Positively Kinky: Explore Kink to Strengthen Intimacy and Connection

Wikipedia defines Kink as “unconventional sexual practices.” We have all fantasized or secretly desired what may be considered unconventional. It’s ...

What is Erotic?

When we hear the word erotic we often think, “Oh my God, hot and endless passion and hard-action genital aerobics.  ...

Permitting More Pleasure in Your Life

As a sex and intimacy coach, my most important job is to give people permission to have more fun. I’m ...

The Artforms of BDSM & Boundassage

The Artforms of BDSM and Boundassage: Heightening Intensity and Pushing Boundaries More writings by Dakini Oceana Do you enjoy senso-sexual ...

The Sacred Sexual Priestess

I love this ancient poem describing the sacred marriage ritual which was performed often yearly for more than two millennia ...

Women, Sex, and Evolution

Women, Sex, and Evolution It’s said that the feminine is rising.  While having developed their ‘masculine’ capacities over the past ...
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5 Steps to Unlock Ecstatic Pleasure

5 Easy Steps to Begin Unlocking Sexually Ecstatic Pleasure 1.  CREATE A SAFE SPACE. Most of us underestimate the importance of actually ...
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Awareness and Sensuality

If I would have to sum up my definition of Tantra and my practice in the most simplified way, I ...

Yoni Massage 101

Sssshhhh… I want to share with you something very secret and very sacred. Something most people would never dream about ...

Tantric Touch ~ What is it?

BLISS-touch (tantric touch) - what is it? The usual translation of the word tantra is "liberation through expansion.” How can ...

Tantra For The Single Life

Single? You may be wondering how Tantra applies to you. How can you practice Tantra without a partner? How could ...
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Giving an Ecstatic Yoni Healing Massage Session

This is a comprehensive compilation of much research and study on women’s sexual response. It incorporates information from Charles and ...

What is Sacred Sexuality?

Where did it come from and what can it teach me about awareness and presence?  Is there something different about sex when we see it as sacred?

What does sacred mean? What are some tips for more intimacy and connection with my partner?

All this and much more in these articles on Tantra, sacred sexuality, intimacy and love.

For example:

As a sex and intimacy coach, my most important job is to give people permission to have more fun. I’m a pleasure activist. My mantras are “Choose fun. Do it for you. Have it your way. Say yes to desires—and express them!” I encourage women to flirt, turn themselves on, and brag. I help men trade in their intellectual minds and preoccupation with “doing” for timeless moments enjoying and feeling in their bodies. I see a softness wash over the faces of my clients, liveliness and hope returns, and the hidden girl or boy comes out to play. I’ve seen it and I love watching it happen.

I like to imagine a world serious about pleasure. You greet a friend excitedly: “Want to hear about the greatest orgasm I had last night?” Or, “The funniest thing happened when I was self-pleasuring in the laundry room this morning.” Or, teasingly, “Did I ever tell you about my imaginary lover?” We’re all ears. We’re kids at heart. When did we stop playing? When can we start again?

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