Holistic Kink Duo | Oakland, CA | Clea and Lila
About – Holistic Kink
We are ritualist’s of desire, trained in the art of kink as soul medicine.
For us, the rope, the flogger, the whispered command?
They’re tools – crafted over years of study in:
- IFS/Parts work
- Somatic healing modalities (bodywork, energy work, breath work, movement and dance practices, meditation, invitations to subtle somatic awareness)
- Organic Intelligence
- Bill Plotkin’s Nature-based map of the human psyche
- Jungian practices of working with the unconscious
- Theater and archetypal work
- Intuitive/channeled guidance and working with the unseen realms
- Ritual and ceremony
- Trauma informed practices
Why do we do this?
Because we’ve witnessed kink reweave nervous systems, shatter limiting beliefs, and birth radical self-love.
Liberation is our mission. We want you to leave our sessions creatively inspired, relaxed and regulated.
We meet you as:
- Sacred mirrors reflecting your inner power
- Devotional hedonists crafting catharsis through sensation
- Intuitive guides merging bodywork, psyche work, and erotic theater
Elements of a Session
Every journey is co-created, but follows this arc:
The Invocation (Pre-Session)
- Send email with references of other providers you have worked with before or a Discovery Call with Clea – Mutual alignment check (free, 15 mins)
- Intake Questionnaire – Self-inquiry to map your psyche’s terrain
- Custom Session Design – 1 hr, multi-hour, multi-day, or ongoing series
- Preparation – Boundaries, schedules, directions etc.
The Ritual (Session Time)
- Arrival & Landing – Ground and orient to the space we will be sharing.
- Negotiation – Build on prior correspondence for detailed alignment, always adjusting to your current energy and consent needs.
- Body Mapping – Use somatic modalities like touch and energy work to assess your body, fostering presence and listening.
- Psyche Mapping – Explore your mental, emotional, relational, and spiritual state to uncover beliefs, wounds, fantasies, traumas and hidden desires.
- Kink Alchemy – This is where the map becomes the journey. We weave together everything gathered through your intake, body, and psyche into a bespoke, kink-informed scene that moves beyond the intellectual and into the soma, transforming stuck energy into something alive and lasting.
- Aftercare – We land you softly, in support of integration and grounding, in a manner that has been previously discussed and agreed upon. This could look like: letting you rest with a blanket; having a cup of tea; non-sexual, comforting touch or cuddling; giving you some space for silent/still/meditative solo time, etc.
- Integration – Tailored somatic and spiritual practices (e.g., bodywork, journaling, nature) for grounding. We offer a 30 minute integration call within 2 weeks of our time together for any booking over 4 hours long.
The Exchange:
1 Hour – $900
4 Hours – $3200
1 Day Overnight (does not include room & food): $8000
Custom Packages for multi-day Immersions.
Contact & Next Steps – Your First Full Body Yes
If you feel the pull:
- Send an email to lovecleaplease@gmail.com or a text 6193207375 with:
- Your template: Hello, Lila and Clea, I am seeking…..
- Your preferred session length and anything else you’d like to share with us
- We’ll respond within 48 hrs to schedule your Discovery Call
- Intake questionnaire and payment info sent upon mutual agreement to proceed with an in-person session
Notes:
Testimonials
Both – “I have never felt more myself than after our first time together with Lila and Clea. I could just be and express myself in all the ways I have always wanted to. I love these two women so much.” ~ J., switch, 40
Lila – “My session was the catalyst for so much in my life. This was my first official BDSM session of any kind, although the idea of being dominated has always been a huge sexual turn on for me. I was made to feel comfortable & safe from the moment we first began communicating (via email) till the moment we said goodbye, after the session ended. Everything I shared with her was spoken about with such a casual yet respectful manner that it made me feel comfortable (instead of ashamed, as I have often felt in the past about some of my kinks & fetishes) & able to share & trust her fully.” ~ Miss T, femme, 33
Both – “The aftercare felt like being swaddled by angels. I’ve never integrated a kink experience so deeply.” ~ B., non-binary, 43
Clea – “I learned so much from sitting in that room with you, and the experience you gave me. I literally was involuntarily shaking and quivering as you showered me with praise and light touch. REVOLUTIONARY for me.” ~ B., masc, 39
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We are Clea and Lila, a Holistic Kink Duo, we welcome individuals of all genders and orientations, singles, couples and poly relationships.
