Relationship & Sexuality Guide

Denver, CO ; Philadelphia, PA ; New York

I support men, women, and couples to develop greater awareness, aliveness, and trust in their relationship with sexuality.

Relationship & Sexuality Guide | Denver, CO | Yosi Kalam

For Men: Choiceful Orgasm & Erotic Awareness

You love to make love – the passion, the play, the pleasure, the power. And yet, when you’re not able to control your orgasm, sex can stir up anxiety, frustration, and shame.

Well, my dear brother, you are not alone in this. I struggled for many years to exercise choice with my orgasm. There is nothing wrong with your penis, and this is very much a challenge that can be transformed.

Through our work together, we will develop your erotic awareness. Combining mindfulness, energetic, and somatic practices, you will learn to slow your arousal, circulate your energy beyond your genitals, and increase your capacity to feel higher levels of energy. As you become more deeply connected with your body, you will be able to lead your lover(s) on expansive and beautiful journeys of erotic ecstasy.

For Women: Discover and Remember the Wisdom & Pleasure of your Body

You long to feel safe, open, and free in your body. But, too many misguided sexual experiences have left you feeling objectified, pressured, and ashamed.

When you feel like you are only wanted for your body, or the focus is only on sex, your body closes.
When you feel like your partner will get upset if you don’t want to have sex, your body tightens.
When you feel ashamed for not being turned on, your natural erotic essence gets suppressed.

Your natural essence is to be open, radiant, wild, and free. Our work together is not about me teaching you anything – it’s about you discovering and remembering the wisdom and pleasure of your temple body. My role is to hold space for that discovery and remembrance, with deep, intimate presence.

Held within a playful and dynamic container of erotic exploration, you can discover the truth of your desires and boundaries. When there is no pressure or destination, and you feel free to express whatever is inside you, you can remember how easily pleasure flows through your body.

For Couples:

You’re deeply in love, but your sexual connection feels imbalanced and out of touch.

If this sounds familiar, then you’re in the right place:
He wants her.
She wants to want him, but she doesn’t feel turned on.
He feels rejected, frustrated, resentful, undesired.
She feels confused, unsure why she’s not getting turned on.
The more that he wants her, the more she feels her walls come up.
And the cycle goes on.

This is the cycle that played out in our marriage for years. What finally enabled us to break out of the cycle was a deep journey into understanding and expressing our desires, needs, and emotions.

We can’t separate the sexual connection from the emotional connection. Our work with couples focuses on the building of emotional and erotic trust. Combining relational awareness practices with sacred sexuality rituals, we support couples to breathe new life into their romantic, erotic connection.

Relationship & Sexuality Guide | Denver, CO | Yosi Kalam

About Me:

Sexuality has been one of the most important, challenging, and enlivening aspects of my life.
For years, I struggled with choice-less ejaculation, sexual frustration, and performance anxiety.
My will to transform these patterns sparked my fascination with sexuality and my inspiration to become a practitioner.

My initial entry into this world was through the ISTA Practitioner Training, where I developed my capacity to sense, guide, and attune to the flow of erotic energy through the body.

I have also worked with a number of relationship coaches and sexuality practitioners over the years.
This 1-1 work has been instrumental in helping me to develop a more grounded relationship with sexuality, rooted in love and trust.

Sexual healing work is some of the most challenging and important work for us as humans on this planet at this time.
It is my great honor to serve human beings in awakening to the soul-enriching, heart-opening, life-affirming purpose and power of sexuality.

Contact:

Send me an email at yos.kalam@gmail.com
Tell me about your interests, desires, curiosities, and questions.
I’ll follow up to schedule a free consultation call.

Testimonials

“Yosi! I’m filled with gratitude for the healing journey you were integral in guiding this year. This past weekend I spent some time with a lover, and I really felt the power of our work together.” ~ J.R.

“I feel like a new woman. The way Yosi holds space is inspirational, and his trauma awareness is something else. Just thinking about it is bringing tears of joy to my eyes. My mom saw me and she was like, you look different, you fell in love. Yeah, with myself.” ~ K.B.

I am grateful for the transformations that have been emerging in my life through Yosi’s teachings. The awareness practices have enabled me to see when my body is feeling tight or numb and to allow for more openness and aliveness.” ~ J.P.

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I’m Yosi, a Relationship & Sexuality Guide, I welcome individuals of all genders and orientations, singles, couples & poly relationships.

Yosi Kalam ~ Tantric Guide

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