Healing and Awakening through transformative touch and conscious connection

Los Angeles, CA

I’m Lila, provocateur of the profound.

Unforgettable experiences and transformational thresholds await.

Through presence, precision, and charge, I help call forth the grit and greatness of who you’ve always been.

Our time together is a rewilding—where we shed convention and conditioning, and move from indoctrination into initiation.

I guide individuals and couples into expanded, electric exploration through the intelligence of the body and soul—meeting life force and energetic current from one’s own flesh and spine.

Some come for eros. Some for healing. Some for a desire to dissolve inhibition and move into total inhabitation. All for the magic.

If you sense there is more within you wanting and waiting to be felt and known, welcome home.

Divine Liberator and Tantric Healer | Los Angeles, CA | Lila Sitara

Ways We Can Work Together

Tantric Bodywork
Sessions usually include a combination of dialogue, intention-setting, light breathwork, meditative grounding and clearing, tantric massage, FBSM, yoni/lingam/sacred spot massage, optional anal de-armoring.

Reciprocal touch sessions may include yoni worship, devotion, touch and energy education, erotic and pleasure amplification, sacred-spot teaching, body-to-body connection, and more. Reciprocal Touch is hands-only. Enhanced service options are available for established, select patrons by prior agreement.

Sexual Healing & Shamanic Work
For stored emotional, energetic, or sexual imprints in the body. This may include shamanic healing, regressions, drumming or rhythmic journeys, deep pelvic work, guided release, and related practices.

BDSM, Kink & Fetish Exploration
Power-, psychological-, and sensation-based experiences that may include dominance and submission, ritual play, erotic intensity, or specific fetishes. BDSM and kink are core offerings within my field of work and are available by explicit desire and agreement. All requests are welcome, most within my scope.

Shamanic kink also available to restore power, voice, and choice.

Couples Sessions
Sessions for couples seeking deeper intimacy, enhanced communication, truer connection, or potent exploration together. Unicorn arrangements available.

Tailored Offerings & Bespoke Experiences

Extended work may include multi-day immersions, companionship, text or phone support, surrogacy, curated travel-based experiences, and more.

Session information and some expanded offerings can be found here.

Divine Liberator and Tantric Healer | Los Angeles, CA | Lila Sitara

Training & Lineage

Certified Tantra Educator (Classical & Neo-Tantric Arts), Charles Muir / Source School of Tantra Yoga
Priestess & Courtesan certification (Dark & Light Eros / BDSM), Om Rupani (completion 2026)
Shamanic Kink training with Francesca Gentille & Shadi Terra
ISTA-certified practitioner (emotional release, trauma processes, shadow work)
Shamanic training and energetic healing

Session Investment

Guided, presence-based experiences that open pathways to deeper connection, expanded sensation, and conscious intimacy—creating space for healing, awakening, and transformation.

Tantric Massage — Receiving Sessions
1.5 hours: $700
2 hours: $850
3 hours: $1200

Reciprocal Touch
1.5 hours: $1000 (returning clients only)
2 hours: $1300
3 hours: $1800

Couples: 1.25× base

Tantra x BDSM: 1.25x base

BDSM: 1.5× base

Remote: 0.85× base

Packages
3 sessions — 10% off
6 sessions — 15% off

Packages are reserved in accordance with standard booking policies.

Sessions may deepen in level of intimacy based on mutual alignment and trust. More advanced experiences are reserved for established clients and unfold organically within the container.

A limited number of ongoing weekly and monthly containers are available for those seeking sustained depth, integration, and continuity. These containers may include coaching support, integration guidance, and a more personalized, evolving arc of connection.

Divine Liberator and Tantric Healer | Los Angeles, CA | Lila Sitara

Reaching Out

Please text to inquire about our time together. Email is required for international inquiries.

When reaching out, please include:

Your name
What draws you to this work
Your intention(s)
Ideal session type and length
Preferred timing
Any questions you have

Booking Requirements

Photo ID
50% deposit (or 70% with selfie or video call alone)
Intake form completed at least 48 hours prior to your session

Optional Discovery Call

- Initial call up to 20 minutes: $50 (applied to your first session)
- If I have the space, you may extend into a full session.

The Time Is Now

You’ve reached the threshold.
One step to evolution through self-revolution.
Life is waiting.

Divine Liberator and Tantric Healer | Los Angeles, CA | Lila Sitara

Testimonials

“Lila is truly amazing, such a professional and pleasurable aura that sets the tone for an unbelievable experience. Your body will experience things you didn’t know it could or needed. Looking forward to many more to come !”

“Lila is incredible. I can’t say enough about her. She has the most loving and caring energy that really makes me feel so at ease. Each experience is one to remember. Pure Ecstasy!”

“Worth. Every. Dollar.
This woman changed my life. In just 1 session. So much healing I never imagined possible. Lila. So. gentle. So strong. Wise. Understanding.
I liked her energy instantly. My husband has also had life-changing sessions himself, which extend benefits to me. This work is elevating not just our sex life, but our relationship as a whole. Sooo f****** grateful for this woman and the important work she does.”

“Working with Dakini Lila is a unique and awakening experience, as she truly is a skilled artist of her craft. She has a sensual touch that is delicate and calm as much as it is strong and empowering. Your third eye will be opened after undertaking this master class of mental and physical enlightenment. I teared up from joy this time at parts of our session. I haven’t felt that much bliss, peace, and comfort in quite some time. I am so grateful for the compassionate, rejuvenating, and healing space and everything else she does.”

“What I value most about Lila is her intentionality, depth, sense of ritual, attunement, and genuine reciprocity. With her, I feel a true sense of co-creation and support—one that allows me to relax parts of myself that are usually vigilant. There is a feeling of being met, rather than managed.
I have longed to soften into something I don’t have to control, without losing myself in the process. Lila offers a safe, compassionate container in which I am able explore these edges with care.”

“Tantra with Lila is one of the most powerful experiences I’ve had. What I gained from the session was so much more than I anticipated: courage, vulnerability, and a profound sense of clarity. It wasn’t just about the physical—it was an emotional and energetic journey inward. It’s nothing like what you think it might be—it’s more. On so many levels. If you’re curious but hesitant, I totally understand. But, trust me, in the right hands, it is a deeply transformative experience.”

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