You.
You’ve spent your life doing what you’ve been taught to do. Achieving. Providing. Pleasing. Caring for everyone but yourself.
You find purpose in giving, validation in success, and fulfillment in being needed.
But something feels missing, or you’ve been secretly giving in ways you wish to receive, and not getting it.
You’ve tried therapy, attended numerous trainings, flipped through self-help books—always searching for the next breakthrough, the next version of you.
Maybe you’re burned out, navigating a life transition, ready for a change.
Or maybe, somewhere along the way, you simply forgot you.
Your erotic innocence before it was swept away into the ocean of proving your worth & your belonging by performing and perfectionism.
This is your invitation to return.
What You Take Away
You may have come here to learn how to be a better lover. You’ll leave here knowing what you want. Asking for what you need. Reconnecting with what brings you pleasure and nourishment.
Release the guilt of choosing yourself. Let go of the shame of wanting more.
And surrender to pleasure—not to achieve, not to give, not to become—but simply to receive.
Just because you are worth it.
Sessions
Four pathways to bring you back to yourself.
Each level is an invitation to deepen your devotion to self—honoring your own rhythm, desires, and capacity to receive. Every session is thoughtfully curated for you, meeting you where you are and unfolding into what you need most.
90-Minute Embodied Coaching
In person or virtual – $200
A space to tell your story, explore old patterns, soften shame, and reconnect with your desires. Through breathwork, guided meditation, self-touch, inner exploration, and role-play, we’ll uncover what you truly need to feel more alive, connected, and at home in yourself—in and beyond the bedroom.
Offering 3 session package deal: $500
90-Minute Embodied Pleasure Ritual
We begin by creating safety, setting intentions, and finding our rhythm together. Through breath and intentional one-way touch sensual bodywork, you’re invited to soften, surrender, and experience the art of receiving—without an agenda, without performing, without needing to give anything back.
Because pleasure doesn’t have to be earned. You’re allowed to simply receive.
Pricing starts at $400 & varies based on session frequency and level of intimacy.
3-Hour Extended Pleasure Ritual
A spacious blend of somatic coaching and sensual bodywork, offering time to slow down, drop deeper, and feel truly seen. Together, we create room for exploration, connection, and the kind of pleasure that unfolds when there’s nowhere else you need to be.
Ideal for those traveling from out of town or anyone longing for more time to settle into the experience.
Pricing starts at $600 based on session frequency and level of intimacy.
Eco-Pleasure Immersion
A full day of reconnection
An invitation to return to your senses and let the natural world hold you. Depending on the season and weather, we might wander forest trails, tend the garden, forage, harvest, soak in hot springs, or unwind in the sauna.
We’ll share two organic meals, explore through coaching and authentic relating, and close the day with a pleasure ritual. A follow-up coaching session is included to help integrate your experience into everyday life.
Come as you are. Leave with more space to feel, breathe, and receive. Follow up integration session included.
Available in person. Airbnb accommodation is arranged and paid for by the client.
$1600 Subject to change depending on frequency and level of intimacy
Travel: I may travel to you, if it feels like the right fit, for extended sessions/ immersions.
You pay travel and accommodations.
Consent and boundaries
Safety, Consent and boundaries mean so much to me and frames the scope of my work for all parties involved. Our work is confidential and held with discretion.
Included:
One way touch, or guided specific practices of two way touch
Cuddling/ holding
Sexological bodywork
Art of Tease and Foreplay
And more..
Not included: I do not offer full service or my body to be touched explicitly; genital touching, kissing, groping, etc.. Please always ask.
We can honor, and celebrate our desires and sometimes be met with a “no”. Without feeling rejected or with shame. This is the beauty of this work!
About the Eco Somatic Intimacy Guide
My path to this work began with a longing for belonging. Like most- Growing up amid generational trauma, and witnessing the burn out of the hustle and bustle of life. People pleasing, high functioning, and rarely asking for or getting what I needed. I found refuge in the mountains, the garden, and the quiet wisdom of the natural world.
Over time, my relationship and stewardship with the Earth became a pathway back to myself—teaching me to listen more deeply, feel more fully, and discover pleasure beyond performance or expectation.
This is the heart of my work: creating space for others to reconnect with their bodies, reclaim their desires, and cultivate a more intimate relationship with themselves and the world around them.
As a Somatic Sex and Intimacy Coach trained through Somatica® Institute, as well as continued training with the Institute for the study of Somatic Sex Education, I guide others in exploring pleasure, deepening connection, and remembering that they are worthy of care, nourishment, and joy, & playfulness—not for what they give or achieve, or how their past trauma informed shaped them, but simply because they exist.
Next steps
If you feel the inner voice saying this is the right step, to shift the old, burned out patterning, and finally relax into receiving and pleasure.
Email or Text > Your name and sincere message, no bots, or A.i responses> book a discovery
Phone call> Schedule a session> Put down a deposit to reserve your booking.
I will not answer blocked numbers. Or phone calls without prior discovery call scheduling.
You will be asked to fill out and send a questionnaire/ consent &liability form and a current photo of you. Don’t be scared, just to know who I’m meeting/ chatting with.
Testimonials
“Working with Khyla was a profound step into my growth and journey into my body. She holds space with immense love and wisdom and truly creates an environment that can hold absolutely anything. She has unique skills working with intimacy making it feel comfortable, fun, and with full embrace of pleasure” ~ A
“ I had decades long trauma left unresolved working in Traditional therapy with 3 different therapists over many years. However, Khyla helped me process what I needed to process to finally experience this resolution. Her creativity, ability to listen, and intuitively guide is exceptional and has forever made my life a richer and more beautiful place.” ~ D
I’m Khyla, your Eco Somatic Intimacy Guide, I welcome individuals of all genders and orientations, singles, couples, poly relationships.
