You Deserve to Be Supported in Your Pleasure

Seattle, Bellevue, Kirkland, WA

You’re curious. Things have changed, and it’s made you doubt what you were taught. Now you’re wanting to explore what else might be true or different — a little unsure, and drawn to something you can’t quite name. Maybe you want to catch up on etiquette, awareness, and sensory play in a world you no longer recognize.

Maybe you’re carrying a fear that you don’t know how to reclaim your own power again, or a whisper that your best might be behind you… and you are not willing to die without feeling desired, excited, and eager for connection and real physical intimacy again.

I work with emotionally intelligent adults navigating relational transition — divorce, breakup, retirement, empty house, the death of a partner, opening or restructuring long-term partnerships.

I love working with people later in life who are recovering from relationship patterns, especially codependent ones, and learning to remove the shame, blame, and repression from an upbringing that missed protecting their individuality and autonomy. That includes people who have been recently divorced and are trying to figure out who they are again — particularly those who are trying to figure out how to be balanced humans again and how to find their healthy masculine and feminine balance, and express it so those around them feel safe and cared for.

What changes: people find their own clarity and independence again. They have words to explain themselves to other people, and the willingness to risk building genuine connection again. They walk through the world tall, confident, and sure of themselves — free, happy, and in tune with their own unjudged pleasure again.

Intimacy & Partnership Advisor | Seattle, WA | Radiant Rebecca

How I Work

This is direct, grounded work with real relational and erotic experience as it’s happening in your life. A session may slow down a real interaction line by line to see where you lost internal clarity. We may work through how to re-enter intimacy, dating, or partnership with clearer internal structure and more emotional steadiness.

I refuse to let you hide from yourself. From there we work with shamanic insight tools, balance with nature, and the work of clarifying what your soul is actually hungry for — because nothing stops your maturity faster than not feeding what pulls you forward.

I bring a compassionate, shiny mirror so you can see the patterns you’re actually engaging in and where those patterns end up if nothing changes.

Behind this work: fifteen years of body study, a Performance Neuroscience Coach certification through the Flow Research Collective, and a long-term apprenticeship in a teaching lineage. I have been in early perimenopause for ten years, which has shaped how I work as much as any training.

Sessions

Some of the ways we work together:

Exploring your sexuality more deeply — connecting, relaxing, exploring, and enjoying without judgement, pressure, or pushing.
Deconstructing the shame and repression from a repressive upbringing, and finding your way back to your authentic, sensual, fully expressed self.
Evolving past codependency and into co-empowerment and inter-reliability — how to practically explore the world with autonomy, respect for those around you, and live in harmony without giving up yourself.
Finding yourself again after a divorce or big life change (including opening up an existing relationship) — integrating the loss and the growth, and putting yourself back out there in a supported, encouraging way.
Flow State for everyone — understanding your physiology and the Flow State, including through perimenopause and menopause.

A session starts with a short conversation to ground, connect, and see where you are today, what you need, and what’s important to talk about before we make a plan for the day. For example, in a 90-minute one-on-one session, we start with a conversation about what is up for you today, and then some practical hands-on experiments. For an overnight, the going-to-bed and waking-up rituals happen together.

Mutual nudity and reciprocal touch is welcome with a verbal consent conversation.

Our First Meeting – Choose Your Own Adventure

$250 — A quick Clarity Call by phone or video — a short conversation, under half an hour, to get you unstuck quickly or for us to assess each other quickly.
$400 — In person, in public. Prefer to meet in person first? Email me directly and we’ll find a public place that works for us both/all for a playful in person connection — a first hour of social time (in public) to see how we connect.
$900 — A full hour of private conversation, intimacy coaching, embodiment practice, etc — in person, or by phone or video.

Rates

$1,400 — 90 Minutes
$3,600 — Extended Afternoon (4 hours)
$6,500 — Overnight Sleep Reset
Immersion & Ongoing Connection — by arrangement.

In person sessions are, unless otherwise stated, held in my private home in Seattle. Detailed directions and a reminder will be sent the night before our session. If you want me to come to you, let’s have a conversation.

Intimacy & Partnership Advisor | Seattle, WA | Radiant Rebecca

How to Begin

If this resonates, the best first step is a first meeting to see if we are a good fit. Screening in person public meeting or by provider references accepted, as well as a few other methods depending on comfort level with each other.

You can always email me with questions. A Clarity Call is a quick, simple way to get private answers to your questions — even the complicated ones. And when you’re ready, booking a session is a great next step.

I work with a limited number of people so that we are able to maintain a good connection which increases in depth over time. You do not need to be certain before reaching out — just honest about what is no longer working for you.

If you want as much privacy as possible, write to me from your own ProtonMail account and our messages will be end-to-end encrypted.

“She helped me see my life from new perspectives. She provided exactly what I needed during one of the most difficult times in my life.” ~ recently divorced client

When exhausting yourself is de rigueur, true pleasure is subversive… Subversives welcome here.

Intimacy & Partnership Advisor | Seattle, WA | Radiant Rebecca

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I’m Radiant Rebecca, an Intimacy & Partnership Advisor.
I welcome:
women, men, all genders, couples, poly relationships

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