Sensual Healer, Dearmouring Practitioner
Gain Confidence, Experience Better Orgasms

Santa Barbara, CA

December and most of 2025, Santa Barbara CA

Cyprus May 25-June 1
Poland and Germany June 1-8
Netherlands June 8- July 5

My Spiritual Life Coach service welcomes individuals of all genders and orientations, couples & poly relationships.

Through tantric practices, sacred touch, and deep presence, I help you remove blocks to intimacy and connect with your desires, unlocking greater pleasure, confidence, and spiritual awakening.

Spiritual Life Coach | Santa Barbara, CA | Clair Joy

Expanding your sense of self and gaining the confidence and courage to follow your dreams and fantasies is my passion. Breaking habits, creating healthy rituals and pushing the limits of who you think you can be are exactly what I love to help facilitate!

Take the next step towards fulfilling your heart’s desires. Wherever you are on your journey towards the fullest expression of your embodied, healthy and inspired self, I can help! I offer personalized life coaching embodying every aspect of your life.

Schedule an appointment with me and let’s talk about how we will work together.

My trainings and certifications:

Somatica® Trained Sex and Intimacy Coach
Ordained Heart Consciousness Minister
Heart of Facilitation
Human Awareness Institute
International School of Temple Arts
Degree in Psychology/Sociology
Yoga Certification
Taoist Stone Medicine Practitioner.

I believe wounding incurred in relationship can be healed in relationship. I️ am a Somatica trained sex and intimacy coach with a background in psychology and sociology and a lifetime of study and training to assist you in creating the relationships and sex you desire. I am an incredibly caring and sensitive individual whose mission in life is to make others feel loved and accepted and enthusiastic about life.
I have always felt that relationships are what makes life. I believe that our current culture and high-speed technology is actually setting us back, keeping us distant from the intimacy and closeness that we need as human beings.

My desire is to offer you empathy, connection, and wisdom to create the life and relationships you desire.
Humans are complex beings and, at our core – highly sexual beings. Men, Women and Couples face different difficulties and issues in our masculine dominated world. Disappointment and the need for repair with friends and family are givens in life and relationships.

The good news is THERE ARE tools you can use to get better at understanding yourself and navigating the tricky emotions and feelings happening for you and your loved ones. Good sex is not a mystery. Together we can unravel your deepest fantasies.

You CAN be having mind blowing sex AND be successful in a healthy relationship. Working with me you will feel safe and comfortable as you explore and grow.

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My Intimacy Coaching service welcomes individuals of all genders and orientations, couples & poly relationships.

Email me at: goodlovecoaching@gmail.com

Visit me: www.goodlovecoaching.com

Text me: 971-361-4686

Clair Joy ~ Gain Confidence, Have Better Orgasms

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