You already feel it… like your life could be fuller. But no matter the amount of retreats, workshops, coaching or therapy you’ve invested in, within your everyday life, you’re left waiting for the next peak experience, the next class to attend, the next external authority to shift you into where you want to be.
And maybe, you’re just a little tired of that.
We are Mistress Chi and Jericho, erotic practitioners who together bring over two decades of experience in erotic, somatic, and energy work. We know what it’s like to chase peak experience after peak experiences and an external authority outside your own — where life in the in-between feels less like living and more like a waiting room.
Our question became: how do we bring these extraordinary experiences into our everyday moments? Where all of life is one continuous peak experience?
Enter Erotic Living.
What we found is that through daily practice of attuning ourselves to the most potent form of life force there is – erotic energy – that every moment can become imbued with color, that this force can open us into the highest frequency of pleasure well outside of bedroom interactions. Where even drinking a glass of water becomes erotic without effort.
Our Erotic Living sessions are designed to have you access your erotic energy, your most potent form of life force. But we go beyond that – with us as your erotic guides, you’ll learn to build a relationship with your erotic energy, allowing this force to guide all of your life and transforming you from the inside out.
Erotic Lifestyle Guides | New York City, NY | Mistress Chi & Jerich
What We Offer
We offer 2-hour bespoke erotic sessions designed to help you meet the life force beneath your masks.
Each session includes a contained structure and is followed by a 45-minute integration call so what opens in session lands in your day-to-day life.
Together, we’ll determine whether Mistress Chi or Jericho leads the session and integration. Four-hand touch and shared holding from both of us is also an option.
We work with individuals and couples.
What You Learn In Session
Erotic Living is a practice devoted to your life force.
You learn how to:
- Track sensation without dissociating or performing
- Distinguish desire from survival impulses
- Stay present during intimacy instead of leaving your body
- Name your wants clearly — and hear “no” without collapsing
- Integrate erotic insight into your daily life
These skills do not stay only in the session.
They transfer directly into:
- Dating and partnership
- Creative work
- Leadership and decision-making
- Emotional regulation and self-care
This is developmental work, where your capacity expands over time.
Session Structure
Each Erotic Living session follows clear containment:
- Arrival & Orientation
We begin with grounding and intention-setting.
You will be asked about:
- Your current physical and emotional state
- Your desires and intentions
- Your boundaries and limits
Consent is explicit and ongoing. You are at choice 100% of the time.
- Erotic / Somatic Practice
Sessions may include:
- Attuned erotic bodywork
- Guided self-connection
- Breath and sensation tracking
- Relational or archetypal exploration
- Aftercare & Integration
We close with:
- Nervous-system settling
- Reflection and translation into daily life
- Clarifying developmental next steps
Consent & Safety
We maintain safety through:
- Explicit verbal consent at each phase
- Ongoing check-ins throughout
- Clear opt-out options at all times
- Respect for physical, emotional, and psychological boundaries
- Trauma-aware pacing and responsiveness
We center the body’s experience.
We will never override your body for your mind’s agenda.
Your body comes first.
Erotic Lifestyle Guides | New York City, NY | Mistress Chi & Jerich
Pricing
Single 2-hour session: $1000
Couples 2-hour session: $1500
Package rates are available for those committed to ongoing development.
Next Steps
Submit your intake form here:
https://forms.gle/2Q1iv3AZMCpZypGP6
We require a video call prior to sessioning to ensure alignment and readiness.
