Invitation
You may be a woman who has learned how to be strong, capable, and self-reliant. You move fast, carry responsibility, and often hold others together. You may be a mother, a leader, an over-achiever—beautiful, competent, and quietly exhausted. In love, you find yourself taking charge, directing, and even mothering the men you long to relax with. Beneath that armor lives a softer desire: to be led, to feel safe enough to melt, to reconnect with your sensuality, creativity, and pleasure.
You may also be a man who is successful in the world, yet uncertain in intimacy. You care deeply, but notice you lead with pleasing rather than presence. You long to feel grounded in your masculinity, confident in your desire, and capable of meeting a woman without collapsing, performing, or hiding parts of yourself.
Or you may be a couple who once felt closeness and spark, and now live more like roommates—connected by love, history, or children, yet missing aliveness, polarity, and erotic presence.
My work supports individuals and couples who are ready to move beyond patterns of over-functioning, disconnection, or self-doubt and into relationships that feel embodied, conscious, and alive. Transformation here is not conceptual—it is felt. Women soften into radiance and receptivity. Men stand in quiet, embodied confidence. Couples rediscover intimacy, desire, and emotional safety as a lived experience.
Services
1:1 Intimacy & Relationship Mentorship
Six-month private mentorship for men, women, and couples focused on emotional presence, relational confidence, authentic communication, and embodied intimacy. Includes breathwork integration and practical relational guidance.
Investment: $3,000 | Online & $ 5,000 In-Person (Bay Area)
Schedule a FREE 30 min Connection Call for more details and to see if we are the right fit to move forward.
Single 1:1 Session
A focused 60-minute session for clarity, attunement, and relational insight.
Investment: $250
Book directly here.
Somatic Breathwork Session
A 90-minute guided breathwork experience with supportive touch & reiki to regulate the nervous system, release emotional tension, and deepen embodiment.
Investment: $350 | Bay Area
Schedule a FREE 30 min Connection Call for more details and to see if we are the right fit to move forward.
Online Courses for Men
Holistic Intimacy | San Francisco | Iryna Sulim
About Me
I am Iryna Sulim, an intimacy and relationship mentor devoted to guiding people into deeper connection, authenticity, and relational presence. My work merges somatic awareness, breathwork, intuitive guidance, and relational depth so you can live and love from your fullest expression.
My approach isn’t about quick fixes or surface-level techniques. It’s about helping you understand how you show up in relationships, how you communicate desire, and how you meet others with integrity of heart and body. This work invites you to embody your emotional maturity, relational confidence, and erotic aliveness—all in service of richer, more meaningful connection.
Testimonials
“Iryna is very knowledgeable about sexuality and relationships… once you put in the work you see the results. I have learned many things about sexuality and relationships… it has an impact on all aspects of your life.” ~ Anonymous client
“Working with Iryna, intimacy has gone up significantly… I feel more aware of responding to a woman’s needs… The result of this has made a more confident me.” ~ Kris, New Jersey
These reflections show how men not only change their relational confidence but also deepen their self-awareness, communication, and capacity for intimate connection.
Holistic Intimacy | San Francisco | Iryna Sulim
Next Steps
If you feel drawn to deepen your relational life, you can reach out to schedule
* FREE 30 min connection call
* Book directly my 1:1 60 min session.
* Check out my Free offering for Men here.
Whether you’re curious or already certain this is your path, a single session is a gentle first step toward embodied transformation.
Final Note
If your heart stirs when you read these words, that is not coincidence—it’s resonance. Your longing for deeper connection, clarity in relationships, and honest intimacy is not a flaw; it is a signal of your readiness to evolve. I’m here not to fix you, but to guide you into the parts of yourself you are ready to claim.
With Love, Iryna
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I’m Iryna Sulim, Holistic Intimacy & Relationship Mentor.
I welcome men, women and couples.
