I’m Lila. Provocateur of the profound.
I take what is and make it what it can be. I take ordinary to extraordinary.
I’m a creator of just that – extraordinary experiences. Sometimes transformational and trajectory-altering, other times exactly what you need right then and there.
What is your desire? Erotic fire, energetic explosion, regenerative reset, peace and relaxation, healing and wholeness. You come with the notion, and I put it into motion.
My specialties are BDSM, Tantra, and my signature hybrid of the two. I am also a courtesan and companion. I travel with or to you.
I’m not a menu, I’m the chef; you detail your hunger, palette, restrictions – and allow me to create something better than you’ve ever tasted.
If you’ve been looking for a place where the full range of who you are is welcome, to come alive more than you’ve ever been, or to be met exactly where you want and need, I am the one for you.
Erotics and energetics are my slice of heaven here on earth. And you’ve found your angel and devil in me. The Goddess, the Mistress, the Courtesan. All in one beautiful package.
OFFERINGS:
BDSM – All requests are welcome, most within my scope and desire. Power exchange, D/s dynamics, psychological play, roleplay, fetishes, erotic intensity, and more. Shamanic kink is also available for those looking to reclaim power, voice, and choice, to intentionally work with specific traumas, wounds, or notable issues to be healed or advanced through.
TANTRA – While my work is rooted in extensive training, it has evolved into an intuitive practice uniquely my own. You can expect dialoguing and intention setting, potential light breathwork and/or meditation, chakra and energy work, tantric massage, lingam/yoni/sacred spot, optional anal de-armoring.
HYBRID – TANTRA x BDSM – A mix of tantric bodywork and BDSM. Great for those interested in dipping their toes, a more sensual BDSM experience, or beginners.
COURTESAN + SACRED COMPANION – Time together with or without touch. Top-tier companionship for a date, dinner, day or night out, weekend, or extended travel.
DEEPER CONTAINERS, i.e. Surrogacy, Full Union, GFE, Unicorn Arrangements – I take a very limited number of deeper containers, selected entirely at my discretion based on our energy, alignment, and my personal desire. A video call is required for consideration unless otherwise offered directly by me to you.
Dakini | Dominatrix | Courtesan | Los Angeles, CA | Lila Sitara
SESSION INVESTMENT:
Per hour.
Tantra: 500 (90-minute minimum)
Tantra x BDSM Hybrid: 600 (90-minute minimum)
BDSM: 700
Companionship: 400 (2-hour minimum)
Travel & Immersions: Custom quoted.
Mutual Touch (hands-based): +300/session – Request with ID, subject to my approval.
Remote Sessions: 80% base rate
Couples: 1.25x base rate
Dakini | Dominatrix | Courtesan | Los Angeles, CA | Lila Sitara
GET IN TOUCH WITH ME:
Email or Telegram me to inquire about our time together. Telegram: @LilaSitara
Include:
- Your name
- Where you found me
- Experience & length desired
- Any questions you have for me
I offer a complimentary 5-minute phone call or voice note exchange on Telegram for first time bookings.
BOOKING REQUIREMENTS:
- Photo ID
- 50% deposit
- Booking without ID requires 2 references from providers you’ve worked with and a 70% deposit.
- Payment platforms: Stripe, Venmo, Zelle, CashApp, or Wise.
- Video Calls: $100 up to 30 minutes. Required for deeper containers, optional for all other bookings. Fee applied to any session booked within 1 week.
FOLLOW ME: You may follow me on Instagram @Lila.Sitara
GIFTING & GRATITUDE: I welcome gifts and tokens of gratitude. They are gestures that honor me, and keep me thinking of you. Visit my Throne: https://throne.com/lilasitara
Dakini | Dominatrix | Courtesan | Los Angeles, CA | Lila Sitara
TRAINING & LINEAGE:
- Certified Tantra Educator with Charles Muir / Source School of Tantra Yoga
- Pro Domme Priestess certification with Om Rupani
- BDSM/Kink with Lauren Harkness
- Shamanic Kink training with Francesca Gentille & Shadi Terra
- Energetic Mastery with Lynda Caesara
- ISTA-certified practitioner (emotional release, trauma processes, shadow work)
- Shamanic training and energetic healing
TESTIMONIALS:
“Lila is truly amazing, such a professional and pleasurable aura that sets the tone for an unbelievable experience. Your body will experience things you didn’t know it could or needed. After our first time, I knew she’d be the only one for me. She’s my favorite weekly experience!”
“What was that?! This woman is crazy…INCREDIBLE. Whatever my desire – she nails it every time, and then some. Effortless. I can’t say enough about her or imagine anything better. PURE ECSTASY.”
“She’s the best domme I’ve ever experienced. Hands down.”
“Magnetic. Attuned. Unforgettable. Her control allowed me to fully let go.
“I’ve done this before — or so I thought. This was different. She took me to edges I didn’t know existed. I’m forever changed.”
