Asking for What You Want

Asking for What You Want Ask for what you want - everybody already knows that, right? How many times have ...

Transform Sexual Challenges into Gifts

Transform Sexual Challenges (like Premature Ejaculation) into Gifts by Kiya Sexual problems are more common than many people realise. It’s ...
tantra massage

What Is A Yoni Egg?

The origin of the Yoni Egg: The Yoni Egg is made of a smooth, non-porous, semi-precious gemstone and carved into ...

How I Spent My Summer Vacation: Embracing Celibacy

The history books may remember the Summer of 2016 as a fight for our Democratic values as we faced, an ...
tantra copenhagen

Giving an Ecstatic Yoni Healing Massage Session

This is a comprehensive compilation of much research and study on women’s sexual response. It incorporates information from Charles and ...

Female Archetypes and ‘the Girl in the Cave’

“ Once upon a time there was all but oneness: All was God and God was All, no separation, only ...

Banish Shame and Experience More Pleasure

Before I became a sex and intimacy coach, I didn’t spend a lot of time thinking about shame.  I understood ...
female sexual dysfunction

Female Sexual Dysfunction and Yoni Massage

[This is the first of a series of 3 articles - see the end for links to the others.] Female ...

Lack of Sexual Desire in Women

Lack of Sexual Desire in Women by Melissa St Mari The most common problem women have in relationships is lack ...

Women, Sex, and Evolution

Women, Sex, and Evolution It’s said that the feminine is rising.  While having developed their ‘masculine’ capacities over the past ...
female sexuality

Female Sexuality and Healing (pt 2)

[This is the second in a series. For the first part - see: Female Sexual Dysfunction.] Female Sexuality and Healing ...

Millennials and Intimacy: What’s Not Adding Up?

For the past few years, publications like Mic, The Atlantic, and even TIME have pointed out that millennials have been ...

What are Tantra and Sacred Sexuality? What can they help me with as a woman?

How can I learn to feel more at ease with my own desire and respect my inner knowing?

How can I teach my partner how to touch me the way I like?

What are some tips for more intimacy and connection with my partner?

All this and much more in these articles on Tantra, sacred sexuality, intimacy and love.

For example:

Do you have a difficult time of just relaxing and receiving the pleasurable attention of your partner during foreplay? Or do you feel the need to return the favor right away?

Sherry told me that she feels selfish when she just receives the pleasure that her lover gives her. So, in order to overcome her uncomfortable feelings, she always starts touching him back during foreplay.

When both partners touch each other simultaneously, both have to split their focus instead of being fully present as the giver or the receiver. This is not necessarily a problem – there are times when you might be looking for a sensation of partially focusing on yourself and partially on your partner.

Read more . . .