I’m Danielle Aubrey Smith, a certifed Sex & Relationship Coach devoted to the erotic, the intimate, the embodied, and the sacred.
My work blends somatic healing, erotic energy activation, nervous system expansion, and deep relational coaching to help you open where you’ve been closed… feel where you’ve been numb… and receive where you’ve been guarded. I work with both men and women.
Most people come to me because they feel disconnected in intimacy…craving depth, passion, and presence… yet shutting down or pulling away the moment things get real. They think something is wrong with them. But the truth is: their body is trying to protect them from old wounds they were never taught how to heal.
And that’s the work I specialize in:
- Healing the subconscious blocks to intimacy.
- The fear of being “too much,” the fear of not being enough, the freeze response, the ache of wanting connection but not knowing how to let it in.
- Restoring your capacity to experience pleasure.
- Teaching your body how to soften, open, and stay present with sensation, desire, and emotional truth without collapsing or self-protecting.
Additional areas I support:
- Embodied confidence and pleasure presence
- Navigating performance anxiety and shifts in sexual response
- Conscious exploration of kink, BDSM, and power dynamics in a somatic, consent-rich container
Certified Sex and Relationship Coach | Austin, TX | Danielle
Erotic Embodiment & Sexual Awakening
Clearing shame and unworthiness, reconnecting to your erotic intelligence, and bringing your sensuality back online in a way that feels grounded, powerful, and alive.
Nervous System & Energetic Repatterning
Cultivating inner safety so your heart, body, and sexuality can expand into deeper intimacy and higher levels of pleasure.
Emotional Intimacy for Men & Women
Learning to speak your desire and be met in your truth.
Polarity, Presence & Relational Depth
Unlocking the magnetism, confidence, and embodied presence that creates irresistible attraction and soul-level connection.
Certified Sex and Relationship Coach | Austin, TX | Danielle
I support clients who want deeper intimacy but feel something blocking the way. My clients come to me when they:
- Shut down or disconnect during intimacy
- Feel desire mentally, but not sure how to fully connect physically
- Carry shame or unworthiness around sex or emotional closeness
- Struggle to express desire or ask for what they need
- Lose themselves in relationships
- Want deeper pleasure but struggle to remain open
- Desire more confidence, erotic expression, and connection
- Long for intimacy that feels honest, emotionally attuned, and deeply satisfying
This is where your deeper life begins.
What Clients Say About Working With Me
“Her presence is unlike anything I’ve ever experienced… safe, feminine, intuitive, deeply erotic in a way that awakens you without pushing you.” ~ Carlos M., Austin TX
“I’ve done therapy for years, but nothing has transformed me the way Danielle’s work has. I feel open again, sexually, emotionally, spiritually.” ~ J., Austin TX
“I never knew how shut down I was until she helped me feel my body again. My relationships and my pleasure are completely different now.” ~ Susan R, Austin TX
“Danielle helped me heal the parts of myself I didn’t even realize were blocking intimacy. I’ve never felt more confident and more connected to my desire.” ~ Adam S. California
“I came to Danielle thinking something was ‘wrong’ with me. What I discovered was that it wasn’t a performance issue, it was safety, presence, and self-trust. Once that shifted, everything changed. And I am so grateful. ~ Matthew C. Austin TX
I’m Danielle, Certified Sex and Relationship Coach.
I welcome:
Women, Men, Couples
