The Secret Spice

The Secret Spice How to find what you are craving in sex? by Tracy Lee What does your sex life ...
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5 Elements Tantra Massage

This is the 3rd in a series of 3 articles. See: Female Sexual Dysfunction and Female Sexuality and Healing. 5 ...
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Premature Ejaculation – Story of James

How James Overcame Premature Ejaculation by Lora Al-Awar My client James suffered from PE (Premature Ejaculation) all of his adult ...
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Sex, Money and Power

Sex, Money and Power by JagLion A threesome more sacred to most than The Holy Trinity.  The music we listen ...
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women orgasm

Why Women Fake Orgasms (and what to do instead)

Why Women Fake Orgasms (and what to do instead) Ladies, if you are faking orgasms, please rest assured that you ...
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Honoring Our Bodies: The Benefits of Cultivating Organic Pleasures

Learning to Love our Bodies   The body is your beginning. Yogic masters say that your body is: “Matter ascending toward spirit; spirit ...
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5 Steps to Unlock Ecstatic Pleasure

5 Easy Steps to Begin Unlocking Sexually Ecstatic Pleasure 1.  CREATE A SAFE SPACE. Most of us underestimate the importance of actually ...
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The First Step to Sexual Enlightenment: Conscious Breathing

Breath is the essence of life. From our first moments fresh from the womb until the last sigh of death ...
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Re-claiming Your Heart’s Safe Place

A client said to me today, "I want to continue on this path of creating more erotic pleasure.  What would ...
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Tantric Peace in the Face of Violence

Tantric Peace in the Face of Violence The reports of senseless violence are dominating the airwaves recently. Just when we ...
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Permitting More Pleasure in Your Life

As a sex and intimacy coach, my most important job is to give people permission to have more fun. I’m ...
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Clitoris Uncovered

The Mysterious Clitoris Uncovered and Tips on Stimulation More writings by Dakini Oceana The Mysterious Clitoris Uncovered - Goddesses, would ...
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Tantric Tips

Treat yourself to a Tantric Massage & Take away Intimacy Tips by Liberty Storm A Tantric full-body sensual massage is ...
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Is It Better to Give or to Receive in Sex?

Is It Better to Give or to Receive in Sex? Do you have a difficult time of just relaxing and ...
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Millennials and Intimacy: What’s Not Adding Up?

For the past few years, publications like Mic, The Atlantic, and even TIME have pointed out that millennials have been ...
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Sexual Trauma and PTSD

Sexual Trauma and PTSD keep painful memories from our past alive and present in our day to day lives. Hypnotherapy uses ...
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What is Tantra? An Interview with Anna Marti

What is Tantra? An Interview with Anna Marti Anna Marti is a "sex and spirit" counselor and intimacy coach in ...
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What About Your Sexual Intelligence Quotient?

We all know about IQ, emotional intelligence, kinesthetic intelligence, and so forth. But what do we know about sexual intelligence? ...
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Intimacy and Passion in the Presence of Cancer

You may be on the road to healing, but who can help you pick up the pieces of your sexual ...
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Asking for What You Want

Asking for What You Want Ask for what you want - everybody already knows that, right? How many times have ...
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What The Heck Is An Erection Coach, And Why Do I Need One?

Erection Coach? by Shari James What the heck is an erection coach, and why do I need one? In the ...
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Sex and the Boomer Legacy

Aging comes only to those who live long enough to experience it. If that's you, do you view aging as ...
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The Kissing Game

At one time in my life, I had the most wonderful kisser for a boyfriend, so I was surprised when ...
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Rituals

Rituals by Tracy Lee “Honey, I’m home”, says the most important person in my life.  “Mmm hmm” I mumble, not ...
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Sacred Tantric Self-Pleasure Rituals

Sacred Tantric Self-Pleasure Rituals Moving Energy into your Heart Now is the Time Well, here we are in a global state ...
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Prostate Problems Doesn’t Mean Intimacy is Over

Prostate Problems Doesn’t Mean Intimacy is Over by Tracy Lee Prostate problems are frequent and cancer is one of the ...
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Amber St. Germain’s Couples Course

Amber St. Germain Couples Course How my couples course helped a marriage go from no sex and fighting to being ...
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Prostate Massage 101

This is not medical advice! Please consult your physician with questions! What is the prostate and its function in the ...
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The Man With No Legs

“Got one for you at the Marriott,” the man from her service said. “His name is Dan. Call me when ...
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The Rise of Tantra Festivals

Why Tantra Festivals Are Growing in Popularity Globally Provided by Oshun Love Tantra Festivals are definitely on the rise. After ...
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Relationship Coaching for Couples

Relationship Coaching for Couples 8 Relationship Dynamics that Drive Couples to my Virtual Door by Corinne Farago I love my ...
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Touching without a Goal

At our recent introductory tantra day, we spent the afternoon exploring the Wheel of Consent. It's derived from the Three ...
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Tantra in the City

How to live in big city and have a wholesome/awesome sustainable practice, even when you are most of the time ...
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Erectile Dysfunction Case Study

Erectile Dysfunction Case Study by Lora Al-Awar "I told Lora when I made my Karsai appointment with her, that sometimes ...
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Touch, Touch and More Touch

Touch Touch and More Touch by Tracy Lee Those of you who know me well know how much I love ...
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Giving an Ecstatic Yoni Healing Massage Session

This is a comprehensive compilation of much research and study on women’s sexual response. It incorporates information from Charles and ...
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The Sexual Priestess Tenets

The Sexual Priestess is an ancient archetype that is returning to our consciousness to be reactivated. The Sexual Priestess nourishes ...
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Women, Sex, and Evolution

Women, Sex, and Evolution It’s said that the feminine is rising.  While having developed their ‘masculine’ capacities over the past ...
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Consult on Female Ejaculation

Consult on Female Ejaculation by Tracy Lee I was contacted by a woman interested in female ejaculation who was wondering ...
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True Story! Last weekend I saw a couple here in Asheville for another tantra retreat!

True Story! Last weekend I saw a couple here in Asheville for another tantra retreat! by Amber St. Germain This ...
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How to become a Dream Client by Liberty Storm

How to become a Dream Client Dear Tantric Newbie, How to become a Dream Client, I have been an independent ...
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100 Days of Tantra

By a Student I suspect that I entered the world of tantra like a lot of other people…by accident. I ...
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Approach, Anticipation, and Desire

Approach Anticipation and Desire by Tracy Lee Approach Anticipation and Desire - When helping clients with intimacy I often ask, ...
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Advice for Men to Last Longer and Enjoy More Erotic Energy and Heart Connection

Being able to last as long as I like and choose when I have an orgasm is something that I ...
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Peaches

There’s a ceremony in Tantra that involves naming your genitalia. Some western traditions of sacred sexuality contain information about reconnecting ...
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The Sacred Sexual Priestess

I love this ancient poem describing the sacred marriage ritual which was performed often yearly for more than two millennia ...
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5 Reasons Men Need Ejaculatory Choice and Orgasmic Mastery

5 Reasons Men Need Ejaculatory Choice and Orgasmic Mastery Ejaculatory Choice and Orgasmic Mastery are essential for any man who ...
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Increase Intimacy for more Powerful Orgasms

Here's an article posted recently, interviewing Mare Simone - titled 'A tantric sex surrogate explains how to increase intimacy for ...
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Banish Shame and Experience More Pleasure

Before I became a sex and intimacy coach, I didn’t spend a lot of time thinking about shame.  I understood ...
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A Women’s Place is Power

Women Women we can have it ALL. At the expense of no one. Sometimes it can be edgy for me ...
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Knowing Your Sexual Style Can Improve Your Sex Life

One of the many reasons that couples struggle in the bedroom is because they may have a different sexual style ...
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Your Wand of Light

Master Your Wand of Light “Lingam” is an empowering Tantra term for a man’s sex organ! It comes from Sanskrit ...
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Female Sexual Dysfunction and Yoni Massage

[This is the first of a series of 3 articles - see the end for links to the others.] Female ...
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Couples’ Puja

A Tantra Ritual for Couples In our day to day living we often get caught up in the activity and ...
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5 Tips For Giving Great Sensual Touch

Giving great sensual touch with your hands is the most important sexual skill you can have.  If your sex life ...
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Arnie: Prostate Cancer

Prostate Cancer by Tracy Lee Arnie: Prostate Cancer  When I first met Arnie, he had recently been through rectal surgery ...
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Defining Connection vs Intimacy

Defining Connection versus Intimacy by Tracy Lee Recently my partner and I had what I thought was the most connective, ...
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Best All-around Lubricants

Best Lubricants for All-aroud Play by Jayme If your natural juices aren’t giving you the glide you need a little ...
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Awareness and Sensuality

If I would have to sum up my definition of Tantra and my practice in the most simplified way, I ...
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Tantric Touch ~ What is it?

BLISS-touch (tantric touch) - what is it? The usual translation of the word tantra is "liberation through expansion.” How can ...
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Yoni Massage

Yoni Massage So squishy, tender Like a library, filled with… Stories, memories Remembrances of lifetimes The energy held in these ...
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How my Yoni Massage brought unexpected healing and orgasm

How my Yoni Massage brought unexpected healing and orgasm From Mare Simone: Enjoy this powerfully vulnerable, personal review about Tantric Touch-Therapy ...
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Home Play for Men: Mastering Your Sexual Energy

Mastering one's sexual energy takes some practice. Whatever you train your body to do alone will make it that much ...
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Female Archetypes and ‘the Girl in the Cave’

“ Once upon a time there was all but oneness: All was God and God was All, no separation, only ...
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How is Sacred Eros Different from Escorting Websites?

What is Sacred Eros and how is How is Sacred Eros Different from Escorting Websites? by Joshua Sacred Eros is ...
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Tantra For The Single Life

Single? You may be wondering how Tantra applies to you. How can you practice Tantra without a partner? How could ...
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Lack of Sexual Desire in Women

Lack of Sexual Desire in Women by Amber St. Germain The most common problem women have in relationships is lack ...
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“Letting Go of Pain- Stepping Into Your Sexual Power”

Letting Go Of Pain Letting Go Of Pain - Written by, Makena Andrews “My life was never mine until I ...
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The Secret of the G-spot is Connection

What is the G-Spot? A sensitive area of the anterior wall of the vagina believed by some to be highly ...
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Performance Anxiety

Performance anxiety runs rampant in our sexual beings.  It is an issue which evolves from our concept that we need ...
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Sexual Dysfunction in Men

Sexual Dysfunction including erectile dysfunction (ED), premature ejaculation (PE), prostate issues, and porn addiction in men. Sexual Dysfunction in Men ...
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Positively Kinky: Explore Kink to Strengthen Intimacy and Connection

Wikipedia defines Kink as “unconventional sexual practices.” We have all fantasized or secretly desired what may be considered unconventional. It’s ...
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How to Talk About Sex With Your Partner in 3 Steps

How to Talk About Sex With Your Partner in 3 Steps by Starlitt It’s ironic to me that most people ...
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Silent Suffering and Superhero Syndrome

Silent Suffering - and - Superhero Syndrome When I worked as a professional companion it was not uncommon to hear ...
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Multiple Orgasms for Men – Fact or Fiction?

Pop culture is rife with references to women being multi-orgasmic. Women are generally more sensual, sensitive, and nurturing than men ...
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Transform Sexual Challenges into Gifts

Transform Sexual Challenges (like Premature Ejaculation) into Gifts by Kiya Sexual problems are more common than many people realise. It’s ...
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Poetry – by Inara Grace

Poetry Poetry- Rippling waves of heat rise, shimmering, across the torso's atmosphere, taking my tripping sweet heart by the hand, ...
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How I Spent My Summer Vacation: Embracing Celibacy

The history books may remember the Summer of 2016 as a fight for our Democratic values as we faced, an ...
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What is Erotic?

When we hear the word erotic we often think, “Oh my God, hot and endless passion and hard-action genital aerobics.  ...
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Intimate Advice: a Q & A on Love and Sex

What does it really take to stay intimate with a partner and continue to enjoy your own sexuality? How does ...
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Does Penis Size Matter?

Does Penis Size Matter? by Raven Does Penis Size Matter? In all my years of teaching workshops to men, serving ...
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The Best Essential Oils for Tantra and Sensual Massage

The Best Essential Oils for Tantra and Sensual Massage By Joshua Tantra massage is a sensual and intimate practice that ...
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Be the Master of Your Cock

Be the Master of Your Cock by Raven One of my clients can go for hours and hours without ejaculating ...
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What Is Your Erotic Signature?

What Is Your Erotic Signature? Signatures are like snowflakes; no two are alike. My signature is uniquely my own and has ...
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Sacred Touch – The Magical Art of Laying on Hands

Touch in our modern culture is a very touchy subject.   There are right ways and there are wrong ways.  There ...
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Relationships are Nourishing, Natural Medicine

Nourishing, Natural Medicine by Dakini Oceana Relationships are Nourishing, Natural Medicine Human happiness leads to health and fulfillment over a ...
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sex and aging

Orgasms, Cougars, and Wizards: 8 Myths of Sex and Aging

A few myths: 1)  Old folks don’t have sex: One of the most loving things older folks can tell young ...
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5 Steps to Owning Your Jealousy in Relationships

5 Steps to Owning Your Jealousy in Relationships Jealousy can be the ultimate poison to relationships. It can also be ...
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The Artforms of BDSM & Boundassage

The Artforms of BDSM and Boundassage: Heightening Intensity and Pushing Boundaries Do you enjoy senso-sexual intimacy and exploration? Want to ...
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Prostate Play 101

Prostate Play 101 by Kiki Connects This article is for penis owners who are curious about experiencing the benefits to ...
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Goddess Maggie – So You Want to Book a Session

So You Want to Book a Session by Goddess Maggie In this captivating realm where spirituality and human connection intersect, ...
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Reactive vs Responsive Desire

Reactive vs Responsive Desire by Tracy Lee Reactive vs Responsive Desire in Intimacy, a story of Paul and Mary.  I ...
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Becoming Bob – The Shameless Art of Loving Vaginas

Becoming Bob The Shameless Art of Loving Vaginas (And an invitation into an online exploration for couples) by Corinne Farago ...
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Men – Learn to have Multiple Orgasms

Men - Learn to have Multiple Orgasms Before Ejaculating! Yes, men can orgasm without ejaculating and they can have multiple ...
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Top 10 States for Tantric Massage

Top 10 States for Tantric Massage Let’s keep this simple. You are travelling across the states and want to know ...
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Sexual Transmutation (Wand of Light, pt 2)

Sexual Transmutation (Master Your Wand of Light, Part 2) (Part 1: Mastering Your Wand of Light) We left off from ...
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I Want to Please You…My Way

I Want to Please You…My Way by Tracy Lee I want to please you.   Yes, I do, as do ...
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Re-thinking Sex: Celebration, not Performance!

Re-thinking Sex: Celebration, not Performance! What if sex were not a performance, but a celebration? Would that change how we ...
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Who is this for?

Investing in intimacy by Tracy Lee Investing in intimacy - Mike says, “Hey, Sally, let’s go out to dinner.” Who ...
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Female Sexuality and Healing (pt 2)

[This is the second in a series. For the first part - see: Female Sexual Dysfunction.] Female Sexuality and Healing ...
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Chi Cultivation for Sustained Ecstasy | Hailey Dawn Armstrong

Chi Cultivation for Sustained Ecstasy

Chi Cultivation for Sustained Ecstasy By Hailey Dawn Armstrong Chi cultivation for sustained ecstasy also known as 'Energy Matters' involves ...
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Experiment: Excitement, Arousal, Breath and Transformation

 Experiment: Excitement, Arousal, Breath and Transformation I have to admit--I love it when someone tells me, right before an erotic ...
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Why work with a Sacred Intimate?

Why work with a Sacred Intimate? We all encounter at one point blocks that holds us back from living our ...
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Sex Magic for Gay Men, by Brad Amberheart.

Harnessing the Creative Potential of Pure Erotic Joy by Brad Amberheart (Bradamberheart.com) The potency and potential of what two sexually-charged ...
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How Love & Desire Differ

How Love and Desire Differ Ask yourself, “How does it feel to be loved by someone?”  And then ask, “How does it ...
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Tomatoes for the Broken-Hearted

Tomatoes for the Broken-Hearted How to heal after a break up by Tallulah @tallulahillos.e Tomatoes for the Broken-Hearted is a ...
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Touch Trauma – Nathan’s Story

Touch Trauma - Nathan's Story by Tracy Lee Nathan is a client who came to me to fill the void ...
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What Is A Yoni Egg?

The origin of the Yoni Egg: The Yoni Egg is made of a smooth, non-porous, semi-precious gemstone and carved into ...
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Cultivating Happy Relationships . . . and finding dishsoap

Cultivating Happy Relationships . . .and finding dishsoap I was interviewed by a very sweet man and woman who are ...
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Understanding Nuances of Desire and Arousal

Arousal Arousal - Do you like peanut butter and jelly sandwiches? Peanut butter goes so well with jelly that we easily ...
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How to Choose a Practitioner

How to Choose a Practitioner and how to prepare for your appointment. How to choose the right practitioner for you ...
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Welcome to Sacred Eros

Welcome to Sacred Eros Who we are, what we do and why we do it. Who we are Welcome to ...
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Pornography: Pros, Cons, & How to Watch It

Pornography: Pros, Cons, and How to Watch It As a sex and Intimacy coach I decided since porn is a ...
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Yoni Massage 101

Sssshhhh… I want to share with you something very secret and very sacred. Something most people would never dream about ...
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What is Tantra? What’s it like to work with people about their sexuality? What are some tips for more intimacy and connection with my partner? What can I do to help myself with challenge like erectile problems or lack of confidence? All this and much more in these articles on Tantra, sacred sexuality, intimacy and love.