Shed the shame and turn fear into something you follow—not something you run from—with me.
If you’re holding back parts of your erotic self… if you feel desire bubbling under the surface but don’t know how to speak it… if you crave connection, play, or purpose in your intimacy but are unsure where to begin—welcome. You’re in the right place.
You don’t need to know what you want before you arrive. Many of my clients start in the unknown. They feel blocked, disconnected, or ashamed of their desires. My role is to help you soften into your truth, awaken your senses, and build the confidence to communicate and explore freely—without judgment, pressure, or performance.
Erotic Food Curator | Los Angeles | Queen Velvet Amethyst
About Me
I’m a purple, playful fairy who turns everything into a game. I believe pleasure is a portal to possibility—and I live what I teach. I’m not just a coach. I’m a storyteller and story-weaver, here to help you write the next chapter of your sensual and sexual journey. The one that reclaims your joy, your voice, your creativity. The one where you stop hiding and start feeling everything.
For over a decade, I’ve carefully designed my life around what expands me: from the weather I live in to the rituals I engage in, the work I do, and the art I create. I don’t follow scripts—I design the whole stage. And you can too.
My 200-hour Yoga Teacher Training with Jai SaltEarn helped root my embodiment work. My time in the Design Science Studio cohort brought me under the mentorship of visionaries who shaped the structure and soul of my erotic programming—like my Bonded course for men and K!nk program for liberating desire. I’ve also studied Creating Safer Spaces with Shelby Leigh, trauma-informed work at CSULB, The Darketypes with Liliana Coventina, and apprenticed with dommes and facilitators from around the world.
I specialize in helping individuals and couples reconnect to their sensuality, communicate desires with clarity, integrate shame, and explore kink with safety and creativity. Together, we’ll turn your questions into play, your fear into curiosity, and your desire into power.
Sessions & Services
If you’re unsure where to begin, I recommend starting with:
Creating Connection to Your Sensual Eros – A session to drop into the body, tune into your unique erotic expression, and reconnect to desire. This is perfect if you feel disconnected, uncertain, or curious about exploring yourself.
Other offerings include:
- Power Dynamics & Role Play for Couples
- Erotic Shame Release & Integration
- Dirty Talk & Language of Desire
- Rope Bondage for Trust, Energy & Ritual (ShibarTEA)
- Kink Foundations: Consent, Communication & Curiosity
- Self-Worth & Sexual Identity Coaching
- Erotic Hypnosis for Confidence & Focus
- Intuitive Domme Sessions (Queen Velvet Amethyst Experience)
- Venus Vacays – An immersive retreat for couples and individuals ready to add BDSM and kink to their intimate experiences in sacred, expansive ways
- Blessed Body Sessions – Come back into your body and learn how to stop feeling like it’s a jail, and start to love it as your sacred home
- Emotionally Sexy – A session to uncover and express the emotions living in your body, so you can feel more and liberate your Eros through presence and self-expression
Pricing available upon request. Sliding scale options available for BIPOC and LGBTQIA+ clients.
Contact & Next Steps
To book a session or consultation, visit this link.
Email: yesqueen@dominatrixtulum.com
Instagram: @camiteaexperience
If you’re unsure where to begin, send a short message about what you’re navigating. I’ll help guide you toward the right starting point.
Testimonials
“Queen Velvet Amethyst showed me how prioritizing pleasure could lead me to my highest self. I’ve learned to trust myself and love myself again.”
“In just one session, I began releasing years of sexual shame. I felt seen, safe, and finally able to express.”
“Each time we unlocked something unexpected. It changed how I relate to my body, my relationships, and my power.”
“After our session, my wife said she could feel the difference in how I was present with her. We’ve been closer ever since—more open, more intimate. This work shifted not just me, but our entire relationship.”
I’m Queen Velvet Amethyst, a Dominatrix and Erotic Food Curator, I welcome individuals of all genders and orientations, singles, couples and poly relationships.
