My Tantric Guide and Sensual Domme service welcomes individuals of all genders and orientations and couples.
You’ve felt it for a long time. That quiet, insistent pull toward surrender. The longing to set down the weight of control and step into a space where someone else holds it all—for once. It’s thrilling. It’s terrifying. And maybe, up until now, it’s felt impossible to even say the words out loud. But here you are. And here I am.
This is the space where your unspoken desires meet skillful guidance, where your vulnerability becomes your strength, and where the freedom you’ve been yearning for finally begins.
Whether you’re stepping in for the first time or returning to explore new layers of surrender, I will meet you right where you are.
Tantric Guide Sensual Domme | San Fran, Washington DC | Anaïs
Why Surrender Matters
Far from weakness, surrender is about finding freedom—freedom to let go, to trust, to feel fully alive in your own skin. It’s about discovering who you are beneath the roles you play, the responsibilities you shoulder, and the stories you’ve told yourself about what you’re allowed to want.
In a session with me, you’ll find:
- Relief from the constant need to be in control.
- Safety of being in well trained, skillful hands.
- Permission to feel deeply and express freely.
- Tools for clear communication—how to ask for what you want, in this space and beyond.
- Freedom from shame, self-judgment, and hesitation.
- Playfulness that naturally imbues our time together with laughter and fun.
This is a place for growth as much as pleasure. The skills you develop here—trust, surrender, asking for and receiving what you need— ripple out into your relationships, work, and the rest of your life.
Who Will Hold You
I bring a decade of experience and training to my craft. As a well initiated Domme and Tantrika with a deep background in Zen practice, I understand the art of presence and connection. My approach combines the groundedness of Zen with the sensuality of Tantra, offering a space where the erotic and the spiritual meet.
What this means for you is that I know how to hold the complexity of your desires—your longing for release, your hesitations, your vulnerability—with skill and care. You’ll be met with unwavering attention, compassion, and a deep commitment to your growth and liberation.
What You’ll Experience
Together, we’ll explore what surrender means to you. That might look like a ceremony with rope and wax, where you feel held and cared for in a way you’ve never experienced. Or it might mean diving into the deeper layers of your longing to release shame, self-judgment, and control.
Here, you’ll learn to:
- Communicate clearly and confidently—about your desires, limits, and needs.
- Trust deeply—in yourself, in me, and in the container we create together.
- Embrace vulnerability as a source of power and connection.
- Release shame that has kept you small or hidden.
Are We a Match?
I work with clients who are a good fit for this is fun, deep, and liberatory work. I welcome those who are ready to approach this space with respect, curiosity, and courage. If that’s you, you’ll find a guide who delights in meeting you exactly where you are and walking with you toward where you want to be.
Dates: San Francisco, December 18th-21st. Washington DC, January 17th-23rd
Travel rates: $600 / hr
Your Invitation
If you’ve been carrying this desire quietly, perhaps for longer than you’d like to admit, I invite you to reach out. Step into a space where your desires are met without judgment. This is vulnerable territory, yes. Let’s let it be exhilarating, transformative, and profoundly freeing. I’ll meet you there—with bells on.
When you reach out, take the time to share a bit about who you are—what draws you to this work, what you’re ready to explore.
Taking the Next Step
Please text or email a message of introduction that includes:
- Your name, age, location.
- A few sentences about what you’re looking for from this experience.
- If you have any previous experience in this realm (no worries if you don’t)
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- Day / time preference for a session + session length.
From there I’ll reply with information on how to proceed.
For my safety and yours, please note that I require an intro call via phone or zoom, and 2 forms of ID (eg driver’s license + LinkedIn). The final step is a 20% deposit via Venmo or CashApp.
What They Are Saying
“Our time together was a portal, unbound by time or space. Your teachings were profound, subtle and obvious. Thank you.” – M.
“My main hesitation was a fear of aliveness, and since we had only recently met, my main concern was trust. In your presence, I felt so focused and alive. What you suggested as a path was intuitively perfect. You offered care, discipline, a promise that the best was yet to come, and ways for me to connect with my inner strength. You provided what you promised, and much more. I had a glimpse into that inner strength – what would be possible working together full time? Wow…” – K.
“I’ve never experienced anything like that before. Not even close.” – L.
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My Tantric Guide and Sensual Domme service welcomes individuals of all genders and orientations and couples.
