Threesome Facilitator and Adventure Guide for Couples

San Francisco Bay Area, Los Angeles, CA & Austin, TX

My Threesome Facilitation service welcomes established couples of all genders and orientations.

Fantasizing About A Threesome, But Worried About The “What Ifs”?

Are you and your partner dreaming about a threesome together, but worried about the potential of jealousy, feeling left out, or relationship drama? What if I told you that with the right guidance, these challenges could become catalysts for profound connection and personal growth!

I’m Elaine Love, your guide and partner on an exquisite journey of threesome exploration—a journey that’s less about just “trying something new” and more about self-discovery and relational expansion. Here, fear transmutes into trust, old, limiting beliefs melt away, and jealousy blossoms into compersion, making room for a reimagined, vibrant love.

Threesome Facilitator | SF, Berkeley, Mill Valley | Elaine Love

Step Into A Realm Where Desires Bloom, Relationships Flourish And Fears Wither Away

You and your partner dance between excitement and trust
Your deepest desires are celebrated, not judged
You learn to turn complex emotions like jealousy into catalysts for intimacy
Your love emerges more vibrant and full of new possibilities

This Container Is Designed For Couples

Desiring a first threesome but overwhelmed by the “what ifs” or unsure how to start
Eager to rediscover each other through fresh eyes and ignite a relationship renaissance
Who experienced challenges and want to reframe group intimacy with care and intention
Curious to expand notions of intimacy and challenge societal norms
Seeking new tools to master the art of threesomes

Let Me Be Your Guide on This Intimate Adventure

As a happily married polyamorous woman, my lived experience infuses every aspect of our work together, offering you real-world wisdom alongside heartfelt guidance. For over a decade, I’ve been joining couples in their threesome explorations, weaving magic that transforms relationships. I’m here not only as a facilitator and educator, but also as an ally, and as a play partner—someone genuinely thrilled to co-create a profound and loving adventure with you both.

Praise

“Elaine’s experience and familiarity with this work are very clear. […] If you’re fortunate enough to be reading this, book her immediately. It will be a most valuable and rare journey.” M., male

“Wow. Wow. Wow. My experience with Elaine was a dream come true. And we totally had the breakthrough I had been hoping for! It was… identity shifting!!” M., female

“Elaine was masterful at listening for when the moment called for her to be our guide and when it was most serving to be our peer and playmate.” B., male

“The space created for open communication and taking things slow put me not only at ease, but also in a state of excitement and deep awareness.” S., female

“I now feel even closer to my partner and so much better equipped to navigate play spaces together.” O., male

The Arc Of My Signature Journey*

My unique container offers a delicate balance of structure and play, providing a deeply safe space for you to express your authentic tun-on, as well as your vulnerabilities.

Following a complimentary meet & greet call and a deep dive meeting to align on intentions and expectations, we will enter the adventure of three-way play.

During our immersions, my role shifts between guide and play partner, ensuring you feel supported. Get ready for several hours of in-person magic designed for relationship expansion and embodied connection, filled with guided conversations, spicy games, powerful tools, and ample time for organic play.

*I’m happy to explore different possibilities with established couples.

Ready To Write The Next Chapter Of Your Love Story?

Let’s embark on this epic adventure together!

Please familiarize yourselves further with my unique offering at elaine-love.com
Send me a thoughtful intro via the short contact form on my website.
If I sense that we’re a match, I’ll follow up with booking info so you can schedule your complimentary meet & greet video call, and we’ll take it from there!

Thank you for following these simple steps to set us up for a great start. I’m excited to receive your message and guide you on this path toward deeper intimacy, adventure, and connection.

Location

I’m available to meet anywhere across the Bay Area, including Palo Alto and the Peninsula, Oakland and Berkeley in the East Bay, Mill Valley and San Rafael in Marin. I also often travel to Los Angeles, San Diego, Austin, New York, Denver, and Boulder.

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My Threesome Facilitation service welcomes established couples of all genders and orientations.

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Elaine Love ~ Threesome Facilitator for Couples

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