My Sex Coach and Surrogate Partner service is open to individuals of all genders.
Sex Coach and Surrogate Partner | San Diego, California | Michelle Renee
My name is Michelle Renee and I primarily work as a Surrogate Partner, Human Connection Coach, and professional cuddler. I also offer customizable intimacy coaching for when the standard offerings aren’t a good match for my clients. Learn more at MeetMichelleRenee.com.
With curiosity and unconditional positive regard, I greet my clients with a grounding hug (if they are a yes) and a warm, inviting, infectious smile that starts to melt any protective walls. I’m often told that I’m easy to feel comfortable with, that I have a calming demeanor. That likely comes from my years as a professional cuddler.
As a curly haired, curvy, 46 year old, sensualist, I come to sessions wholey as myself, which might even mean yoga pants and a tank top – my cuddle “uniform”. I’m open-minded and open-hearted. I’m going to beam with love and giggles will certainly bubble out of me. I’m a direct communicator and find that I work well with the neurodiverse community. I mainly work with cis men but I’m experienced in working with all genders. (My pronouns are she/her.)
Authentic connection is so important for your healing and growth. I request that we meet on video for an introduction so we can see how our connection feels. I want us both to be a big hell yes to working together. That’s also a great time to explore which of my offerings would fit your needs best.
Though I do have in-call location in San Diego, I’m also happy to travel to you for a modest fee. With a wide range of tools in my toolbox, I ask the big question, “How would you like to connect?”
How Would You Like to Connect?
Cuddle Therapy is a great starting point if you aren’t sure where to start. In these sessions we explore clothed nurturing through touch, holding, eye gazing, and conversation/listening. You will receive all of my attention and our nervous systems can attune. It’s a great space to work on bodily agency and build trust in yourself and others. These sessions are strictly platonic/non-sexual. Established clients can ask about Advanced Cuddling – Skin Edition.
1 hour $150
1.5 hours $200
2 hours $240
3 hours $300
Human Connection Coaching offers the coaching of Surrogate Partner Therapy but with a container that doesn’t require us to work with a therapist. That means that the sessions will never move into the erotic. We will work through a series of exercises that will support your abilities to identify what you want, make choices, advocate for yourself and experience pleasure in your body. These sessions are $150/hour.
In Surrogate Partner Therapy (SPT) I will work with your talk therapist as a team to support you in working through the hangups and history that are impeding your ability to form healthy, lasting relationships. Clients are generally single and require a short-term relationship model (usually 6-months to a year) to work through issues. While not all SPT clients will need to work in the erotic, the team approach is the shining star of SPT. Relationship wounds need to be healed inside a relationship. That’s where I come in. With my toolbox and ability to touch my clients and relate to them in a way your talk therapist simply can’t, we work together to support the client’s growth. These sessions are $200/hour.
Maybe you are looking for more? Some sort of hybrid? I’ve got you! This is where customizable intimacy coaching comes in. Please schedule an exploration call to explore this option.
RECENT REVIEW:
“I enjoyed many aspects of my time with Michelle! What touched me most of all was her attitude and her approach. She was SO nonjudgmental and SO playful. I think a successful session has more to do with mindset than the activity itself. Michelle’s acceptance and easy manner made for an amazing head trip.”
REQUIRED FOR ALL NEW CLIENTS:
Exploration Zoom Call (30 minutes)
Required for all New Clients
Let’s see how we can work together
$40 will be applied to the first in-person session.
Book Here
AVAILABILITY:
I’m not available for same-day appointments and rarely same-week. Please allow a few days to schedule our meet and greet call and then be prepared that our first in-person session will not be for a couple of weeks as my schedule is often booked out two weeks in advance.
My Sex Coach and Surrogate Partner service is open to individuals of all genders.
