy – Dating & Self-Awareness
– Receiving Your Partner’s Sexual Needs, Desires, and Kinks
– Tantric teachings and sexual tantra
– Having & Communicating Boundaries
– Identifying Attachment Styles/Needs
– Communication Styles/Methods
– Understanding Your Emotional IQ
– The Anima/Animus – Gender Politics
I help men with issues around sex being uncomfortable, shameful, or disappointing; I help them ask for touch in a way that gets them heard. I help them resolve feelings of helplessness, entrapment, not good enough, or emasculated. I help them restore themselves as human beings first, what it means for them to be a man, and how to connect or reconnect with their partners. Specific to that, I help men with erectile dysfunction related to intimacy once a medical condition has been ruled out. I help men who ejaculate sooner than they or their partner would like. I help men with their masturbation—too shameful, too fast, too much. I help virgins who want to become comfortable with their bodies or talking to a love interest, and I help men with a focus on sex that is bordering on or is out of their control. I work with all clients on consent and what that means to them, to a partner, and the larger political discussion around it.
I help women understand their sexual rhythm, their attraction and desire, and how to claim their sexual selves by being more true to themselves. I help them uncover their own narrative. I help them identify their boundaries, how/when/if they shift, and how to verbalize those to a partner. I work with all clients on consent and what that means to them, to a partner, and the larger political discussion around it.
How to talk to me/Schedule an appointment:
Sessions are booked online at www.thepleasureprincipal.org . First-time sessions are 90 minutes. Subsequent sessions are 50 minutes. Pre-paid appointments only. Application is required a minimum of 1 day prior to first session.
Visit me at www.thepleasureprincipal.org
How Sex Coaching and Relationship Coaching can support you
Regardless your relational status, learning how to understand your needs and desires, how to communicate that with another, and negotiating a successful sexual relationship with yourself and others are life-long skills to cultivate and hone as you grow and change.
Sexuality is broad spectrum but it’s something we don’t talk about. This leads to misunderstanding, conflict, and lack of trust. Lack of trust leads to fall pretense, which further exacerbates the condition of not getting what we want out of our relationships or our sexuality.
Full creative expression and the harnessing of sexual power are deeply related skills when it comes to full sexual satisfaction. We must be able to talk about those things that cause us some the deepest confusion, sorrow, pleasure and pain. Sexuality is about polarity. Polarity is about attraction and repelling. I help you understand why you continue to be unhappy or unsatisfied, your motivations for going there again and again, and how to get un-stuck.
A large part of being authentic is knowing oneself and then sharing that intimate knowledge of yourself with another lovingly. It involves continued recognition of each individual as an individual, but also as attached to a greater whole. It involves communication of those needs and a space for awareness of Self and Other. In this space of integration and communication, intimacy and joy and maturity, as well as self-awareness and deeper knowledge of Other, can flourish.
Understanding must go beyond intellect, as our experiences already become absorbed in the body anyway, and we develop energetic ways of being from this understanding.
Visit me at www.thepleasureprincipal.org
Amy Baker, Sex & Intimacy Advisor in Seattle
I welcome women, men and couples to my studio in Seattle
I also offer consultations by telephone or video.