Intimacy Coach

Austin, TX

Introduction

Do you wonder what it would feel like to be held instead of always being the one holding everything together?

You show up for your work, your relationships, your responsibilities. You’re used to being the strong one, the one who provides, supports, and keeps things moving. But underneath that, something feels off. Intimacy may feel distant, or you may not be sure what you actually want anymore. You might feel tired of performing, overthinking, or holding everything in, without knowing how to shift it.

What’s Possible

This work helps you slow down enough to actually feel what’s true for you. When the body is living in stress or pressure, it becomes difficult to feel desire, access clarity, or express yourself honestly—because your system is focused on protection rather than connection.

Through guided sessions, you begin to move out of overthinking and into presence. As the nervous system relaxes, the body starts to release what it’s been holding, allowing you to recognize what you want, what you need, and where your boundaries are.

Clients often leave with:

The ability to say what they want without shutting down or overthinking
Feeling more at ease expressing needs and boundaries in their relationships
A deeper trust in what they feel instead of pushing it aside
The ability to stay present during intimacy instead of performing or disconnecting

This is not about fixing you. It’s about learning how to experience yourself and intimacy differently.

About Me

For a long time, I lived in overthinking, people-pleasing, and survival mode, trying to hold everything together instead of listening to myself.

My work is grounded in that lived experience, along with my training as a Dakini Tantra Practitioner with Lauren Harkness and mentorship with Anna Marti, whose work is rooted in the consent practices developed by Betty Martin.

I care deeply about creating spaces where people can be honest without pressure, and where real change happens through experience, not just conversation.

Intimacy Coach | Austin, TX | Lu

Sessions & Services

I offer two core ways to work together:

Sacred Return Sessions (In-Person)

A private 1:1 in-person space where we slow down and work with what is happening in your body and emotional experience. This is for those who feel disconnected from themselves, their desires, or their experience of intimacy. Through conversation, breathwork, and guided embodiment, we support the body in moving out of stress and into a state where clarity and connection can return. As your system relaxes, it becomes easier to access your desires, trust yourself, and communicate what you truly need.

One client came in feeling disconnected from herself and unable to express what she wanted in her marriage. As we slowed down, her body began to release stored emotional tension, and she was able to access her voice more clearly. She left feeling more confident communicating her needs and more connected to herself.

60 minutes — $400
90 minutes — $600

The Confessional (Virtual or In-Person)

A private 1:1 space for emotional honesty, reflection, and clarity, offered virtually or in person. This is for those navigating relationship challenges, emotional overwhelm, or desires they are ready to understand more deeply. When you are given space to speak honestly without judgment, clarity begins to surface naturally, leading to stronger boundaries and more confident communication.

One client came wanting to explore a part of himself he had been hiding. What he needed was not advice, but a space to be witnessed without judgment. Through the session, he was able to feel more at peace with himself instead of continuing to suppress that part of his identity.

60 minutes — $150
90 minutes — $222

Intimacy Coach | Austin, TX | Lu

Next Steps & Screening

If you feel drawn to this work, the process begins by completing my intake form. Once submitted, you’ll be invited to schedule a 15-minute discovery call.

The 15-minute discovery call is a space for us to briefly connect, explore what’s bringing you here, and determine if this work is the right fit. I may ask about your current challenges, what you’re hoping to shift, and what kind of support you’re looking for. You’ll also have space to ask questions about how I work.

The intake form allows you to share more about your background, intentions, and what you’re currently navigating. This helps me understand how to best support you and ensures that we enter the session with clarity and alignment.

I take time to connect with each potential client before booking. This process is in place to support safety, mutual respect, and a clear foundation for the work.

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I’m Lu, an Intimacy Coach.
I welcome:
women, men, all genders, couples, poly relationships

Lu ~ Intimacy Coach

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