My Sacred Intimate and Life Coach service welcomes individuals of all genders and orientations, couples & poly relationships.
I am a trained sacred intimate, sex & intimacy educator, and life coach. In my practice I offer a safer place for you to expand your capacity for intimacy and authentic self-expression, through an embodied experience which can include erotic connection. This work is collaborative and mysterious, there is no formula, it is never the same. We explore together what you need and want in the moment. It may include ritual, play, touch, tears, pleasure, surrender, arousal, rediscovering the landscape of your body, uncovering inner territories of feeling.
I offer myself as a teacher and vessel for your healing, growth, and self-discovery. I am a male body who has worked on myself for 25 years, to find my healing so that I can be fully present with my clients.
Sessions often begin with a discussion of desires and fears. The more honest we can be with each other, the more we can find true ease and self-expression. This is often iterative, trust builds gradually; shields come down slowly. At your pace, with your 100% consent.
I deeply value vulnerability. It took me a long time to understand that we can be powerful AND vulnerable.. Sharing insecurities is my favorite thing.
I value social evolution, so we can co-create a safer world where there is less judgement and condemnation. I often wear gender-nonconforming clothing (eg. dresses) to demonstrate how it’s ok to be different, to be free to express our authentic selves. Also, dresses are really comfy and sexy!
I work with all bodies, all genders, all abilities, all diversities, all income levels. My primary requirement is kindness, or the desire to be more kind. We are all magic beings, when we take the time to slow down and rediscover beauty.
My Journey
15 years ago I was happily married with kids, went to the office everyday… I thought I had a full and rewarding life, and I felt very stuck; something important was missing. I began exploring, and step by step I reinvented my whole life in almost every area. I discovered mediation, life coaching, emotional intelligence, sacred sexuality, polyamory, healing kink, psychedelic therapy… so much of my healing came through my body, and this became the focus of my offerings to the world; words are helpful, but they were not enough for me. I now spend my time with people that are ready to be touched, in their hearts, bodies, and souls.
I am still exploring and expanding, and I invite you to create your own adventure of authenticity, intimacy, excitement, fulfillment. We are NEVER too old for a new adventure!
I offer holistic support in many areas, such as:
- Learning to speak clearly about your desires and insecurities
- Connecting with touch, body sensations, and pleasure
- Releasing shame and repression
- Developing body acceptance, confidence and self-love
- Learning what boundaries and consent feel like
- Rekindling intimacy and excitement in relationship(s)
- Healing trauma, abuse and neglect
- Exploring gender, sexuality, BDSM, role play…
- Personal growth, identifying the beliefs and shadows that sabotage your success.
Trainings that have most influenced my style:
- The Body Electric school, Sacred Intimacy training
- Caffyn Jesse, Intimacy Educator program
- Wheel of Consent, by Betty Martin
- Human Awareness Institute.
Testimonials
“Andrew pretty much removed my fear of talking to men. It happened so subtly and gracefully that I was totally surprised.”
“Spending time wrapped in Andrew’s arms made me feel truly understood, allowing me to relax and gain new perspectives on some significant issues in my life. His peaceful and fun presence brought a newfound lightness to my step, a new confidence, a true gift.”
My Sacred Intimate and Life Coach service welcomes individuals of all genders and orientations, couples & poly relationships.