Sexual Trauma and PTSD
Permitting More Pleasure in Your Life
Tomatoes for the Broken-Hearted
Tantra For The Single Life
What Is Your Erotic Signature?
Welcome to Sacred Eros
The Man With No Legs
The First Step to Sexual Enlightenment: Conscious Breathing
The Secret Spice
Giving an Ecstatic Yoni Healing Massage Session
True Story! Last weekend I saw a couple here in Asheville for another tantra retreat!
How to Choose a Practitioner
What is Sacred Sexuality?
Where did it come from and what can it teach me about awareness and presence? Is there something different about sex when we see it as sacred?
What does sacred mean? What are some tips for more intimacy and connection with my partner?
All this and much more in these articles on Tantra, sacred sexuality, intimacy and love.
As a sex and intimacy coach, my most important job is to give people permission to have more fun. I’m a pleasure activist. My mantras are “Choose fun. Do it for you. Have it your way. Say yes to desires—and express them!” I encourage women to flirt, turn themselves on, and brag. I help men trade in their intellectual minds and preoccupation with “doing” for timeless moments enjoying and feeling in their bodies. I see a softness wash over the faces of my clients, liveliness and hope returns, and the hidden girl or boy comes out to play. I’ve seen it and I love watching it happen.
I like to imagine a world serious about pleasure. You greet a friend excitedly: “Want to hear about the greatest orgasm I had last night?” Or, “The funniest thing happened when I was self-pleasuring in the laundry room this morning.” Or, teasingly, “Did I ever tell you about my imaginary lover?” We’re all ears. We’re kids at heart. When did we stop playing? When can we start again?