100 Days of Tantra
By a Student I suspect that I entered the world of tantra like a lot of other people…by accident. I ...
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5 Tips For Giving Great Sensual Touch
Giving great sensual touch with your hands is the most important sexual skill you can have. If your sex life ...
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Awareness and Sensuality
If I would have to sum up my definition of Tantra and my practice in the most simplified way, I ...
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Sex Magic for Gay Men
Harnessing the Creative Potential of Pure Erotic Joy The potency and potential of what two sexually-charged male lovers hold in ...
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Millennials and Intimacy: What’s Not Adding Up?
For the past few years, publications like Mic, The Atlantic, and even TIME have pointed out that millennials have been ...
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Experiment: Excitement, Arousal, Breath and Transformation
Experiment: Excitement, Arousal, Breath and Transformation I have to admit--I love it when someone tells me, right before an erotic ...
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How Love & Desire Differ
How Love and Desire Differ Ask yourself, “How does it feel to be loved by someone?” And then ask, “How does it ...
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Permitting More Pleasure in Your Life
As a sex and intimacy coach, my most important job is to give people permission to have more fun. I’m ...
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Tantric Peace in the Face of Violence
Tantric Peace in the Face of Violence The reports of senseless violence are dominating the airwaves recently. Just when we ...
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Pornography: Pros, Cons, & How to Watch It
Pornography: Pros, Cons, and How to Watch It As a sex and Intimacy coach I decided since porn is a ...
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Women, Sex, and Evolution
Women, Sex, and Evolution It’s said that the feminine is rising. While having developed their ‘masculine’ capacities over the past ...
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Female Sexual Dysfunction and Yoni Massage
[This is the first of a series of 3 articles - see the end for links to the others.] Female ...
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Re-claiming Your Heart’s Safe Place
A client said to me today, "I want to continue on this path of creating more erotic pleasure. What would ...
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Advice for Men to Last Longer and Enjoy More Erotic Energy and Heart Connection
Being able to last as long as I like and choose when I have an orgasm is something that I ...
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Home Play: Mastering Your Sexual Energy
Mastering one's sexual energy takes some practice. Whatever you train your body to do alone will make it that much ...
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Knowing Your Sexual Style Can Improve Your Sex Life
One of the many reasons that couples struggle in the bedroom is because they may have a different sexual style ...
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Cultivating Happy Relationships . . . and finding dishsoap
Cultivating Happy Relationships . . .and finding dishsoap I was interviewed by a very sweet man and woman who are ...
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Giving an Ecstatic Yoni Healing Massage Session
This is a comprehensive compilation of much research and study on women’s sexual response. It incorporates information from Charles and ...
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What is Erotic?
When we hear the word erotic we often think, “Oh my God, hot and endless passion and hard-action genital aerobics. ...
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Increase Intimacy for more Powerful Orgasms
Here's an article posted recently, interviewing Mare Simone - titled 'A tantric sex surrogate explains how to increase intimacy for ...
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What About Your Sexual Intelligence Quotient?
We all know about IQ, emotional intelligence, kinesthetic intelligence, and so forth. But what do we know about sexual intelligence? ...
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Orgasms, Cougars, and Wizards: 8 Myths of Sex and Aging
A few myths: 1) Old folks don’t have sex: One of the most loving things older folks can tell young ...
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Sacred Touch – The Magical Art of Laying on Hands
Touch in our modern culture is a very touchy subject. There are right ways and there are wrong ways. There ...
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What Is Your Erotic Signature?
What Is Your Erotic Signature? Signatures are like snowflakes; no two are alike. My signature is uniquely my own and has ...
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Performance Anxiety
Performance anxiety runs rampant in our sexual beings. It is an issue which evolves from our concept that we need ...
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Silent Suffering and Superhero Syndrome
Silent Suffering - and - Superhero Syndrome When I worked as a professional companion it was not uncommon to hear ...
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Re-thinking Sex: Celebration, not Performance!
Re-thinking Sex: Celebration, not Performance! What if sex were not a performance, but a celebration? Would that change how we ...
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The First Step to Sexual Enlightenment: Conscious Breathing
Breath is the essence of life. From our first moments fresh from the womb until the last sigh of death ...
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Multiple Orgasms for Men – Fact or Fiction?
Pop culture is rife with references to women being multi-orgasmic. Women are generally more sensual, sensitive, and nurturing than men ...
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The Secret of the G-spot is Connection
What is the G-Spot? A sensitive area of the anterior wall of the vagina believed by some to be highly ...
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What Is A Yoni Egg?
The origin of the Yoni Egg: The Yoni Egg is made of a smooth, non-porous, semi-precious gemstone and carved into ...
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Touching without a Goal
At our recent introductory tantra day, we spent the afternoon exploring the Wheel of Consent. It's derived from the Three ...
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Why work with a Sacred Intimate?
Why work with a Sacred Intimate? We all encounter at one point blocks that holds us back from living our ...
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Asking for What You Want
Asking for What You Want Ask for what you want - everybody already knows that, right? How many times have ...
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How I Spent My Summer Vacation: Embracing Celibacy
The history books may remember the Summer of 2016 as a fight for our Democratic values as we faced, an ...
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Your Wand of Light
Master Your Wand of Light “Lingam” is an empowering Tantra term for a man’s sex organ! It comes from Sanskrit ...
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The Sacred Sexual Priestess
I love this ancient poem describing the sacred marriage ritual which was performed often yearly for more than two millennia ...
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How my Yoni Massage brought unexpected healing and orgasm
How my Yoni Massage brought unexpected healing and orgasm From Mare Simone: Enjoy this powerfully vulnerable, personal review about Tantric Touch-Therapy ...
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Banish Shame and Experience More Pleasure
Before I became a sex and intimacy coach, I didn’t spend a lot of time thinking about shame. I understood ...
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Female Sexuality and Healing (pt 2)
[This is the second in a series. For the first part - see: Female Sexual Dysfunction.] Female Sexuality and Healing ...
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The Kissing Game
At one time in my life, I had the most wonderful kisser for a boyfriend, so I was surprised when ...
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Why Women Fake Orgasms (and what to do instead)
Why Women Fake Orgasms (and what to do instead) Ladies, if you are faking orgasms, please rest assured that you ...
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Prostate Massage 101
This is not medical advice! Please consult your physician with questions! What is the prostate and its function in the ...
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Intimate Advice: a Q & A on Love and Sex
What does it really take to stay intimate with a partner and continue to enjoy your own sexuality? How does ...
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5 Elements Tantra Massage
This is the 3rd in a series of 3 articles. See: Female Sexual Dysfunction and Female Sexuality and Healing. 5 ...
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5 Steps to Unlock Ecstatic Pleasure
5 Easy Steps to Begin Unlocking Sexually Ecstatic Pleasure 1. CREATE A SAFE SPACE. Most of us underestimate the importance of actually ...
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Is It Better to Give or to Receive in Sex?
Is It Better to Give or to Receive in Sex? Do you have a difficult time of just relaxing and ...
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Couples’ Puja
A Tantra Ritual for Couples In our day to day living we often get caught up in the activity and ...
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Sexual Transmutation (Wand of Light, pt 2)
Sexual Transmutation (Master Your Wand of Light, Part 2) (Part 1: Mastering Your Wand of Light) We left off from ...
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What is Tantra? An Interview with Anna Marti
What is Tantra? An Interview with Anna Marti Anna Marti is a "sex and spirit" counselor and intimacy coach in ...
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Tantra For The Single Life
Single? You may be wondering how Tantra applies to you. How can you practice Tantra without a partner? How could ...
ArrayWhat is Tantra? What’s it like to work with people about their sexuality? What are some tips for more intimacy and connection with my partner? What can I do to help myself with challenge like erectile problems or lack of confidence? All this and much more in these articles on Tantra, sacred sexuality, intimacy and love.