I’m Lila, provocateur of the profound.
Unforgettable experiences and transformational thresholds await. Whatever your wish — let’s make it a command.
Through presence, precision, and charge, I help call forth the grit and greatness of who you’ve always been.
Our time together is a rewilding—where we shed convention and conditioning, and move from indoctrination into initiation.
I guide individuals and couples into expanded, electric exploration through the intelligence of the body and soul—meeting life force and energetic current from one’s own flesh and spine.
Some come for eros. Some for healing. Some for a desire to dissolve inhibition and move into total inhabitation. All for the magic.
If you sense there is more within you wanting and waiting to be felt and known, welcome home.
Divine Liberator and Tantric Healer | Los Angeles, CA | Lila Sitara
Ways We Can Work Together
Tantric Bodywork
Sessions usually include a combination of dialogue, intention-setting, light breathwork, meditative grounding and clearing, tantric massage, FBSM, yoni/lingam/sacred spot massage, optional anal de-armoring.
Mutual touch sessions may include yoni worship, devotion, touch and energy education, erotic and pleasure amplification, sacred-spot teaching, body-to-body connection, and more. Mutual touch is hands-only, with additional options available for select patrons by prior agreement.
Sexual Healing & Shamanic Work
For stored emotional, energetic, or sexual imprints in the body. This may include shamanic healing, regressions, drumming or rhythmic journeys, deep pelvic work, guided release, and related practices.
BDSM, Kink & Fetish Exploration
Power-, psychological-, and sensation-based experiences that may include dominance and submission, ritual play, erotic intensity, or specific fetishes. BDSM and kink are core offerings within my field of work and are available by explicit desire and agreement. All requests are welcome, most within my scope.
Shamanic kink also available to restore power, voice, and choice.
Couples Sessions
Sessions for couples seeking deeper intimacy, enhanced communication, truer connection, or potent exploration together. Unicorn arrangements available.
Tailored Offerings & Bespoke Experiences
Extended work may include multi-day immersions, companionship, text or phone support, surrogacy, curated travel-based experiences, and more.
Session information and some expanded offerings can be found here.

Energetic Exchange (Donations)
Tantric Massage — Receiving Sessions
90 minutes: $700
2 hours: $850 (recommended minimum for new clients)
3 hours: $1100
Mutual Touch
90 minutes: $1000 (returning clients only)
2 hours: $1300
3 hours: $1700
Couples sessions: 1.25× base
BDSM sessions: 1.5× base
Remote sessions (60-minute minimum): .85x base
Packages: 3 for 10% off; 6 for 15% off (50% deposit). Upgrades available per session.
Weekly/Monthly+ Custom Packages available for support, coaching, integration, GFE, and more.
Training & Lineage
- Certified Tantra Educator (Classical & Neo-Tantric Arts), Charles Muir / Source School of Tantra Yoga
- Priestess & Courtesan certification (Dark & Light Eros / BDSM), Om Rupani (completion 2026)
- Conscious Kink training with Francesca Gentille & Shadi Terra
- ISTA-certified practitioner (emotional release, trauma processes, shadow work)
- Shamanic training and energetic healing
Divine Liberator and Tantric Healer | Los Angeles, CA | Lila Sitara