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Touching without a Goal

At our recent introductory tantra day, we spent the afternoon exploring the Wheel of Consent. It's derived from the Three ...

Top 10 States for Tantric Massage

Top 10 States for Tantric Massage Let’s keep this simple. You are travelling across the states and want to know ...

Female Archetypes and ‘the Girl in the Cave’

“ Once upon a time there was all but oneness: All was God and God was All, no separation, only ...

What is Tantra? An Interview with Anna Marti

What is Tantra? An Interview with Anna Marti Anna Marti is a "sex and spirit" counselor and intimacy coach in ...
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Awareness and Sensuality

If I would have to sum up my definition of Tantra and my practice in the most simplified way, I ...

Honoring Our Bodies: The Benefits of Cultivating Organic Pleasures

Learning to Love our Bodies   The body is your beginning. Yogic masters say that your body is: “Matter ascending toward spirit; spirit ...

5 Reasons You Need Ejaculatory Choice and Orgasmic Mastery

5 Reasons You Need Ejaculatory Choice and Orgasmic Mastery by Melissa St Mari Ejaculatory Choice and Orgasmic Mastery are essential ...

Tantric Touch ~ What is it?

BLISS-touch (tantric touch) - what is it? The usual translation of the word tantra is "liberation through expansion.” How can ...

Millennials and Intimacy: What’s Not Adding Up?

For the past few years, publications like Mic, The Atlantic, and even TIME have pointed out that millennials have been ...

Sexual Transmutation (Wand of Light, pt 2)

Sexual Transmutation (Master Your Wand of Light, Part 2) (Part 1: Mastering Your Wand of Light) We left off from ...
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Increase Intimacy for more Powerful Orgasms

Here's an article posted recently, interviewing Mare Simone - titled 'A tantric sex surrogate explains how to increase intimacy for ...

Transform Sexual Challenges into Gifts

Transform Sexual Challenges (like Premature Ejaculation) into Gifts by Kiya Sexual problems are more common than many people realise. It’s ...

Sex, Money and Power

Sex, Money and Power by JagLion A threesome more sacred to most than The Holy Trinity.  The music we listen ...

Re-claiming Your Heart’s Safe Place

A client said to me today, "I want to continue on this path of creating more erotic pleasure.  What would ...
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Your Wand of Light

Master Your Wand of Light “Lingam” is an empowering Tantra term for a man’s sex organ! It comes from Sanskrit ...

Tantra For The Single Life

Single? You may be wondering how Tantra applies to you. How can you practice Tantra without a partner? How could ...

How is Sacred Eros Different from Escorting Websites?

What is Sacred Eros and how is How is Sacred Eros Different from Escorting Websites? by Joshua Sacred Eros is ...

What About Your Sexual Intelligence Quotient?

We all know about IQ, emotional intelligence, kinesthetic intelligence, and so forth. But what do we know about sexual intelligence? ...
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The First Step to Sexual Enlightenment: Conscious Breathing

Breath is the essence of life. From our first moments fresh from the womb until the last sigh of death ...
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Multiple Orgasms for Men – Fact or Fiction?

Pop culture is rife with references to women being multi-orgasmic. Women are generally more sensual, sensitive, and nurturing than men ...

How to Choose a Practitioner

How to Choose a Practitioner and how to prepare for your appointment. How to choose the right practitioner for you ...

How I Spent My Summer Vacation: Embracing Celibacy

The history books may remember the Summer of 2016 as a fight for our Democratic values as we faced, an ...

5 Steps to Owning Your Jealousy in Relationships

5 Steps to Owning Your Jealousy in Relationships Jealousy can be the ultimate poison to relationships. It can also be ...

The Best Essential Oils for Tantra and Sensual Massage

The Best Essential Oils for Tantra and Sensual Massage By Joshua Tantra massage is a sensual and intimate practice that ...
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Experiment: Excitement, Arousal, Breath and Transformation

 Experiment: Excitement, Arousal, Breath and Transformation I have to admit--I love it when someone tells me, right before an erotic ...

Becoming Bob – The Shameless Art of Loving Vaginas

Becoming Bob The Shameless Art of Loving Vaginas (And an invitation into an online exploration for couples) by Corinne Farago ...
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5 Elements Tantra Massage

This is the 3rd in a series of 3 articles. See: Female Sexual Dysfunction and Female Sexuality and Healing. 5 ...

Melissa St Mari’s Couples Course

Melissa St Mari Couples Course How my couples course helped a marriage go from no sex and fighting to being ...

Goddess Maggie – So You Want to Book a Session

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Relationships are Nourishing, Natural Medicine

Nourishing, Natural Medicine by Dakini Oceana Relationships are Nourishing, Natural Medicine Human happiness leads to health and fulfillment over a ...

Home Play: Mastering Your Sexual Energy

Mastering one's sexual energy takes some practice. Whatever you train your body to do alone will make it that much ...

The Rise of Tantra Festivals

Why Tantra Festivals Are Growing in Popularity Globally Provided by Oshun Love Tantra Festivals are definitely on the rise. After ...

Is It Better to Give or to Receive in Sex?

Is It Better to Give or to Receive in Sex? Do you have a difficult time of just relaxing and ...
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Couples’ Puja

A Tantra Ritual for Couples In our day to day living we often get caught up in the activity and ...

Reactive vs Responsive Desire

Reactive vs Responsive Desire by Tracy Lee Reactive vs Responsive Desire in Intimacy, a story of Paul and Mary.  I ...
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Tantra in the City

How to live in big city and have a wholesome/awesome sustainable practice, even when you are most of the time ...

100 Days of Tantra

By a Student I suspect that I entered the world of tantra like a lot of other people…by accident. I ...

What is Erotic?

When we hear the word erotic we often think, “Oh my God, hot and endless passion and hard-action genital aerobics.  ...

True Story! Last weekend I saw a couple here in Asheville for another tantra retreat!

True Story! Last weekend I saw a couple here in Asheville for another tantra retreat! This is a true story ...

Tantric Tips

Treat yourself to a Tantric Massage & Take away Intimacy Tips by Liberty Storm A Tantric full-body sensual massage is ...

Rituals

Rituals by Tracy Lee “Honey, I’m home”, says the most important person in my life.  “Mmm hmm” I mumble, not ...

Sex Magic for Gay Men, by Brad Amberheart.

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The Sexual Priestess Tenets

The Sexual Priestess is an ancient archetype that is returning to our consciousness to be reactivated. The Sexual Priestess nourishes ...
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Tantric Peace in the Face of Violence

Tantric Peace in the Face of Violence The reports of senseless violence are dominating the airwaves recently. Just when we ...

What is Tantra?

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All this and much more in these articles on Tantra, sacred sexuality, intimacy and love.

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When we hear the word erotic we often think, “Oh my God, hot and endless passion and hard-action genital aerobics.  Erotic, like the word sex, has been narrowly defined in culture to mean plumbing and pumping of body parts. I use the term in a much larger context.

I define erotic as “being truthful, vulnerable and compassionate about one’s sexual/sensual arousal, desires, fears, and pleasure in each moment.”  Erotic is ‘revealing’ what is going on in us instead of ‘concealing.’  Erotic is feeling safe to be who we are.  Erotic is not being judged.  Erotic is being spontaneous instead of having an agenda.  Erotic is being able to say ‘yes or no’ with ease to our partner, 100% of the time with a 100% full heart.  It’s a tall order, but worthy of practice…and mistakes, and more practice!

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