Millennials and Intimacy: What’s Not Adding Up?
For the past few years, publications like Mic, The Atlantic, and even TIME have pointed out that millennials have been ...
Tantric Touch ~ What is it?
BLISS-touch (tantric touch) - what is it? The usual translation of the word tantra is "liberation through expansion.” How can ...
Intimacy and Passion in the Presence of Cancer
You may be on the road to healing, but who can help you pick up the pieces of your sexual ...
Touch, Touch and More Touch
Touch Touch and More Touch by Tracy Lee Those of you who know me well know how much I love ...
Couples’ Puja
A Tantra Ritual for Couples In our day to day living we often get caught up in the activity and ...
Female Archetypes and ‘the Girl in the Cave’
“ Once upon a time there was all but oneness: All was God and God was All, no separation, only ...
5 Steps to Unlock Ecstatic Pleasure
5 Easy Steps to Begin Unlocking Sexually Ecstatic Pleasure 1. CREATE A SAFE SPACE. Most of us underestimate the importance of actually ...
Advice for Men to Last Longer and Enjoy More Erotic Energy and Heart Connection
Being able to last as long as I like and choose when I have an orgasm is something that I ...
Sexual Dysfunction in Men
Sexual Dysfunction including erectile dysfunction (ED), premature ejaculation (PE), prostate issues, and porn addiction in men. by Melissa St Mari ...
What Is A Yoni Egg?
The origin of the Yoni Egg: The Yoni Egg is made of a smooth, non-porous, semi-precious gemstone and carved into ...
Prostate Massage 101
This is not medical advice! Please consult your physician with questions! What is the prostate and its function in the ...
Intimate Advice: a Q & A on Love and Sex
What does it really take to stay intimate with a partner and continue to enjoy your own sexuality? How does ...
Asking for What You Want
Asking for What You Want Ask for what you want - everybody already knows that, right? How many times have ...
The Artforms of BDSM & Boundassage
The Artforms of BDSM and Boundassage: Heightening Intensity and Pushing Boundaries More writings by Dakini Oceana Do you enjoy senso-sexual ...
What About Your Sexual Intelligence Quotient?
We all know about IQ, emotional intelligence, kinesthetic intelligence, and so forth. But what do we know about sexual intelligence? ...
Lack of Sexual Desire in Women
Lack of Sexual Desire in Women by Melissa St Mari The most common problem women have in relationships is lack ...
Approach, Anticipation, and Desire
Approach Anticipation and Desire by Tracy Lee Approach Anticipation and Desire - When helping clients with intimacy I often ask, ...
Knowing Your Sexual Style Can Improve Your Sex Life
One of the many reasons that couples struggle in the bedroom is because they may have a different sexual style ...
Defining Connection vs Intimacy
Defining Connection versus Intimacy by Tracy Lee Recently my partner and I had what I thought was the most connective, ...
Tomatoes for the Broken-Hearted
Tomatoes for the Broken-Hearted How to heal after a break up by Tallulah @tallulahillos.e Tomatoes for the Broken-Hearted is a ...
Sex and the Boomer Legacy
Aging comes only to those who live long enough to experience it. If that's you, do you view aging as ...
The Man With No Legs
“Got one for you at the Marriott,” the man from her service said. “His name is Dan. Call me when ...
Re-claiming Your Heart’s Safe Place
A client said to me today, "I want to continue on this path of creating more erotic pleasure. What would ...
The First Step to Sexual Enlightenment: Conscious Breathing
Breath is the essence of life. From our first moments fresh from the womb until the last sigh of death ...
Permitting More Pleasure in Your Life
As a sex and intimacy coach, my most important job is to give people permission to have more fun. I’m ...
Top 10 States for Tantric Massage
Top 10 States for Tantric Massage Let’s keep this simple. You are travelling across the states and want to know ...
What is Tantra? An Interview with Anna Marti
What is Tantra? An Interview with Anna Marti Anna Marti is a "sex and spirit" counselor and intimacy coach in ...
What Is Your Erotic Signature?
What Is Your Erotic Signature? Signatures are like snowflakes; no two are alike. My signature is uniquely my own and has ...
Tantra For The Single Life
Single? You may be wondering how Tantra applies to you. How can you practice Tantra without a partner? How could ...
Tantric Tips
Treat yourself to a Tantric Massage & Take away Intimacy Tips by Liberty Storm A Tantric full-body sensual massage is ...
Awareness and Sensuality
If I would have to sum up my definition of Tantra and my practice in the most simplified way, I ...
Cultivating Happy Relationships . . . and finding dishsoap
Cultivating Happy Relationships . . .and finding dishsoap I was interviewed by a very sweet man and woman who are ...
Giving an Ecstatic Yoni Healing Massage Session
This is a comprehensive compilation of much research and study on women’s sexual response. It incorporates information from Charles and ...
A Women’s Place is Power
Women Women we can have it ALL. At the expense of no one. Sometimes it can be edgy for me ...
Who is this for?
Investing in intimacy by Tracy Lee Investing in intimacy - Mike says, “Hey, Sally, let’s go out to dinner.” Who ...
Men – Learn to have Multiple Orgasms
Men - Learn to have Multiple Orgasms Before Ejaculating! by Melissa St Mari Yes, men can orgasm without ejaculating and ...
The Secret of the G-spot is Connection
What is the G-Spot? A sensitive area of the anterior wall of the vagina believed by some to be highly ...
Increase Intimacy for more Powerful Orgasms
Here's an article posted recently, interviewing Mare Simone - titled 'A tantric sex surrogate explains how to increase intimacy for ...
Positively Kinky: Explore Kink to Strengthen Intimacy and Connection
Wikipedia defines Kink as “unconventional sexual practices.” We have all fantasized or secretly desired what may be considered unconventional. It’s ...
The Secret Spice
The Secret Spice How to find what you are craving in sex? by Tracy Lee What does your sex life ...
Melissa St Mari’s Couples Course
Melissa St Mari Couples Course How my couples course helped a marriage go from no sex and fighting to being ...
Becoming Bob – The Shameless Art of Loving Vaginas
Becoming Bob The Shameless Art of Loving Vaginas (And an invitation into an online exploration for couples) by Corinne Farago ...
Sex Magic for Gay Men, by Brad Amberheart.
Harnessing the Creative Potential of Pure Erotic Joy by Brad Amberheart (Bradamberheart.com) The potency and potential of what two sexually-charged ...
Sacred Tantric Self-Pleasure Rituals
Sacred Tantric Self-Pleasure Rituals Moving Energy into your Heart More writings by Dakini Oceana Now is the Time Well, here we ...
Consult on Female Ejaculation
Consult on Female Ejaculation by Tracy Lee I was contacted by a woman interested in female ejaculation who was wondering ...
5 Reasons You Need Ejaculatory Choice and Orgasmic Mastery
5 Reasons You Need Ejaculatory Choice and Orgasmic Mastery by Melissa St Mari Ejaculatory Choice and Orgasmic Mastery are essential ...
How my Yoni Massage brought unexpected healing and orgasm
How my Yoni Massage brought unexpected healing and orgasm From Mare Simone: Enjoy this powerfully vulnerable, personal review about Tantric Touch-Therapy ...
How Love & Desire Differ
How Love and Desire Differ Ask yourself, “How does it feel to be loved by someone?” And then ask, “How does it ...
Sexual Trauma and PTSD
Sexual Trauma and PTSD keep painful memories from our past alive and present in our day to day lives. Hypnotherapy uses ...
Tantric Peace in the Face of Violence
Tantric Peace in the Face of Violence The reports of senseless violence are dominating the airwaves recently. Just when we ...
5 Elements Tantra Massage
This is the 3rd in a series of 3 articles. See: Female Sexual Dysfunction and Female Sexuality and Healing. 5 ...
Multiple Orgasms for Men – Fact or Fiction?
Pop culture is rife with references to women being multi-orgasmic. Women are generally more sensual, sensitive, and nurturing than men ...
Touching without a Goal
At our recent introductory tantra day, we spent the afternoon exploring the Wheel of Consent. It's derived from the Three ...
Honoring Our Bodies: The Benefits of Cultivating Organic Pleasures
Learning to Love our Bodies The body is your beginning. Yogic masters say that your body is: “Matter ascending toward spirit; spirit ...
Yoni Massage 101
Sssshhhh… I want to share with you something very secret and very sacred. Something most people would never dream about ...
Relationship Coaching for Couples
Relationship Coaching for Couples 8 Relationship Dynamics that Drive Couples to my Virtual Door by Corinne Farago I love my ...
Re-thinking Sex: Celebration, not Performance!
Re-thinking Sex: Celebration, not Performance! What if sex were not a performance, but a celebration? Would that change how we ...
Women, Sex, and Evolution
Women, Sex, and Evolution It’s said that the feminine is rising. While having developed their ‘masculine’ capacities over the past ...
Welcome to Sacred Eros
Welcome to Sacred Eros Who we are, what we do and why we do it. Who we are Welcome to ...
Orgasms, Cougars, and Wizards: 8 Myths of Sex and Aging
A few myths: 1) Old folks don’t have sex: One of the most loving things older folks can tell young ...
Sacred Touch – The Magical Art of Laying on Hands
Touch in our modern culture is a very touchy subject. There are right ways and there are wrong ways. There ...
The Sacred Sexual Priestess
I love this ancient poem describing the sacred marriage ritual which was performed often yearly for more than two millennia ...
100 Days of Tantra
By a Student I suspect that I entered the world of tantra like a lot of other people…by accident. I ...
“Letting Go of Pain- Stepping Into Your Sexual Power”
Letting Go Of Pain Letting Go Of Pain - Written by, Makena Andrews “My life was never mine until I ...
Pornography: Pros, Cons, & How to Watch It
Pornography: Pros, Cons, and How to Watch It As a sex and Intimacy coach I decided since porn is a ...
Clitoris Uncovered
The Mysterious Clitoris Uncovered and Tips on Stimulation More writings by Dakini Oceana The Mysterious Clitoris Uncovered - Goddesses, would ...
Silent Suffering and Superhero Syndrome
Silent Suffering - and - Superhero Syndrome When I worked as a professional companion it was not uncommon to hear ...
Female Sexuality and Healing (pt 2)
[This is the second in a series. For the first part - see: Female Sexual Dysfunction.] Female Sexuality and Healing ...
How to become a Dream Client by Liberty Storm
How to become a Dream Client Dear Tantric Newbie, How to become a Dream Client, I have been an independent ...
Performance Anxiety
Performance anxiety runs rampant in our sexual beings. It is an issue which evolves from our concept that we need ...
Sexual Transmutation (Wand of Light, pt 2)
Sexual Transmutation (Master Your Wand of Light, Part 2) (Part 1: Mastering Your Wand of Light) We left off from ...
Understanding Nuances of Desire and Arousal
Arousal Arousal - Do you like peanut butter and jelly sandwiches? Peanut butter goes so well with jelly that we easily ...
Prostate Problems Doesn’t Mean Intimacy is Over
Prostate Problems Doesn’t Mean Intimacy is Over by Tracy Lee Prostate problems are frequent and cancer is one of the ...
Banish Shame and Experience More Pleasure
Before I became a sex and intimacy coach, I didn’t spend a lot of time thinking about shame. I understood ...
Is It Better to Give or to Receive in Sex?
Is It Better to Give or to Receive in Sex? Do you have a difficult time of just relaxing and ...
Poetry – by Inara Grace
Poetry Poetry- Rippling waves of heat rise, shimmering, across the torso's atmosphere, taking my tripping sweet heart by the hand, ...
The Sexual Priestess Tenets
The Sexual Priestess is an ancient archetype that is returning to our consciousness to be reactivated. The Sexual Priestess nourishes ...
Why Women Fake Orgasms (and what to do instead)
Why Women Fake Orgasms (and what to do instead) Ladies, if you are faking orgasms, please rest assured that you ...
Peaches
There’s a ceremony in Tantra that involves naming your genitalia. Some western traditions of sacred sexuality contain information about reconnecting ...
What is Erotic?
When we hear the word erotic we often think, “Oh my God, hot and endless passion and hard-action genital aerobics. ...
Why work with a Sacred Intimate?
Why work with a Sacred Intimate? We all encounter at one point blocks that holds us back from living our ...
Tantra in the City
How to live in big city and have a wholesome/awesome sustainable practice, even when you are most of the time ...
Your Wand of Light
Master Your Wand of Light “Lingam” is an empowering Tantra term for a man’s sex organ! It comes from Sanskrit ...
Rituals
Rituals by Tracy Lee “Honey, I’m home”, says the most important person in my life. “Mmm hmm” I mumble, not ...
5 Tips For Giving Great Sensual Touch
Giving great sensual touch with your hands is the most important sexual skill you can have. If your sex life ...
The Kissing Game
At one time in my life, I had the most wonderful kisser for a boyfriend, so I was surprised when ...
Experiment: Excitement, Arousal, Breath and Transformation
Experiment: Excitement, Arousal, Breath and Transformation I have to admit--I love it when someone tells me, right before an erotic ...
How I Spent My Summer Vacation: Embracing Celibacy
The history books may remember the Summer of 2016 as a fight for our Democratic values as we faced, an ...
Female Sexual Dysfunction and Yoni Massage
[This is the first of a series of 3 articles - see the end for links to the others.] Female ...
Home Play: Mastering Your Sexual Energy
Mastering one's sexual energy takes some practice. Whatever you train your body to do alone will make it that much ...
What is Tantra? What’s it like to work with people about their sexuality? What are some tips for more intimacy and connection with my partner? What can I do to help myself with challenge like erectile problems or lack of confidence? All this and much more in these articles on Tantra, sacred sexuality, intimacy and love.