My Sex Coach and Surrogate Partner service is open to individuals of all genders.
Sex Coach and Surrogate Partner | San Diego, California | Michelle Renee
How are you doing in relationships? Are you single and don’t really understand why? Are you in a relationship but something isn’t working in your intimacy? Do you need to learn to feel safe again in your body and with others?
My name is Michelle Renee and I’m a Surrogate Partner and Intimacy Guide based in San Diego, CA. I’m here on Sacred Eros because many clients won’t qualify for surrogate partner therapy (I require a talk therapist to be part of the team) but would still love to learn to be in a relationship, touch consciously, and experience authentic connection and intimacy. Welcome to “The Intimacy Lab”. I’m not here for entertainment purposes, rather, I’m here to walk with you in your growth.
With curiosity and unconditional positive regard, I greet my clients with a grounding hug (if they are a yes) and a warm, inviting, infectious smile that starts to melt any protective walls. I’m often told that I’m easy to feel comfortable with and that I have a calming demeanor. This most likely comes from my 7 years as a professional cuddler.
I was recently described by a therapist I work with as “the very smart trauma-informed surrogate I’d most want to have a beer with because of your relatable and lively and playful self.” (I invite you to read my client testimonials at MeetMichelleRenee.com)
I’m open-minded and open-hearted. I’m going to beam with love and giggles will certainly bubble out of me.
As a direct communicator, I find that I work well with the neurodiverse community.
Many of my clients are either sexually inexperienced or have limited relationship experience.
Authentic connection is so important for your healing and growth. I request that we meet on video for an introduction so we can see how our connection feels. I want us both to be a big hell yes to working together. That’s also a great time to explore which of my offerings would fit your needs best.
Though I do have an in-call location in San Diego, I’m also happy to travel to you for a modest fee if needed.
With a wide range of tools in my toolbox, I offer a 3-Level Intimacy Lab Program. It starts with Level 1- Foundations of Human Connection, also recognizable as Cuddle Therapy.
Foundations of Human Connection is the starting point and where I get to know new clients and they get to know me. In these sessions, we explore clothed nurturing through touch, holding, eye gazing, and conversation/listening. You will receive all of my attention and our nervous systems can attune. It’s a great space to work on bodily agency and build trust in yourself and others. These sessions are strictly platonic/non-sexual. Established clients can ask about Advanced Cuddling – Skin Edition if they are interested. For some clients, level one is all they want and all they need. These are great sessions for clients with a history of SA or other traumas.
1 hour $150
1.5 hours $200
2 hours $240
3 hours $300
Once you’re feeling confident in the foundations, we can explore more intimate touch through the remainder of my Intimacy Lab program. These sessions start at $300/hour. Please schedule an exploration call to learn more.

OTHER OFFERINGS:
Virtual Guidance: Are you outside of San Diego/Southern California? While my favorite way to work with clients is in-person, building a connection before coming to San Diego for Destination Intimacy (my intensive program) can be helpful. These sessions are also a way to get guidance from afar for your current intimacy challenges in your relationship. These sessions are $120/hour. Schedule an exploration call to see if it’s a good fit for you.
Kink Exploration: With 8 years of kink exploration myself, I’m delighted to support clients, especially those new to kink, in any areas of my own interest including prostate massage, pegging, and sounding. I also enjoy topping for sensation play as a hedonist rather than a sadist, and I’m a big fan of having my feet worshiped. These sessions start at $300/hour. If we have an overlap in interests, please schedule an exploration call.
If you are curious to learn more about any of these offerings, the first step is to visit my website to schedule a short Zoom exploration call. I look forward to connecting with you!
Website: MeetMichelleRenee.com
Direct link to schedule the exploration call: https://p.bttr.to/36p25le
Warmly,
Michelle
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My Sex Coach and Surrogate Partner service is open to individuals of all genders.