Your desire is very close to who you are—the problem is that we get disconnected from our desires.
Our culture—our upbringing—our life circumstances—they can bind us to what is acceptable.
But being acceptable is not what you came to this earth to do.
You are here to manifest who you truly are—and your desire is the key.
The path to your deepest truth often runs through territory that feels forbidden—not because it’s wrong, but because it’s yours. And claiming what’s truly yours requires courage.
In this case you often need a guide—a partner in crime—someone to lead you into the sacred through the shadows to your heart’s deeper desires.
Someone who knows that your most uncomfortable desires often hold the keys to your greatest liberation.
Kink for Transformation | Marin County, CA | Jim
About me
Hi, I’m Jim, and for over a decade I’ve been helping others implement erotic practices to help them come alive.
My core modality is kink and BDSM, but I’ve studied tantra and have been a coach for 20 years.
I’m all about play—I think this is the missing component in our world. Everything gets so intense, but we can come back to our essential nature through play.
I think that you can find more of who you are by unlocking the hidden parts of you.
These parts of you can turn you on, and give you more power.
I’ll lead you on a journey towards more power and aliveness. I’d like to help you unlock your hidden desires.
Full consent is sexy to me. I play at the edges, and respect the boundaries.
For more information, check out my website here: primalenergetic.com.
I work well with
Women who:
Are in a relationship transition (divorce, breakup) and want to reconnect to themselves erotically
Lost themselves in relationship, and need to feel their desire come back online
Have given too much time, energy and attention to a man that didn’t ultimately love them in the way that felt right
Are looking to explore their erotic edges
Straight Men who:
Are looking to step into more of their erotic empowerment with women
Are looking to learn powerful skills of kink to help turn-on the women in their lives
Are looking to become more dominant in the bedroom
Couples who:
Are wanting to deepen into another level of connection and turn-on with each other
Are getting stuck in processing their emotions with each other, and want a different pathway
Are looking to transform their emotional triggers with each other into sexual turn-on
My offerings
60 minute intro session with me: $150
Erotic Shadow Play 3-hour session: $2000 (includes 1 prep session and 1 integration session along with a 3-hour play session in Marin County)
Erotic Shadow Play 6-week container: $4500 (includes 5 coaching sessions & daylong play day in Marin County, CA or can work out extra travel expenses)
Erotic Shadow Play 4-month package: $12k (includes 12 sessions of coaching & 2x play days in Marin County, CA or additional travel expenses)
Erotic Shadow Play VIP Experience: $20k (custom designed experience to meet the needs of your desires—mining your shadow for your deepest desires to turn into raw power.
Ready to take the next step?
Click here to book a 30-minute intro call with me. Find out more here: primalenergetic.com
Testimonial
“I worked with Jim because I was curious to learn new tools for deeper intimacy in partnership. I walked away with those tools—along with an even greater gift I didn’t know I wanted: deeper intimacy with myself.
The work with Jim unlocked a tremendous amount of stuck energy in my physical body; in the ensuing days I experienced emotional catharsis and rewriting of my trauma history from victimhood, to reconciliation, to empowerment. I can best compare the beauty and power of the workshop to a guided psychedelic journey.
As a facilitator, Jim carries a uniquely potent mix of reverence, sincere curiosity, and playfulness alongside shamanic-level energetic mastery. I felt in charge of my experience while held by his compassionate witnessing and non-interventionist guidance.
If you’re into transformation through the vessel of your physical body—and want to have fun while doing it—do yourself a favor and give it a try.” Heather, 38
I’m Jim, offering Kink for Transformation, I welcome individuals of all genders and orientations, singles, couples and poly relationships.
