Intro – The Surrender Your Soul Has Been Craving
You don’t just want kink.
You want a ritual.
You want reverence.
You want healing through a co-created space.
Imagine:
- Your shame rewritten as sacred power
- Your deepest fantasies unlocked and celebrated through somatic alchemy
- Every touch unearthing the wild, whole being beneath all of your protective masks
We are delightfully playful. And, this isn’t just play.
It’s transformation. It’s initiation.
We are here to guide you.
Holistic Kink Duo | San Francisco, CA | Clea and Lila
About – Holistic Kink
We are ritualists of desire, trained in the art of kink as soul medicine.
For us, the rope, the flogger, the whispered command?
They’re tools – crafted over years of study in:
- IFS/Parts work
- Somatic healing modalities (bodywork, energy work, breathwork, movement and dance practices, meditation, invitations to subtle somatic awareness)
- Organic Intelligence
- Bill Plotkin’s Nature-based map of the human psyche
- Jungian practices of working with the unconscious
- Theater and archetypal work
- Intuitive/channeled guidance and working with the unseen realms
- Ritual and ceremony
- Trauma informed practices
Why do we do this?
Because we’ve witnessed kink reweave nervous systems, shatter limiting beliefs, and birth radical self-love.
Liberation is our mission.
We meet you as:
- Sacred mirrors reflecting your hidden power
- Devotional hedonists crafting catharsis through sensation
- Intuitive guides merging bodywork, psyche work, and erotic theater
Our Sessions – Architecture of Transformation
Every journey is co-created, but follows this arc:
The Invocation (Pre-Session)
▸ Discovery Call with Clea – Mutual alignment check (free, 15 mins)
▸ Intake Questionnaire – Self-inquiry to map your psyche’s terrain
▸ Custom Session Design – 1 hr, multi-hour, multi-day, or ongoing series
▸ Preparation Ritual – Boundaries, schedules, “homeplay,” and attire guidance
The Ritual (Session Time)
- Arrival & Landing – Ground and orient to the space we will be sharing.
- Negotiation – Build on prior talks for detailed alignment, always adjusting to your current energy and consent needs.
- Body Mapping – Use somatic modalities like touch and energy work to assess your body, fostering presence and listening.
- Psyche Mapping – Explore your mental, emotional, relational, and spiritual state to uncover beliefs, wounds, fantasies, traumas and hidden desires.
- Kink Alchemy – This is where the magic really happens. We take everything we’ve mapped so far – from the intake process through body and psyche mapping – and weave it together into a bespoke, kink-informed scene that alchemizes what is stuck into usable energy. We take the material of the psyche and embed it into an artistic, embodied, metaphorical, pleasure and play-based journey that goes beyond the intellectual and deep into the soma where shifts can take root in a sustainable and lasting way.
- Aftercare – We land you softly, in support of integration and grounding, in a manner that has been previously discussed and agreed upon. This could look like: letting you rest with a blanket; having a cup of tea; non-sexual, comforting touch or cuddling; giving you some space for silent/still/meditative solo time, etc.
- Integration – Tailored somatic and spiritual practices (e.g., bodywork, journaling, nature) for grounding, plus a follow-up call within two weeks for all sessions.
The Exchange:
1 Hour – $800
4 Hours – $2400
1 Day Overnight (includes room & food): $6000
Custom Packages for multi-day Immersions.
Contact & Next Steps – Your First Sacred Yes
If you feel the pull:
- Send an email to lovecleaplease@gmail.com or a text 6193207375 with:
- Your template: Hello, Lila and Clea, I am seeking…..
- Your preferred session length and anything else you’d like to share with us
- We’ll respond within 48 hrs to schedule your Discovery Call
- Intake questionnaire and payment info sent upon mutual agreement to proceed with an in-person session
Notes:
- No calls without scheduling
- All sessions require a 25% non-refundable deposit
- All individuals and couples are free to reach out
Testimonials
Both – “I have never felt more myself than after our first time together with Lila and Clea. I could just be and express myself in all the ways I have always wanted to. I love these two women so much.” – J., switch, 40
Lila – “My session was the catalyst for so much in my life. This was my first official BDSM session of any kind, although the idea of being dominated has always been a huge sexual turn on for me. I was made to feel comfortable & safe from the moment we first began communicating (via email) till the moment we said goodbye, after the session ended. Everything I shared with her was spoken about with such a casual yet respectful manner that it made me feel comfortable (instead of ashamed, as I have often felt in the past about some of my kinks & fetishes) & able to share & trust her fully.” – Miss T, femme, 33
Both – “The aftercare felt like being swaddled by angels. I’ve never integrated a kink experience so deeply.” – B., non-binary, 43
Clea – “I learned so much from sitting in that room with you, and the experience you gave me. I literally was involuntarily shaking and quivering as you showered me with praise and light touch. REVOLUTIONARY for me.” – B., masc, 39
We are Clea and Lila, a Holistic Kink Duo, we welcome individuals of all genders and orientations, singles, couples and poly relationships.
