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Intimate Advice: a Q & A on Love and Sex

What does it really take to stay intimate with a partner and continue to enjoy your own sexuality? How does ...

The Secret of the G-spot is Connection

What is the G-Spot? A sensitive area of the anterior wall of the vagina believed by some to be highly ...

Performance Anxiety

Performance anxiety runs rampant in our sexual beings.  It is an issue which evolves from our concept that we need ...

Intimacy and Passion in the Presence of Cancer

You may be on the road to healing, but who can help you pick up the pieces of your sexual ...

5 Tips For Giving Great Sensual Touch

Giving great sensual touch with your hands is the most important sexual skill you can have.  If your sex life ...

The Kissing Game

At one time in my life, I had the most wonderful kisser for a boyfriend, so I was surprised when ...

How Love & Desire Differ

How Love and Desire Differ Ask yourself, “How does it feel to be loved by someone?”  And then ask, “How does it ...

Banish Shame and Experience More Pleasure

Before I became a sex and intimacy coach, I didn’t spend a lot of time thinking about shame.  I understood ...
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Sex and the Boomer Legacy

Aging comes only to those who live long enough to experience it. If that's you, do you view aging as ...
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Increase Intimacy for more Powerful Orgasms

Here's an article posted recently, interviewing Mare Simone - titled 'A tantric sex surrogate explains how to increase intimacy for ...

Knowing Your Sexual Style Can Improve Your Sex Life

One of the many reasons that couples struggle in the bedroom is because they may have a different sexual style ...
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Touching without a Goal

At our recent introductory tantra day, we spent the afternoon exploring the Wheel of Consent. It's derived from the Three ...
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What are the secrets to maintaining spark and desire for couples?

What is Tantra? What is Sacred Sexuality?

What can they teach us about ourselves for a closer connection and more satisfying sex? What are some tips for more intimacy and connection with my partner?

All this and much more in these articles on Tantra, sacred sexuality, intimacy and love.

For example:

Ask yourself, “How does it feel to be loved by someone?”  And then ask, “How does it feel to be desired by someone?”  You may be surprised how differently love and desire feel in relationship. Being loved feels comfortable, secure, anchored, being taken care of.   Love feels safe and secure, like a melting together.

Yet, love is not aways enough.  We humans have another basic need–our desire for adventure, novelty, surprise, taking risks and even flirting with danger, like a coming apart.  Now it gets interesting when, as in our culture, one person is supposed to fill all our needs–both our need for love/security, as well as our desire to dabble, autonomously, in the unpredictable, uncharted and risky. Desires are like dreams, we do not choose them they come to us. Our desires are our highest intelligence, turning our world, charting our destiny.

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