My Tantric Transformatrix service welcomes individuals of all genders and orientations & poly relationships.
Tantric Transformatrix | San Francisco Bay Area | Starry
About me
I was a mindful somatic trauma and couples therapist for years. I have advanced experience at kink role play (age play and gender play) and play party consent culture.
Now I’m a consciousness coach trained in sexual shamanism, and I offer immersive events using sexuality, medicine and the imagination to help people integrate their highest selves. I view sexuality as accessing our deepest creative energies.
Together, we will use your sexuality to aid in making yourself more conscious of your truth. Bringing awareness and intention to your deeper or suppressed desires or identity, with my guided confidence and loving presence you will feel trust that you can be yourself more fully, and through mindfulness get out of your mind and into your body and true safety and bliss.
Options I offer:
In-person
- All work with me includes: mindful, intentional and slow two-way touch and presence that will connect you more with yourself and therefore with me and all people, with no set expectations except negotiating desires and following the present moment
- All work with me includes: ultimately melting into the universe as conscious matter being aware of itself, reaching a bliss state without expectation
- I can help you work on specific issues such as: inner child or adult trauma healing by me as nurturer; gender exploration, role play and integration in either direction (allowing your inner masculine or feminine to come out); allowing you to be a caretaker to my little girl; or role playing a current situation in your life and acting out your power
- I offer various medicine ceremonies while on psychoactive substances (cost is $2000 for 5 hours) with a clear stated intention
- I am also available for $350/hr sensual cuddle sessions to therapeutically talk about your relationship, work or family issues, consciousness coaching, or just be still in loving, easeful therapeutic presence.

People who are a good fit will be educated and intelligent, emotionally aware of themselves, practice being in command of their impulses, and have done psychedelics, therapy or some other work with making the unconscious conscious.
I will mindfully guide the session, we will ease into comfort around touch with our nervous systems so it’s real. I will slowly give over power as long as it’s mindful and intentional. Ultimately, we will have less words and what I appreciate the most is: quiet, sensual, mindful presence and surrendering to your deeper grounded energies.
This is an opportunity to make conscious your unconscious desires and integrate the different parts of you that haven’t felt safe to exist so that you can truly feel that you’re actually a god.
Note: I am not a dominatrix, do not do degradation, hard impact BDSM or master/slave play. I am more about meeting you in a deep loving presence. It’s about the being, rather than the doing. Noticing what it feels like to be seen, to have worth, to be lovable for all of who you are. I will see you as your highest, empowered self, lovingly, sweetly melt into pleasure with you. I will help you feel seen, valued and trusted. Because I see, value and trust myself. And it will be real.
Location:
San Francisco Bay Area
My rates are $550/hr. I prioritize multi-hour or 90-minute clients, but please reach out if interested regardless.
I have access to a lovely space in Marin in San Rafael. It costs $50/hr to rent and has a bed and shower.
Please schedule a brief video consultation to meet me in my scheduler here: https://portlandstateofmind.clientsecure.me/
My schedule is flexible if there’s a better time, just reach out.
I also do day long experiences at $5k per day, if interested please schedule a video consult.
Are you ready to transcend your current reality and journey into all you’ve ever wanted?
Starry
My Tantric Transformatrix service welcomes individuals of all genders and orientations & poly relationships.