“I didn’t know THAT was possible.”
Not just in their bodies —
but in how freely they’re allowed to want.
I create the kind of safety where desire finally tells the truth.
Sacred Sexuality Artist | Boulder CO, Michigan, Mexico | Ayce
The Edge I Hold
I hold range.
The kind that comes from lived experience —
knowing when to contain and when to invite,
when to steady and when to let the current move.
Because I hold both worlds, bodies open to possibilities they didn’t know existed.
My transness isn’t a topic.
It’s an erotic fluency.
I didn’t transition because I was in the wrong body.
I transitioned out of devotion to self.
That devotion is why I meet bodies without expectation, read subtle shifts, and hold power and receptivity at the same time — so more becomes possible without pressure.
I’ve spent years working with bodies, desire, power, and nervous systems —
which is why I let the body lead.
Why This Feels Different
I listen — with my body.
You listen with yours.
In that meeting, eros knows exactly where to go.
When the body knows it’s safe to lead, everything changes.
I notice when curiosity needs space.
When desire wants permission.
When something wants to move — without being watched or managed.
Many people tell me this is the first time they’ve felt free to want without explaining themselves.
The first time desire didn’t feel categorized or handled.
The first time it felt safe to follow what actually turns them on.
The Work
This work lives in the in-between.
Where desire doesn’t need to be named correctly.
Where identity can soften.
Where curiosity is enough.
Where pleasure gets to lead.
Sessions are grounded, consent-forward, and trauma-skilled.
We move at the pace your nervous system can actually integrate — not faster.
Boundaries are clear.
Communication is ongoing.
Nothing is assumed.
The shift people experience here tends to ripple outward —
changing how intimacy, desire, and connection feel everywhere else in their lives.
A Space for the Curious
Many people come to me not because they have answers,
but because something in them is asking.
What they want.
What they’ve never let themselves follow.
What feels alive but unnamed.
Some are bi-curious.
Some are questioning.
Some aren’t questioning anything at all — they simply want a braver, more honest space to explore what’s already there.
Nothing needs to be justified or defined here.
We follow pleasure, sensation, and truth.
This Work Often Supports
- expanding erotic range without overwhelm
- releasing shame around desire
- feeling more at home in the body
- exploring intimacy without performance
- pleasure that feels nourishing, not demanding
This isn’t about chasing peak experiences.
It’s about widening what your body knows is possible.
Sacred Sexuality Artist | Boulder CO, Michigan, Mexico | Ayce
About Ayce
I’m a Somatic Sexologist, Certified Erotic Blueprint™ Coach, Bondassage® practitioner, and a long-time student of trauma-skilled embodiment and ethical power dynamics.
That devotion — to truth, range, and erotic aliveness —
is what I bring into this work.
If something in you stirred while reading this,
the next step is a conversation.
Let’s feel into if this is a fit, reach out!
Testimonials
Ayce creates a safer space where I can bring all of myself—I can speak my deepest desires and share my rawest truths, without judgment. I’m met with understanding, openness, patience, gratitude, and deep presence. Their ability to let everything be there—without trying to fix or change anything makes me feel profoundly safe, authentically seen, and deeply accepted. With Ayce I am free….free to be, free to ask, and free to receive. That freedom is grounded in a deep sense of trust and worthiness. ~ W.O.
Ayce did something for me that no one else has… He gave me the space and time to ease into my sexuality. I’ve only ever felt judged and pressured when it comes to my embodied needs. Ayce not only let my hesitations be okay, he helped me use them to get to a place in which I felt safer working on and through my edges.
~ A.D.
Ayce is an amazing and super safe human. I have full trust that anything I say to him stays with him. He’s caring, accepting and completely nonjudgmental. Highly recommend! ~ M.K.
Ayce is an extremely empathetic and kind human! His knowledge of the connection between the body, mind, and emotions is amazing, and he cares deeply about providing a safe space for people to explore and express themselves without judgement or bias. If you are trying to improve your health and wellbeing in a deeper way than the traditional western medicine approaches, you should talk with Ayce and see how he can help! ~ E.M.
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