“Until you make the unconscious conscious, it will direct your life and you will call it Fate.”
-C. G. Jung
Conscious Companion | Portland, OR | Curly Winslow
How would your life change, if you became fully integrated?
I help people reconnect with themselves—body, mind, and desire—through the power of shame-free expression. As an intimacy coach and kink educator, my work centers on guiding individuals toward deeper self-awareness, emotional clarity, and unapologetic authenticity in how they relate to their erotic energy.
For years I carried silent shame around my alternative sensory needs, sexual interests, and emotional expression. I felt trapped and insecure, ultimately developing coping strategies that nearly ended my life. I find deep meaning in creating safe, affirming space where deep truths can finally be named, heard, and honored—without fear, without judgment, and without apology.
Through a trauma-informed approach, I support clients in exploring their inner landscapes—whether through kink, sensuality, emotional intimacy, or personal empowerment practices. My work is not just about improving relationships with others; it’s about building a stronger, more honest relationship with yourself.
Key Areas of Focus:
- Reestablishing body-mind connectivity
- Identifying emotional, physical, psychological, and spiritual needs
- Intimate and relational skills development
- Kink education, focusing on sensory exploration and self expression
- Pleasure mapping
- Power exchange coaching and couples counseling
- Intentional and trauma-informed healing touch
- Gender and sexuality exploration
My practice welcomes people of all identities, orientations, and relationship structures.
Rates
I always offer a complimentary 30min initial consultation so we can get to know each other.
Sessions start at $150/hr for coaching and counseling.
BDSM and surrogacy require an additional fee.
Monthly packages available upon request.
How to reach me
Email (preferred): yourkinkycurly@gmail.com
Telegram (preferred): @mxcurly
Phone (text first, please!): (503) 433-8194
Please share what you’d like to be called, your primary interests, and a few dates and times that will work for our initial phone or video call. References are appreciated, as is a photo (for screening only).
Testimonials
“I talked with Curly before the session and it was obvious that she had spent time creating a wonderful session for me. She has a good soul… She enjoys the psychological aspects of kink as well as the physical. Her communication was outstanding – I’ve never had better.”
“During our session I got into a negative head space… I may be projecting, but it felt like she sensed that. This was absolutely perfect and switched this from being another memory of my body/mind limiting what I could and wanted to do. To instead making this one of if not the best session I have had to date.”
I’m Curly Winslow, a Conscious Companion, I welcome individuals of all genders and orientations, singles, couples and poly relationships.
