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Couples’ Puja

A Tantra Ritual for Couples In our day to day living we often get caught up in the activity and ...

Positively Kinky: Explore Kink to Strengthen Intimacy and Connection

Wikipedia defines Kink as “unconventional sexual practices.” We have all fantasized or secretly desired what may be considered unconventional. It’s ...

The Secret of the G-spot is Connection

What is the G-Spot? A sensitive area of the anterior wall of the vagina believed by some to be highly ...

Asking for What You Want

Asking for What You Want Ask for what you want - everybody already knows that, right? How many times have ...

Intimacy and Passion in the Presence of Cancer

You may be on the road to healing, but who can help you pick up the pieces of your sexual ...

How I Spent My Summer Vacation: Embracing Celibacy

The history books may remember the Summer of 2016 as a fight for our Democratic values as we faced, an ...
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Female Sexuality and Healing (pt 2)

[This is the second in a series. For the first part - see: Female Sexual Dysfunction.] Female Sexuality and Healing ...

Sacred Touch – The Magical Art of Laying on Hands

Touch in our modern culture is a very touchy subject.   There are right ways and there are wrong ways.  There ...

Intimate Advice: a Q & A on Love and Sex

What does it really take to stay intimate with a partner and continue to enjoy your own sexuality? How does ...

Banish Shame and Experience More Pleasure

Before I became a sex and intimacy coach, I didn’t spend a lot of time thinking about shame.  I understood ...

5 Tips For Giving Great Sensual Touch

Giving great sensual touch with your hands is the most important sexual skill you can have.  If your sex life ...

Knowing Your Sexual Style Can Improve Your Sex Life

One of the many reasons that couples struggle in the bedroom is because they may have a different sexual style ...
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What are the secrets to maintaining spark and desire for couples?

What is Tantra? What is Sacred Sexuality?

What can they teach us about ourselves for a closer connection and more satisfying sex? What are some tips for more intimacy and connection with my partner?

All this and much more in these articles on Tantra, sacred sexuality, intimacy and love.

For example:

Ask yourself, “How does it feel to be loved by someone?”  And then ask, “How does it feel to be desired by someone?”  You may be surprised how differently love and desire feel in relationship. Being loved feels comfortable, secure, anchored, being taken care of.   Love feels safe and secure, like a melting together.

Yet, love is not aways enough.  We humans have another basic need–our desire for adventure, novelty, surprise, taking risks and even flirting with danger, like a coming apart.  Now it gets interesting when, as in our culture, one person is supposed to fill all our needs–both our need for love/security, as well as our desire to dabble, autonomously, in the unpredictable, uncharted and risky. Desires are like dreams, we do not choose them they come to us. Our desires are our highest intelligence, turning our world, charting our destiny.

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