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Prostate Massage 101

This is not medical advice! Please consult your physician with questions! What is the prostate and its function in the ...

Home Play: Mastering Your Sexual Energy

Mastering one's sexual energy takes some practice. Whatever you train your body to do alone will make it that much ...
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Advice for Men to Last Longer and Enjoy More Erotic Energy and Heart Connection

Being able to last as long as I like and choose when I have an orgasm is something that I ...

Millennials and Intimacy: What’s Not Adding Up?

For the past few years, publications like Mic, The Atlantic, and even TIME have pointed out that millennials have been ...

Tantra For The Single Life

Single? You may be wondering how Tantra applies to you. How can you practice Tantra without a partner? How could ...

Asking for What You Want

Asking for What You Want Ask for what you want - everybody already knows that, right? How many times have ...

Banish Shame and Experience More Pleasure

Before I became a sex and intimacy coach, I didn’t spend a lot of time thinking about shame.  I understood ...

How I Spent My Summer Vacation: Embracing Celibacy

The history books may remember the Summer of 2016 as a fight for our Democratic values as we faced, an ...

Silent Suffering and Superhero Syndrome

Silent Suffering - and - Superhero Syndrome When I worked as a professional companion it was not uncommon to hear ...

Sexual Transmutation (Wand of Light, pt 2)

Sexual Transmutation (Master Your Wand of Light, Part 2) (Part 1: Mastering Your Wand of Light) We left off from ...
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Your Wand of Light

Master Your Wand of Light “Lingam” is an empowering Tantra term for a man’s sex organ! It comes from Sanskrit ...
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Pornography: Pros, Cons, & How to Watch It

Pornography: Pros, Cons, and How to Watch It As a sex and Intimacy coach I decided since porn is a ...
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Re-thinking Sex: Celebration, not Performance!

Re-thinking Sex: Celebration, not Performance! What if sex were not a performance, but a celebration? Would that change how we ...
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Experiment: Excitement, Arousal, Breath and Transformation

 Experiment: Excitement, Arousal, Breath and Transformation I have to admit--I love it when someone tells me, right before an erotic ...

What is sacred sex for men?

What if sex were not a performance, but a celebration?

Would that change how we feel about it and what we do with it? Would it change the way our hearts engage?

What are some tips for more intimacy and connection with my partner?

What can I do to help myself with challenge like erectile problems or lack of confidence?

All this and much more in these articles on Sacred Sex for men,Tantra, sacred sexuality, intimacy and love.


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What if sex were not a performance, but a celebration? Would that change how we feel about it and what we do with it? Would it change the way our hearts engage?

I have to admit–I love it when someone tells me, right before an erotic session, that they have a “premature ejaculation issue”. Why? Because I’ve guided numerous men in how to transform their so-called “premature ejaculation issue” into a source of great sexual fun. Over and over again, I’ve watched this so-called “problem” become the catalyst for some absolutely mind-blowing erotic experiences.

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