A SUITABLE COUNTERPART
You’ve done the work. You know yourself reasonably well, you’ve had encounters that have opened doors, and you’re ready for something deeper, cleaner, and perhaps spicier than what you’ve found so far. You’re seeking depth, professionalism, and genuine connection…a practitioner who knows how to hold space for the full range of what you’re capable of. You want an empowering experience.
THE ADVENTURE
Glide into a parallel universe, dive into the depths of your desire, come and explore the delight, curiosity and intrigue of surrendering to my sensual guidance. In my realm, you may let go of preoccupation with worldly pursuits and be entirely yourself, relaxed and alive. I invite you to surrender. I invite you to let go and revel in your highest self and your darkest depths. Allow me to awaken you in delightful and exhilarating new ways, be aroused as I guide you to new heights of sensation.
WHO IS JAE?
I am a skilled practitioner and an ethical guide. I have a wealth of experience with sensuality and alternative sexuality, and my talents in the kink arts are many. I am a certified Bondassage practitioner and trainer. Educated in sexuality and trained in BDSM, I honed my craft among the sex geeks and the leather elite, through Cleo Dubois Erotic Dominance Intensives, Leatherquest, Urban Tantra, San Francisco Sex Information, and years of somatically informed work with Human Alive. I take my power from a place of humility and I cherish your surrender.
It is my fondest desire to connect with you from the heart, to cultivate safety, and potentially, with time, form a bond that can last for years to come. Each of my clients is a treasured play partner, every dynamic is unique. Depth and longevity are the currency of a powerful connection.
WHY THIS PATH
BDSM and kink are efficient and exciting paths to personal growth. Power exchange works by creating conditions the nervous system rarely encounters in ordinary life: genuine vulnerability held in genuine safety. When one surrenders control to a skilled, ethical guide, the body has an opportunity to learn somatically. Being fully seen, in desire and in weakness, without judgment or consequence, interrupts patterns that may have been forming for a lifetime. That interruption is where change becomes possible. Over time, you may find that your communication around sex and sexuality improves, that your relationship to your own desires is clearer, and that you have a deeper understanding of consent as well as your own power.
COUPLES
I adore working with couples who are sex-positive and have a growth mindset! Allow me to introduce thrilling new modalities of play into your dynamic, let me coach you in creating experiences that deepen your connection and bring fresh energy to your relationship. I have strong ethics around respecting your container and navigating consent, and I am honored to witness the intimate dimensions of your connection.
BDSM Practitioner | Maui, HI | Jae
PROCESS
Before our first session, we’ll have an intake call to ensure that our desires and expectations are aligned. When we meet, our time will begin with a conversation. We’ll share a cup of tea and get to know one another. We’ll discuss what you’d like to experience and review intentions and boundaries. From there, I will shape the structure of the experience. You bring your desires, an open heart and an open mind. I will provide guidance and touch, and together we will create the magic. I’ll lead the exchange; you follow and receive.
CONSENT
Consent is an active, ongoing process. We will review intentions and boundaries at the beginning of every session, recognizing that consent can change, and honoring verbal and non-verbal cues throughout. We will check in consistently. If something doesn’t land, we return to baseline, to a place where we have rapport, consent, and desire. From there we will do any necessary repair and then continue to build on the experience.
FUN, GAMES…AND LANDMINES
I believe that creativity and play are essential in kink. Laughter is sexy, and crucial for a healing and heartfelt experience. Many people are drawn to novelty in their experience, and I enjoy reinventing the wheel, role-playing power dynamics, and playfully exploring sensations and taboos in depth. I take my work very seriously, and I also know that joy is what makes anything worthwhile.
Life is not always joyful, and most people have trauma in their history. As we visit the tender, intimate parts of ourselves through these practices, it can happen that we find ourselves in the proverbial weeds or step on landmines, so to speak.
EMOTIONAL SAFETY
My sessions typically begin with breathwork and centering, preparing for a journey and establishing a baseline of personal safety and presence before diving into power dynamics. If trauma surfaces in session, we will use those same tools to work to return to the present moment and back to a sense of self.
Sometimes emotional dysregulation occurs in the hours and days after the session. This is one reason I consider integration an essential part of the work, and I like to allow time for an experience to sink in, rather than just “doing aftercare” like a bandaid after a scene. We will check in after our time together, and schedule time to drop in over the phone or videochat if further support is required.
BDSM Practitioner | Maui, HI | Jae
AFTERCARE & INTEGRATION
Integration is the key to sustainable expansion. I will support you after our adventure and we will work together to create long-term sustainable growth. Your vulnerability will be honored and brought into the light for your empowerment and development. You will experience a deeper sense of self and a greater appreciation for the life you have.
PRICING & PROTOCOL
Pricing is as follows:
2 hours, an introductory encounter ~ 1200
4 hours, a deep dive ~ 2000
9–10 hours, a full day immersion ~ 4000
Series Options:
Five Session Series, five 2-hour sessions ~ 5400
Five Session Immersion, five 4-hour sessions ~ 9000
Travel may be considered for select engagements when arrangements and expenses are provided. A 50% deposit is required to confirm an appointment. New clients should anticipate a screening process, including identity verification and an intake call. I require a minimum of 24 hours’ notice, and I prefer to arrange engagements well in advance. Arrive on time, poised for an intimate encounter. Be attentive to hygiene and self-care, including hydration, sustenance, and adequate rest. You are entering a sacred space, be ready to be present. Discretion is of the utmost importance to me. Please respect my privacy and confidentiality, and I will extend you the same care and consideration. Deposits may be made through Venmo or Cash App, the remaining balance is due in cash upon arrival.
TESTIMONIALS
“I’ve had the pleasure of spending many hours with Jae over the last several years. She is the best! She is extremely skillful, knowledgeable, kind, and above all…authentic.” ~ T.W, Salt Lake City
“Without question, one of the most experienced pro-dommes ever. Jae has the ability to drop you into your submissive state and keep you there throughout your experience with her. She took time before play to reassure and to review boundaries. She offers a truly curated session, good for very experienced and beginners alike.” ~ C.B., Maui, Hawaii
“Devilish seduction, wicked tenderness, she commands with primordial persuasion. She administers a wave of sensations, taking a timid or shy subordinate to heights transcending time and space leaving a lasting impression and an accepting and confident player in her swathe. Madame Jae effortlessly manipulates the evolution of every encounter, and has done so over and over, with endless creativity, for years. I highly recommend her as a player and an educator.” ~ Z.C., San Francisco, CA
CONTACT
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I’m Jae, a BDSM Practitioner, I welcome individuals of all genders and orientations, singles, couples and poly relationships.
