Devotional Intimacy & Embodiment Mentor

New York City, NY ; Washington, DC ; Denver, CO

Denver – June 16th-20th – Limited Spots Available – Book Now
Also accepting bookings for:
New York CIty – August 20th-September 15th
Washington, DC – September 16th-20th

You’re not new to this.
You’re self-aware.
You care about growth.
You’re present
You’ve probably done more inner work than most men around you.

And yet…

There’s still a subtle sense that something isn’t fully landing
That you’re still performing an old version of yourself that isn’t primed to hold the level of intimacy you deeply desire
And when your relationship confronts you
You go into your head. You perform. You become someone else.
No matter how much you “know” you’re not actually free.

Here is where that pattern ends.

Have you been craving a space where you’re fully met exactly as you are?
Where you feel seen, felt and held deeply enough to access your primal masculine power

Here is where this is the standard
Here is a space where we use your body and your relationship to desire to reveal the true you

My sessions are a mirror into your inner world and a place to support the awakening and expression of your erotic power
We do not perform or pretend anything
We go deep into the core and stay long enough for something real to emerge.*
So you can authentically embody the confidence and self-love that you deserve

What is Erotic Embodiment?

Erotic Embodiment is about becoming so anchored in yourself that nothing false can uphold.

This work is about using your erotic body and relationship to desire as a direct access point to the deeper mechanics of your identity, so you can stop performing who you think you are and start leading from your embodied truth.

Sexual energy is not the goal here.
It’s the amplifier.
It reveals everything:

where you grip
where you numb out
where you escape into fantasy
where you disconnect from truth

When that energy is online… you can’t hide.
Not from me.
And not from yourself.
And that’s where the real work begins.

Who This is For

Men who are self-aware but still feel a gap between insight and lived reality
Men who are craving more depth and truth in intimacy
Men who have explored tantra, sexuality, yoga, meditation but feel there must be more
Men who are willing to be challenged and meet themselves honestly
Men who want to magnetize higher caliber relationships

What this is not

A place for BDSM or role play
A place to impose your needs
A seduction game
A girlfriend experience
Devotional Intimacy | New York City | Ruby Lovelight

Short Term Results

More pleasure and aliveness
Release of shame, resentment, and suppressed desires
More confidence in and out of the bedroom
More resilience and capacity to hold others without self-abandoning
Better communication with lovers
Improved connection to self and others

Long Term Results

A different way of being in your body, your relationships, and your decisions.

You stay present when intensity rises – Whether it’s desire, conflict, or emotional exposure, you don’t shut down, perform, or escape. You remain grounded and available.
Your communication becomes clean and direct – You say what’s true without over-explaining, defending, or collapsing into silence.
Your energy moves instead of getting stuck – What once showed up as pressure, anxiety, or suppression is reorganized and internally coherent.
You access the full spectrum of yourself – Not just the “good” parts, but also your edge, your desire, shadows, power. Integrated, not acted out.
You interrupt patterns as they happen, not after – You catch yourself in the moment: when you’re about to perform, withdraw, or lose yourself and you choose differently.
Your relationships reflect this new version of you – Less confusion, less over-efforting. More clarity, polarity, and grounded connection because you’re no longer relating from unconscious patterns.
Devotional Intimacy | New York City | Ruby Lovelight

What Happens during a Session

Each session begins with grounding, boundaries/consent and clear intention setting so we work with full clarity on what is being explored.

The middle phase is a live, guided process through breath, movement, and touch with real-time coaching to track patterns, regulate the nervous system, and bring unconscious dynamics into awareness.

The work is experiential with me holding space and reflecting what is happening in your system, guiding you back into your body as truth emerges.

Each session closes with integration, reflection, and clear aftercare practices so the work continues to unfold beyond the session.

In-Person Sessions

Most of my work begins with an extended in person session and continues either virtually or in-person

2 Hour – Tantric Activation Session $1100 USD
3 Hours – Devotional Tantra Session $2200 USD

Devotional Intimacy | New York City | Ruby Lovelight

Virtual Sessions

Single Session (60 minutes)
$350 USD

6-Session Package (60 minutes each)
$1,800 USD

All sessions are held via zoom video

3-MONTH PRIVATE CONTAINER (APPLICATION ONLY)

These sessions include somatic embodiment work, breathwork practices, guided kundalini energy work, and erotic activation via sound, touch, and movement

Prerequisite for all in person sessions is a video interview screening.
Location and availability discussed upon request.

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I’m Ruby Lovelight, a Devotional Intimacy & Embodiment Mentor.
I welcome: women, men & couples.

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