Erotic Healer, Intimacy Coach & Conscious Kinkster

Portland, OR

What do you desire?

You want to feel alive in your body. Free in your sexuality. Present, powerful, and genuinely yourself. This hunger is not shameful. It is the most honest thing about you. And I welcome all of you.

In our sessions, you will learn to receive without guilt, and release the tension and emotion your body has been holding. You’ll reconnect with desire and pleasure on your own terms, and leave with real tools you can carry into your everyday life. All gender expressions and orientations are welcome.

This is your invitation.

My name is Liz Dake

As a bisexual erotic healer, sacred sexuality coach, certified Reiki master and conscious kink guide, I am a catalyst to help liberate you into your fullest erotic expression.

I have lived through incest. I know what it is to live cut off from your own body, to carry shame so long it starts to feel like identity. My healing — releasing that shame, breaking the silence, and learning to love all of myself — is what brought me to this work. I know from the inside what it takes to come back to wholeness.

Pleasure helps heal you from the core.

Cultivating curiosity and playfulness opens us up to surprising moments of pure freedom. Combining erotic, spiritual, and playful energies, I invite clients to explore patterns in their body and voice that may have been silenced or suppressed.

I offer a wide range of consensual touch and sensation play. If you desire conscious kink, we can explore your appetite in a container that we co-create.

No two sessions are the same. This is about you and me and our unique expression.
Every session is fully consensual, and trauma-informed. We move at your pace, always.

Conscious Kinkster | Portland, OR | Liz Dake

Services Offered
What might be blocking you from experiencing more pleasure?

As your guide, I can assist in navigating these issues:

Sexual response concerns — desire, orgasm, pain during sex, premature ejaculation, erectile issues
Touch deprivation and emotional isolation
Disconnection from desire, arousal, or sensuality
Anxiety, stress, or difficulty relaxing in the body
Shame around sexuality, kink or fantasy
Trauma patterns that affect intimacy or the ability to feel pleasure, including birth trauma

Before anything begins, we talk — about what you’re craving, what feels scary, and where your limits are. Nothing is assumed or rushed. This is your space to deeply receive, free from any pressure to perform or please. I follow your body’s lead. You can slow me down or pause at any time. Emotional releases and sounds are not only welcome, they are honored.

You are welcome to touch me when it arises naturally from the heart — never from obligation. I will keep my panties on throughout, and ask that you don’t touch my genitals.

4 options available:
Breath and awareness techniques are woven throughout each session to assist you in being present and to help energy move through your whole body.

Sensual Exploration
What do you crave?

Together, we negotiate what you’d like to explore — calming bodywork, sensual and/or erotic touch, more intense sensation, or a mix. Orgasm may or may not be part of your experience.

You are welcome to use this session to discover what touch genuinely feels good to you. You’re invited to practice asking for what you want in real time.

Pelvic Pleasure
Would you like to expand your capacity for joy and pleasure?

Through careful attentive touch, you can:

RELEASE stored tension and restore ease
EXPLORE physical and emotional expression
EXPERIENCE sensation and pleasure returning to areas that may have felt numb
HEAL old patterns that have been keeping you fearful or stagnant
LEARN how moving erotic energy can revive your nervous system

Conscious Kink
Do you long for an experience of sweet surrender?

With permission to explore the shadow realm, we can experience freedom. Let’s explore your wildness! I currently offer bondage and impact play, approached with clear communication, care, and intentionality. A detailed intake form is sent beforehand so we can confirm if my skills match your desires. This session can be combined with bodywork and sensual exploration.

Intimacy Coaching
Do you need daily practices and guidance for your transformation?

I offer online or in-person coaching sessions for all genders, focused on developing intimacy with yourself, with Spirit, and with others. Custom packages are available.

Conscious Kinkster | Portland, OR | Liz Dake

Aftercare

Your session ends with time to slow down and reconnect — breathing together, cuddling if you’d like, simply being present. I will follow up with you the next day, and you’ll receive a detailed aftercare email to support your integration.

Reviews

“I was struck by Liz’s extraordinary combination of warmth and skill. Her compassion created an atmosphere of complete safety—essential for the vulnerable territory we would explore.

The session itself was revelatory. Through skilled bodywork, breathwork, and her sensitive guidance, I experienced a liberating realization. I was unconsciously holding to early Catholic and child prohibitions against sex that had become embedded in Buddhist monastic beliefs. Together these deeply held attitudes had allowed me to remain in unhealthy sexual relationships.

“This session didn’t just provide temporary relief—it opened a doorway to ongoing transformation. Her work is deeply professional and spiritually mature. She brings together technical mastery and heartfelt presence in a way that allows authentic healing to unfold.” ~ R.B., Portland, OR

“Liz gave me a sacred pelvic healing ritual that was centered in care, with loving and healing touch. I asked her to feel around my episiotomy scar, and as she went deeper inside, physical and emotional release happened. Long held energetic patterns dissolved in other places as well. All of this was held in a beautiful container of safety and sacredness. I recommend working with Liz if you’re wanting to release what you no longer need and up your level of pleasure.” ~
L.S. Portland, Oregon

photo credit: Peter Rubens

Next Steps

What makes this work transformative is the connection we build. I look forward to hearing from you!

Please email me at transformyou122@gmail.com or text at 503-479-8776 with your name and location, what you’re hoping to receive, and whether you’re considering a 90-minute or 2-hour session.
I’ll reply with more about how I work and what to expect.
If it feels like a yes for both of us, we’ll schedule a free virtual consultation to design our work together.

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I’m Liz Dake, an Erotic Healer & Conscious Kinkster.
I welcome:
women, men, all genders, poly relationships

Liz Dake ~ Erotic Healer & Conscious Kinkster

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