female sexuality

Female Sexuality and Healing (pt 2)

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How I Spent My Summer Vacation: Embracing Celibacy

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Is It Better to Give or to Receive in Sex?

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Asking for What You Want

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How Love & Desire Differ

How Love and Desire Differ Ask yourself, “How does it feel to be loved by someone?”  And then ask, “How does it ...
happy relationship

Cultivating Happy Relationships . . . and finding dishsoap

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Best All-around Lubricants

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Defining Connection vs Intimacy

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Relationship Coaching for Couples

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Sex, Money and Power

Sex, Money and Power by JagLion A threesome more sacred to most than The Holy Trinity.  The music we listen ...

The Kissing Game

At one time in my life, I had the most wonderful kisser for a boyfriend, so I was surprised when ...

How to Choose a Practitioner

How to Choose a Practitioner and how to prepare for your appointment. How to choose the right practitioner for you ...

What are the secrets to maintaining spark and desire for couples?

What is Tantra? What is Sacred Sexuality?

What can they teach us about ourselves for a closer connection and more satisfying sex? What are some tips for more intimacy and connection with my partner?

All this and much more in these articles on Tantra, sacred sexuality, intimacy and love.

For example:

Ask yourself, “How does it feel to be loved by someone?”  And then ask, “How does it feel to be desired by someone?”  You may be surprised how differently love and desire feel in relationship. Being loved feels comfortable, secure, anchored, being taken care of.   Love feels safe and secure, like a melting together.

Yet, love is not aways enough.  We humans have another basic need–our desire for adventure, novelty, surprise, taking risks and even flirting with danger, like a coming apart.  Now it gets interesting when, as in our culture, one person is supposed to fill all our needs–both our need for love/security, as well as our desire to dabble, autonomously, in the unpredictable, uncharted and risky. Desires are like dreams, we do not choose them they come to us. Our desires are our highest intelligence, turning our world, charting our destiny.

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