Dominatrix of Shame

Salt Lake City, UT ; Austin, TX ; Durango, CO

Introduction + My Work

As a man you feel like you have to show up with a certain persona in the world to be accepted. You know there’s more to you, but it doesn’t feel safe to express and share these parts with others.

You’ve done personal growth work and are intrigued by out-of-the-box experiences to bring you deeper into yourself. This is where my work comes in. My work allows you to show up in your relationships, work, and community with greater integrity, aliveness, and confidence that is rooted within yourself.

In real life, this may look like the drive to take action toward your dream projects rather than getting sucked into distractions or other people’s opinions. This may look like confidence to bring your goofy side into relationships, allowing authentic connection to flourish.

About Me

I started my career with five years as a mental health therapist specializing in sexual health, perinatal mental health, trauma, and couples therapy. In 2024, I left that world because I craved facilitating a depth of healing that didn’t fit in a therapist’s office.

In 2025, I unexpectedly discovered the Dominatrix in me through my personal work with Sacred Theater Somatics. My therapeutic work has since evolved into a new form of using BDSM & Sacred Theater Somatics to heal shame, trauma, and relational wounds. Working with men in this way truly feels like this work chose me.

As a therapist, I received extensive trauma, relationship, and sexual health training. Since then, I received training in Rina Trevi’s Tantric BDSM course and Madelyn Moon’s Sacred Theater Somatics™+ Shapeshifter Facilitator program.

My Offerings

1:1 Ritual BDSM Sessions
Investment: $1000 / 3 hours

Typical session: The first 30-45 minutes of our session includes conversation about boundaries/desires/consent and sharing about what is alive for you. I intuitively guide the session from there. I may start with nurturing massage and touch for you to relax.

I then weave power dynamic play, sensation play, ropes, and Sacred Theater Somatics to guide you into an experience of processing unexpressed truths, desires, and shame. We may take a break together for you to share your experience and ground together. I then may guide you into another practice or transition into aftercare.

Sessions will occur in an Airbnb or hotel setting of my choosing. The cost of the Airbnb/hotel is included in the session rate. The session rate includes a 30 minute aftercare call following the in-person session.

Companionship: The Muse Experience
Investment: $350/hr ( + all meals/experiences covered)

90 minutes: $525
2 hours: $700
3 hours: $1050
4 hours: $1400O
Overnight (7pm to 10am): $3500

The Muse Experience is an intimate, real-time container with a nurturing, playful woman of depth who awakens your presence, your creativity, and your aliveness.

This isn’t a “date.” It’s a relational field where you get to experience what healthy connection, attunement, and devotion feel like in your body.

You don’t just enjoy my energy — you regulate with it, rise with it, resonate with it.

This relational experience offers:

A template of healthy relationship dynamics
Attunement, reciprocity, emotional fluency, clarity, and warmth — modeled in real time.
Conversation that activates your aliveness
The kind of connection that lights up creativity, direction, purpose, and possibility inside you.
Being inspired by me as your Muse
My presence makes you think, feel, soften, and expand.
Regulated nervous system, relaxed body, open heart
Experience what it’s like to be with someone who holds you with grounded softness and confidence.
A social outing (dinner, nature time, tea, dancing, spa date, etc) as a container where you get to receive presence + loving attention in a clean, intentional way.

This is for men who are craving:

Deeper emotional intelligence and intimacy
Conscious relationship templating
Connection without pressure, performance, or sexual subtext
A healthy feminine presence that awakens inspiration and integrity
A safe space to practice presence, attunement, and relational skills

*There will be no sexual contact or kissing on the lips.*

Dominatrix of Shame | Salt Lake City, UT | Mistress Mahara

What to expect emotionally:

My clients often express they are surprised at what comes through for them in the session and could’ve never planned it ahead of time. I encourage you to trust you will have the experience you’re meant to. When working with shame, trauma, and relational wounds, there may be tears, sadness, anger, and the full range of emotions. I will be honored to hold you in that.

A client recently described me as “she’s someone who creates safety for the humanity of others- in our natural disasters, our masks we hide behind, and our desire to be truly seen.”

Next steps & screening:

Email me at missmahara@proton.me. In your email, introduce yourself, your desires for working with me, and your location. I will then send you a calendar link to schedule a free 30 minute call with me to discuss your desires and see if we are a good fit.

Dominatrix of Shame | Salt Lake City, UT | Mistress Mahara

Testimonial:

“I feel a tremendous amount of self love and acceptance. Feeling in my power. I wasn’t expecting so much healing. Can’t believe what came out of me. Putting the body in a situation of being tied up and smacked around gets the mind thinking outside the box, allowing for discovery that otherwise would be hard to pull out. I’ve taken the next steps on my _____ issue and I am moving forward.” ~ Dallas

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I’m Mistress Mahara, a Dominatrix of Shame.
I welcome:
women, men, all genders, couples, poly relationships

Mistress Mahara ~ Dominatrix of Shame

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