Re-claiming Your Heart’s Safe Place

A client said to me today, "I want to continue on this path of creating more erotic pleasure.  What would ...
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Yoni Massage 101

Sssshhhh… I want to share with you something very secret and very sacred. Something most people would never dream about ...
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female sexual dysfunction

Female Sexual Dysfunction and Yoni Massage

[This is the first of a series of 3 articles - see the end for links to the others.] Female ...
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Peaches

There’s a ceremony in Tantra that involves naming your genitalia. Some western traditions of sacred sexuality contain information about reconnecting ...
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Performance Anxiety

Performance anxiety runs rampant in our sexual beings.  It is an issue which evolves from our concept that we need ...
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Tantric Peace in the Face of Violence

Tantric Peace in the Face of Violence The reports of senseless violence are dominating the airwaves recently. Just when we ...
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Sex Magic for Gay Men, by Brad Amberheart.

Harnessing the Creative Potential of Pure Erotic Joy by Brad Amberheart (Bradamberheart.com) The potency and potential of what two sexually-charged ...
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Tomatoes for the Broken-Hearted

Tomatoes for the Broken-Hearted How to heal after a break up by Tallulah @tallulahillos.e Tomatoes for the Broken-Hearted is a ...
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I Want to Please You…My Way

I Want to Please You…My Way by Tracy Lee I want to please you.   Yes, I do, as do ...
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Welcome to Sacred Eros

Welcome to Sacred Eros Who we are, what we do and why we do it. Who we are Welcome to ...
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How Love & Desire Differ

How Love and Desire Differ Ask yourself, “How does it feel to be loved by someone?”  And then ask, “How does it ...
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Prostate Problems Doesn’t Mean Intimacy is Over

Prostate Problems Doesn’t Mean Intimacy is Over by Tracy Lee Prostate problems are frequent and cancer is one of the ...
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Couples’ Puja

A Tantra Ritual for Couples In our day to day living we often get caught up in the activity and ...
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Banish Shame and Experience More Pleasure

Before I became a sex and intimacy coach, I didn’t spend a lot of time thinking about shame.  I understood ...
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Silent Suffering and Superhero Syndrome

Silent Suffering - and - Superhero Syndrome When I worked as a professional companion it was not uncommon to hear ...
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Asking for What You Want

Asking for What You Want Ask for what you want - everybody already knows that, right? How many times have ...
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Becoming Bob – The Shameless Art of Loving Vaginas

Becoming Bob The Shameless Art of Loving Vaginas (And an invitation into an online exploration for couples) by Corinne Farago ...
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Increase Intimacy for more Powerful Orgasms

Here's an article posted recently, interviewing Mare Simone - titled 'A tantric sex surrogate explains how to increase intimacy for ...
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sex and aging

Sex and the Boomer Legacy

Aging comes only to those who live long enough to experience it. If that's you, do you view aging as ...
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Permitting More Pleasure in Your Life

As a sex and intimacy coach, my most important job is to give people permission to have more fun. I’m ...
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Tantric Tips

Treat yourself to a Tantric Massage & Take away Intimacy Tips by Liberty Storm A Tantric full-body sensual massage is ...
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women orgasm

Why Women Fake Orgasms (and what to do instead)

Why Women Fake Orgasms (and what to do instead) Ladies, if you are faking orgasms, please rest assured that you ...
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Giving an Ecstatic Yoni Healing Massage Session

This is a comprehensive compilation of much research and study on women’s sexual response. It incorporates information from Charles and ...
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5 Tips For Giving Great Sensual Touch

Giving great sensual touch with your hands is the most important sexual skill you can have.  If your sex life ...
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Clitoris Uncovered

The Mysterious Clitoris Uncovered and Tips on Stimulation More writings by Dakini Oceana The Mysterious Clitoris Uncovered - Goddesses, would ...
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Honoring Our Bodies: The Benefits of Cultivating Organic Pleasures

Learning to Love our Bodies   The body is your beginning. Yogic masters say that your body is: “Matter ascending toward spirit; spirit ...
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Approach, Anticipation, and Desire

Approach Anticipation and Desire by Tracy Lee Approach Anticipation and Desire - When helping clients with intimacy I often ask, ...
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Rituals

Rituals by Tracy Lee “Honey, I’m home”, says the most important person in my life.  “Mmm hmm” I mumble, not ...
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Millennials and Intimacy: What’s Not Adding Up?

For the past few years, publications like Mic, The Atlantic, and even TIME have pointed out that millennials have been ...
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Sex, Money and Power

Sex, Money and Power by JagLion A threesome more sacred to most than The Holy Trinity.  The music we listen ...
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Pornography: Pros, Cons, & How to Watch It

Pornography: Pros, Cons, and How to Watch It As a sex and Intimacy coach I decided since porn is a ...
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Defining Connection vs Intimacy

Defining Connection versus Intimacy by Tracy Lee Recently my partner and I had what I thought was the most connective, ...
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Sexual Dysfunction in Men

Sexual Dysfunction including erectile dysfunction (ED), premature ejaculation (PE), prostate issues, and porn addiction in men. by Melissa St Mari ...
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Is It Better to Give or to Receive in Sex?

Is It Better to Give or to Receive in Sex? Do you have a difficult time of just relaxing and ...
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Tantra For The Single Life

Single? You may be wondering how Tantra applies to you. How can you practice Tantra without a partner? How could ...
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Premature Ejaculation – Story of James

How James Overcame Premature Ejaculation by Lora Al-Awar My client James suffered from PE (Premature Ejaculation) all of his adult ...
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Reactive vs Responsive Desire

Reactive vs Responsive Desire by Tracy Lee Reactive vs Responsive Desire in Intimacy, a story of Paul and Mary.  I ...
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Intimacy and Passion in the Presence of Cancer

You may be on the road to healing, but who can help you pick up the pieces of your sexual ...
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Re-thinking Sex: Celebration, not Performance!

Re-thinking Sex: Celebration, not Performance! What if sex were not a performance, but a celebration? Would that change how we ...
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Women, Sex, and Evolution

Women, Sex, and Evolution It’s said that the feminine is rising.  While having developed their ‘masculine’ capacities over the past ...
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Sexual Trauma and PTSD

Sexual Trauma and PTSD keep painful memories from our past alive and present in our day to day lives. Hypnotherapy uses ...
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The Sacred Sexual Priestess

I love this ancient poem describing the sacred marriage ritual which was performed often yearly for more than two millennia ...
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100 Days of Tantra

By a Student I suspect that I entered the world of tantra like a lot of other people…by accident. I ...
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Home Play: Mastering Your Sexual Energy

Mastering one's sexual energy takes some practice. Whatever you train your body to do alone will make it that much ...
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The Kissing Game

At one time in my life, I had the most wonderful kisser for a boyfriend, so I was surprised when ...
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Awareness and Sensuality

If I would have to sum up my definition of Tantra and my practice in the most simplified way, I ...
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The Man With No Legs

“Got one for you at the Marriott,” the man from her service said. “His name is Dan. Call me when ...
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Tantric Touch ~ What is it?

BLISS-touch (tantric touch) - what is it? The usual translation of the word tantra is "liberation through expansion.” How can ...
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Touching without a Goal

At our recent introductory tantra day, we spent the afternoon exploring the Wheel of Consent. It's derived from the Three ...
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Touch, Touch and More Touch

Touch Touch and More Touch by Tracy Lee Those of you who know me well know how much I love ...
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How I Spent My Summer Vacation: Embracing Celibacy

The history books may remember the Summer of 2016 as a fight for our Democratic values as we faced, an ...
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Tantra in the City

How to live in big city and have a wholesome/awesome sustainable practice, even when you are most of the time ...
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Sacred Touch – The Magical Art of Laying on Hands

Touch in our modern culture is a very touchy subject.   There are right ways and there are wrong ways.  There ...
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Prostate Massage 101

This is not medical advice! Please consult your physician with questions! What is the prostate and its function in the ...
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The First Step to Sexual Enlightenment: Conscious Breathing

Breath is the essence of life. From our first moments fresh from the womb until the last sigh of death ...
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True Story! Last weekend I saw a couple here in Asheville for another tantra retreat!

True Story! Last weekend I saw a couple here in Asheville for another tantra retreat! By Melissa St Mari This ...
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The Artforms of BDSM & Boundassage

The Artforms of BDSM and Boundassage: Heightening Intensity and Pushing Boundaries More writings by Dakini Oceana Do you enjoy senso-sexual ...
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Consult on Female Ejaculation

Consult on Female Ejaculation by Tracy Lee I was contacted by a woman interested in female ejaculation who was wondering ...
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Female Archetypes and ‘the Girl in the Cave’

“ Once upon a time there was all but oneness: All was God and God was All, no separation, only ...
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5 Steps to Owning Your Jealousy in Relationships

5 Steps to Owning Your Jealousy in Relationships Jealousy can be the ultimate poison to relationships. It can also be ...
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Multiple Orgasms for Men – Fact or Fiction?

Pop culture is rife with references to women being multi-orgasmic. Women are generally more sensual, sensitive, and nurturing than men ...
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Men – Learn to have Multiple Orgasms

Men - Learn to have Multiple Orgasms Before Ejaculating! by Melissa St Mari Yes, men can orgasm without ejaculating and ...
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What is Tantra? An Interview with Anna Marti

What is Tantra? An Interview with Anna Marti Anna Marti is a "sex and spirit" counselor and intimacy coach in ...
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What is Erotic?

When we hear the word erotic we often think, “Oh my God, hot and endless passion and hard-action genital aerobics.  ...
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Your Wand of Light

Master Your Wand of Light “Lingam” is an empowering Tantra term for a man’s sex organ! It comes from Sanskrit ...
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Top 10 States for Tantric Massage

Top 10 States for Tantric Massage Let’s keep this simple. You are travelling across the states and want to know ...
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5 Reasons You Need Ejaculatory Choice and Orgasmic Mastery

5 Reasons You Need Ejaculatory Choice and Orgasmic Mastery by Melissa St Mari Ejaculatory Choice and Orgasmic Mastery are essential ...
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How to become a Dream Client by Liberty Storm

How to become a Dream Client Dear Tantric Newbie, How to become a Dream Client, I have been an independent ...
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How my Yoni Massage brought unexpected healing and orgasm

How my Yoni Massage brought unexpected healing and orgasm From Mare Simone: Enjoy this powerfully vulnerable, personal review about Tantric Touch-Therapy ...
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“Letting Go of Pain- Stepping Into Your Sexual Power”

Letting Go Of Pain Letting Go Of Pain - Written by, Makena Andrews “My life was never mine until I ...
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The Sexual Priestess Tenets

The Sexual Priestess is an ancient archetype that is returning to our consciousness to be reactivated. The Sexual Priestess nourishes ...
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Sacred Tantric Self-Pleasure Rituals

Sacred Tantric Self-Pleasure Rituals Moving Energy into your Heart More writings by Dakini Oceana Now is the Time Well, here we ...
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A Women’s Place is Power

Women Women we can have it ALL. At the expense of no one. Sometimes it can be edgy for me ...
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What About Your Sexual Intelligence Quotient?

We all know about IQ, emotional intelligence, kinesthetic intelligence, and so forth. But what do we know about sexual intelligence? ...
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Why work with a Sacred Intimate?

Why work with a Sacred Intimate? We all encounter at one point blocks that holds us back from living our ...
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What Is Your Erotic Signature?

What Is Your Erotic Signature? Signatures are like snowflakes; no two are alike. My signature is uniquely my own and has ...
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What Is A Yoni Egg?

The origin of the Yoni Egg: The Yoni Egg is made of a smooth, non-porous, semi-precious gemstone and carved into ...
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Relationship Coaching for Couples

Relationship Coaching for Couples 8 Relationship Dynamics that Drive Couples to my Virtual Door by Corinne Farago I love my ...
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Female Sexuality and Healing (pt 2)

[This is the second in a series. For the first part - see: Female Sexual Dysfunction.] Female Sexuality and Healing ...
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sex and aging

Orgasms, Cougars, and Wizards: 8 Myths of Sex and Aging

A few myths: 1)  Old folks don’t have sex: One of the most loving things older folks can tell young ...
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Experiment: Excitement, Arousal, Breath and Transformation

 Experiment: Excitement, Arousal, Breath and Transformation I have to admit--I love it when someone tells me, right before an erotic ...
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Knowing Your Sexual Style Can Improve Your Sex Life

One of the many reasons that couples struggle in the bedroom is because they may have a different sexual style ...
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The Secret of the G-spot is Connection

What is the G-Spot? A sensitive area of the anterior wall of the vagina believed by some to be highly ...
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Lack of Sexual Desire in Women

Lack of Sexual Desire in Women by Melissa St Mari The most common problem women have in relationships is lack ...
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5 Elements Tantra Massage

This is the 3rd in a series of 3 articles. See: Female Sexual Dysfunction and Female Sexuality and Healing. 5 ...
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How to Choose a Practitioner

How to Choose a Practitioner and how to prepare for your appointment. How to choose the right practitioner for you ...
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The Secret Spice

The Secret Spice How to find what you are craving in sex? by Tracy Lee What does your sex life ...
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happy relationship

Cultivating Happy Relationships . . . and finding dishsoap

Cultivating Happy Relationships . . .and finding dishsoap I was interviewed by a very sweet man and woman who are ...
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Positively Kinky: Explore Kink to Strengthen Intimacy and Connection

Wikipedia defines Kink as “unconventional sexual practices.” We have all fantasized or secretly desired what may be considered unconventional. It’s ...
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Advice for Men to Last Longer and Enjoy More Erotic Energy and Heart Connection

Being able to last as long as I like and choose when I have an orgasm is something that I ...
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Who is this for?

Investing in intimacy by Tracy Lee Investing in intimacy - Mike says, “Hey, Sally, let’s go out to dinner.” Who ...
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Sexual Transmutation (Wand of Light, pt 2)

Sexual Transmutation (Master Your Wand of Light, Part 2) (Part 1: Mastering Your Wand of Light) We left off from ...
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5 Steps to Unlock Ecstatic Pleasure

5 Easy Steps to Begin Unlocking Sexually Ecstatic Pleasure 1.  CREATE A SAFE SPACE. Most of us underestimate the importance of actually ...
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Understanding Nuances of Desire and Arousal

Arousal Arousal - Do you like peanut butter and jelly sandwiches? Peanut butter goes so well with jelly that we easily ...
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Poetry – by Inara Grace

Poetry Poetry- Rippling waves of heat rise, shimmering, across the torso's atmosphere, taking my tripping sweet heart by the hand, ...
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Melissa St Mari’s Couples Course

Melissa St Mari Couples Course How my couples course helped a marriage go from no sex and fighting to being ...
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Intimate Advice: a Q & A on Love and Sex

What does it really take to stay intimate with a partner and continue to enjoy your own sexuality? How does ...
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What is Tantra? What’s it like to work with people about their sexuality? What are some tips for more intimacy and connection with my partner? What can I do to help myself with challenge like erectile problems or lack of confidence? All this and much more in these articles on Tantra, sacred sexuality, intimacy and love.