Banish Shame and Experience More Pleasure
Before I became a sex and intimacy coach, I didn’t spend a lot of time thinking about shame. I understood ...
The Sexual Priestess Tenets
The Sexual Priestess is an ancient archetype that is returning to our consciousness to be reactivated. The Sexual Priestess nourishes ...
Silent Suffering and Superhero Syndrome
Silent Suffering - and - Superhero Syndrome When I worked as a professional companion it was not uncommon to hear ...
A Women’s Place is Power
Women we can have it ALL. At the expense of no one. Sometimes it can be edgy for me to ...
Giving an Ecstatic Yoni Healing Massage Session
This is a comprehensive compilation of much research and study on women’s sexual response. It incorporates information from Charles and ...
Tantra For The Single Life
Single? You may be wondering how Tantra applies to you. How can you practice Tantra without a partner? How could ...
Permitting More Pleasure in Your Life
As a sex and intimacy coach, my most important job is to give people permission to have more fun. I’m ...
Prostate Massage 101
This is not medical advice! Please consult your physician with questions! What is the prostate and its function in the ...
Experiment: Excitement, Arousal, Breath and Transformation
Experiment: Excitement, Arousal, Breath and Transformation I have to admit--I love it when someone tells me, right before an erotic ...
Sex Magic for Gay Men
Harnessing the Creative Potential of Pure Erotic Joy The potency and potential of what two sexually-charged male lovers hold in ...
5 Steps to Unlock Ecstatic Pleasure
5 Easy Steps to Begin Unlocking Sexually Ecstatic Pleasure 1. CREATE A SAFE SPACE. Most of us underestimate the importance of actually ...
Female Archetypes and ‘the Girl in the Cave’
“ Once upon a time there was all but oneness: All was God and God was All, no separation, only ...
Understanding Nuances of Desire and Arousal
Do you like peanut butter and jelly sandwiches? Peanut butter goes so well with jelly that we easily think of them ...
Peaches
There’s a ceremony in Tantra that involves naming your genitalia. Some western traditions of sacred sexuality contain information about reconnecting ...
Sacred Touch – The Magical Art of Laying on Hands
Touch in our modern culture is a very touchy subject. There are right ways and there are wrong ways. There ...
Female Sexual Dysfunction and Yoni Massage
[This is the first of a series of 3 articles - see the end for links to the others.] Female ...
100 Days of Tantra
By a Student I suspect that I entered the world of tantra like a lot of other people…by accident. I ...
The Kissing Game
At one time in my life, I had the most wonderful kisser for a boyfriend, so I was surprised when ...
Approach, Anticipation, and Desire
Helping Clients with Intimacy When helping clients with intimacy I often ask, “What was your best sexual encounter?” I do ...
Pornography: Pros, Cons, & How to Watch It
Pornography: Pros, Cons, and How to Watch It As a sex and Intimacy coach I decided since porn is a ...
Female Sexuality and Healing (pt 2)
[This is the second in a series. For the first part - see: Female Sexual Dysfunction.] Female Sexuality and Healing ...
Asking for What You Want
Asking for What You Want Ask for what you want - everybody already knows that, right? How many times have ...
How Love & Desire Differ
How Love and Desire Differ Ask yourself, “How does it feel to be loved by someone?” And then ask, “How does it ...
What is Tantra? An Interview with Anna Marti
What is Tantra? An Interview with Anna Marti Anna Marti is a "sex and spirit" counselor and intimacy coach in ...
Why work with a Sacred Intimate?
Why work with a Sacred Intimate? We all encounter at one point blocks that holds us back from living our ...
5 Tips For Giving Great Sensual Touch
Giving great sensual touch with your hands is the most important sexual skill you can have. If your sex life ...
Re-thinking Sex: Celebration, not Performance!
Re-thinking Sex: Celebration, not Performance! What if sex were not a performance, but a celebration? Would that change how we ...
Why Women Fake Orgasms (and what to do instead)
Why Women Fake Orgasms (and what to do instead) Ladies, if you are faking orgasms, please rest assured that you ...
Home Play: Mastering Your Sexual Energy
Mastering one's sexual energy takes some practice. Whatever you train your body to do alone will make it that much ...
Awareness and Sensuality
If I would have to sum up my definition of Tantra and my practice in the most simplified way, I ...
Orgasms, Cougars, and Wizards: 8 Myths of Sex and Aging
A few myths: 1) Old folks don’t have sex: One of the most loving things older folks can tell young ...
Mature Buxom Pixie
I’m Tracy, a mature buxom pixie. I’m a vibrant sensual being who began this work after friends kept turning to me ...
Poetry – by Aurora
Rippling waves of heat rise, shimmering, across the torso's atmosphere, taking my tripping sweet heart by the hand, and pulling ...
Is It Better to Give or to Receive in Sex?
Is It Better to Give or to Receive in Sex? Do you have a difficult time of just relaxing and ...
Yoni Massage 101
Sssshhhh… I want to share with you something very secret and very sacred. Something most people would never dream about ...
What About Your Sexual Intelligence Quotient?
We all know about IQ, emotional intelligence, kinesthetic intelligence, and so forth. But what do we know about sexual intelligence? ...
Tantric Touch ~ What is it?
BLISS-touch (tantric touch) - what is it? The usual translation of the word tantra is "liberation through expansion.” How can ...
The Secret of the G-spot is Connection
What is the G-Spot? A sensitive area of the anterior wall of the vagina believed by some to be highly ...
Re-claiming Your Heart’s Safe Place
A client said to me today, "I want to continue on this path of creating more erotic pleasure. What would ...
Who is this for?
Mike says, “Hey, Sally, let’s go out to dinner.” Who is this for? Mike or Sally? How can Sally decide ...
Your Wand of Light
Master Your Wand of Light “Lingam” is an empowering Tantra term for a man’s sex organ! It comes from Sanskrit ...
The First Step to Sexual Enlightenment: Conscious Breathing
Breath is the essence of life. From our first moments fresh from the womb until the last sigh of death ...
Touching without a Goal
At our recent introductory tantra day, we spent the afternoon exploring the Wheel of Consent. It's derived from the Three ...
The Sacred Sexual Priestess
I love this ancient poem describing the sacred marriage ritual which was performed often yearly for more than two millennia ...
Multiple Orgasms for Men – Fact or Fiction?
Pop culture is rife with references to women being multi-orgasmic. Women are generally more sensual, sensitive, and nurturing than men ...
Tantra in the City
How to live in big city and have a wholesome/awesome sustainable practice, even when you are most of the time ...
What Is Your Erotic Signature?
What Is Your Erotic Signature? Signatures are like snowflakes; no two are alike. My signature is uniquely my own and has ...
What is Erotic?
When we hear the word erotic we often think, “Oh my God, hot and endless passion and hard-action genital aerobics. ...
The Man With No Legs
“Got one for you at the Marriott,” the man from her service said. “His name is Dan. Call me when ...
5 Elements Tantra Massage
This is the 3rd in a series of 3 articles. See: Female Sexual Dysfunction and Female Sexuality and Healing. 5 ...
Sexual Trauma and PTSD
Sexual Trauma and PTSD keep painful memories from our past alive and present in our day to day lives. Hypnotherapy uses ...
Honoring Our Bodies: The Benefits of Cultivating Organic Pleasures
Learning to Love our Bodies The body is your beginning. Yogic masters say that your body is: “Matter ascending toward spirit; spirit ...
How I Spent My Summer Vacation: Embracing Celibacy
The history books may remember the Summer of 2016 as a fight for our Democratic values as we faced, an ...
Cultivating Happy Relationships . . . and finding dishsoap
Cultivating Happy Relationships . . .and finding dishsoap I was interviewed by a very sweet man and woman who are ...
Knowing Your Sexual Style Can Improve Your Sex Life
One of the many reasons that couples struggle in the bedroom is because they may have a different sexual style ...
Positively Kinky: Explore Kink to Strengthen Intimacy and Connection
Wikipedia defines Kink as “unconventional sexual practices.” We have all fantasized or secretly desired what may be considered unconventional. It’s ...
Advice for Men to Last Longer and Enjoy More Erotic Energy and Heart Connection
Being able to last as long as I like and choose when I have an orgasm is something that I ...
Millennials and Intimacy: What’s Not Adding Up?
For the past few years, publications like Mic, The Atlantic, and even TIME have pointed out that millennials have been ...
How my Yoni Massage brought unexpected healing and orgasm
How my Yoni Massage brought unexpected healing and orgasm From Mare Simone: Enjoy this powerfully vulnerable, personal review about Tantric Touch-Therapy ...
Intimacy and Passion in the Presence of Cancer
You may be on the road to healing, but who can help you pick up the pieces of your sexual ...
Women, Sex, and Evolution
Women, Sex, and Evolution It’s said that the feminine is rising. While having developed their ‘masculine’ capacities over the past ...
Performance Anxiety
Performance anxiety runs rampant in our sexual beings. It is an issue which evolves from our concept that we need ...
What Is A Yoni Egg?
The origin of the Yoni Egg: The Yoni Egg is made of a smooth, non-porous, semi-precious gemstone and carved into ...
Intimate Advice: a Q & A on Love and Sex
What does it really take to stay intimate with a partner and continue to enjoy your own sexuality? How does ...
Couples’ Puja
A Tantra Ritual for Couples In our day to day living we often get caught up in the activity and ...
Tantric Peace in the Face of Violence
Tantric Peace in the Face of Violence The reports of senseless violence are dominating the airwaves recently. Just when we ...
Sex and the Boomer Legacy
Aging comes only to those who live long enough to experience it. If that's you, do you view aging as ...
“Letting Go of Pain- Stepping Into Your Sexual Power”
Supporting women’s journey through Sexual Healing Written by, Makena Andrews “My life was never mine until I stepped into my ...
Touch, Touch and More Touch
Touch, Touch and More Touch Those of you who know me well know how much I love to touch. Touch ...
Increase Intimacy for more Powerful Orgasms
Here's an article posted recently, interviewing Mare Simone - titled 'A tantric sex surrogate explains how to increase intimacy for ...
Sexual Transmutation (Wand of Light, pt 2)
Sexual Transmutation (Master Your Wand of Light, Part 2) (Part 1: Mastering Your Wand of Light) We left off from ...
What is Tantra? What’s it like to work with people about their sexuality? What are some tips for more intimacy and connection with my partner? What can I do to help myself with challenge like erectile problems or lack of confidence? All this and much more in these articles on Tantra, sacred sexuality, intimacy and love.