As a woman, something in you feels locked away—that wild, alive part of you that used to know exactly what she wanted.
Maybe you’re drowning in responsibilities—kids need you, work demands everything, and somewhere between the school runs and endless laundry, you lost track of your own desire. Or maybe you’re in a relationship that looks perfect on paper but leaves you feeling unmet and unloved. Perhaps you’re newly single, wondering if that electric aliveness you once felt is gone forever.
You’re not broken. You’re just disconnected from the part of you that knows.
What if your desires—even the ones that scare you—are actually the map back to yourself?
Kink for Transformation | Marin County, CA | Jim
Hi, I’m Jim.
I spent most of my life trying to be acceptable. Growing up in a deeply religious household, I learned early that desire was dangerous, that my shadows were shameful, that the “right” way to live meant denying important parts of my desire.
It took three days locked in a dungeon (yes, really) for me to finally understand: the parts of me I’d been running from were actually my greatest teachers. That experience cracked me open to a truth I now help others discover—your shadows aren’t bad; they’re guides to your power.
For over a decade, I’ve been helping women reclaim what they thought they’d lost. Not through more analyzing or processing, but through something more direct: play. Not silly play—but edgy, transformative exploration that goes straight to your erotic intelligence.
This is soul work that uses your erotic energy as the vehicle.
I Work Best With Women Who:
- Have done therapy and personal development but still feel stuck in the same patterns
- Know there’s more aliveness available but can’t seem to access it
- Feel like they’re performing their life rather than living it
- Crave depth but keep attracting partners where they don’t feel met
- Sense their turn-on is buried under everyone else’s desires and needs
- Are ready to stop talking about their patterns and start playing with them
“The work with Jim unlocked a tremendous amount of stuck energy in my physical body; in the ensuing days after the work with Jim I experienced emotional catharsis and rewriting of my trauma history from victimhood to empowerment.” ~ Heather, 38
What You’ll Actually Gain:
- Reconnect to your turn-on: Not just sexually, but that life force that makes you feel electric and alive
- Transform triggers into power: Those relationship patterns that keep repeating? We’ll play with them until they become doorways
- Reclaim your authentic desire: Learn the difference between what you think you should want and what actually lights you up
- Develop erotic intelligence: Your body knows things your mind doesn’t. We’ll explore how to listen to what’s calling you at a deeper level
- Find your “no” to find your “yes”: True desire emerges when you know your boundaries are sacred
Kink for Transformation | Marin County, CA | Jim
How We Work Together
Your Safety is Sacred. Every session operates on complete consent. I’m trained in somatic practices, kink/BDSM, and depth coaching. This work is emotionally intimate, and your boundaries are always respected—in fact, they’re the foundation of everything we do.
Sessions available:
60-minute introduction: $150
3-hour Erotic Shadow Play journey: $2000 (includes prep & integration)
6-week transformation container: $4500
4-month deep dive: $12k
All sessions include a blend of coaching and somatic exploration designed to help you access the parts of yourself you’ve kept hidden.
This work isn’t for everyone.
It requires courage to face what you’ve been avoiding. It asks you to play with your edges. It demands radical self-responsibility—the understanding that everything showing up in your life is teaching you something.
But if you’re tired of talking about your patterns… If you’re ready to feel instead of analyze… If you know there’s a wilder, more alive version of you waiting…
Then maybe it’s time we talk.
Kink for Transformation | Marin County, CA | Jim
Next Steps
Ready to explore? Book a free 30-minute consultation where we’ll discuss what you’re seeking and whether this work is right for you. No pressure, just clarity.
Reach out to me by email: jim@primalenergetic.com
Or visit my linked website.
Testimonial for Jim’s Work
“Working with Jim, especially during our 3-day container, was absolutely transformational. I came feeling like my erotic and sexual self was offline, stuck in old caretaking paradigms that limited my life force. Through Jim’s willingness to be with all the truth and bigness without asking anything to be left at the door, I experienced a profound recalibration of masculine and feminine within myself, awakening to collaborative potential I’d never felt before. This work literally birthed a new version of me, moving me from contraction and over-responsibility into my authentic power as a spiritual leader. I discovered that my sexuality connects directly to my creative capacity—it’s not separate from my work, it IS the work. I’m eternally grateful for Jim’s phenomenal guardianship through this process of becoming.” ~ Caroline, 42
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I’m Jim, offering Kink for Transformation, I welcome individuals of all genders and orientations, singles, couples and poly relationships.
