Dominatrix of Shame

Salt Lake City, UT ; Austin, TX

Introduction + My Work

As a man you feel like you have to show up with a certain persona in the world to be accepted. You know there’s more to you, but it doesn’t feel safe to express and share these parts with others.
You’ve done personal growth work and are intrigued by out-of-the-box experiences to bring you deeper into yourself. This is where my work comes in. My work allows you to show up in your relationships, work, and community with greater integrity, aliveness, and confidence that is rooted within yourself.
In real life, this may look like the drive to take action toward your dream projects rather than getting sucked into distractions or other people’s opinions. This may look like confidence to bring your goofy side into relationships, allowing authentic connection to flourish.

About Me

I started my career with five years as a mental health therapist specializing in sexual health, perinatal mental health, trauma, and couples therapy. In 2024, I left that world because I craved facilitating a depth of healing that didn’t fit in a therapist’s office.

In 2025, I unexpectedly discovered the Dominatrix in me through my personal work with Sacred Theater Somatics. My therapeutic work has since evolved into a new form of using BDSM & Sacred Theater Somatics to heal shame, trauma, and relational wounds. Working with men in this way truly feels like this work chose me.

As a therapist, I received extensive trauma, relationship, and sexual health training. Since then, I received training in Rina Trevi’s Tantric BDSM course and Madelyn Moon’s Sacred Theater Somatics™+ Shapeshifter Facilitator program.

My Offering

1:1 BDSM Healing Sessions
Session length: 2 – 3 hours

Typical session: The first 30-45 minutes of our session includes conversation about boundaries/desires/consent and sharing about what is alive for you. I intuitively guide the session from there. I may start with nurturing massage and touch for you to relax.

I then weave power dynamic play, sensation play, ropes, and Sacred Theater Somatics to guide you into an experience of processing unexpressed truths, desires, and shame. We may take a break together for you to share your experience and ground together. I then may guide you into another practice or transition into aftercare.

*To be clear, there is no sexual contact or kissing on the lips.*

Dominatrix of Shame | Salt Lake City, UT | Mistress Mahara

What to expect emotionally:

My clients often express they are surprised at what comes through for them in the session and could’ve never planned it ahead of time. I encourage you to trust you will have the experience you’re meant to. When working with shame, trauma, and relational wounds, there may be tears, sadness, anger, and the full range of emotions. I will be honored to hold you in that.

A client recently described me as “she’s someone who creates safety for the humanity of others- in our natural disasters, our masks we hide behind, and our desire to be truly seen.”

Pricing: $750 Base Rate

Sessions occur either in your home or an Airbnb setting. Additional costs may be associated if I am traveling more than 20 minutes drive to your home. Airbnb is an additional cost of $150 (I will book).

Next steps & screening:

Email me at hello@wild-womanhood.com. In your email, introduce yourself, your intentions with working together, your location, phone number, ID verification (LinkedIn/work profile or social media link AND photo of drivers license/passport), and ideal days of the week/times of day for a consultation session.

I will coordinate booking and scheduling a $150 consultation session with you. This session is one hour either in person (park/walk/coffee shop) or virtual. After booking, I will send you a thorough intake form due at least 24 hours before the consultation session.

If I determine we are a good fit, we will coordinate next steps.

Dominatrix of Shame | Salt Lake City, UT | Mistress Mahara

Testimonial:

“I feel a tremendous amount of self love and acceptance. Feeling in my power. I wasn’t expecting so much healing. Can’t believe what came out of me. Putting the body in a situation of being tied up and smacked around gets the mind thinking outside the box, allowing for discovery that otherwise would be hard to pull out. I’ve taken the next steps on my _____ issue and I am moving forward.” ~ Dallas

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I’m Mistress Mahara, a Dominatrix of Shame.
I welcome:
women, men, all genders, couples, poly relationships

Mistress Mahara ~ Dominatrix of Shame

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