My Holistic Kink service welcomes individuals and couples of all orientations and levels of experience.
Welcome, beloved.
I’m Praise — a queer kink practitioner, sacred guide, and somatic minister offering deeply personal BDSM & holistic kink experiences right here in Durham and Raleigh, North Carolina.
My work is designed especially for men — gay, bi (curious), straight, trans — who feel the pull to explore surrender in a space of profound safety, respect, and erotic care. Whether you long to let go of control, taste your edges, or simply rest in the hands of someone who sees you fully, this is for you.
Holistic Kink
What I Offer
Surrender Sessions:
Guided dominance & devotional kink. May include impact play, bondage, authority exchange, sensation exploration, or sacred rituals of humiliation & praise. Always trauma-informed, collaborative, and tailored to your body’s needs.
Erotic Somatic Work & Kink Integration:
Sessions to reconnect with your body after intense experiences, explore desires without pressure to perform, or process shame & old stories.
Spiritual & Ritual BDSM:
Bring your longing, grief, or celebration to the altar. We’ll create a ritual that honors your unique path, blending kink, prayer, and sacred play.

Why Durham & Raleigh Men Seek Me Out
Because you’re craving more than quick release —
you want an experience that wakes up your soul.
Because your work, your relationships, your life ask you to hold it all together — and you long for a place to let it all fall apart, safely.
Because surrender is not weakness; it’s the truest form of trust.
Because you deserve the best, and for it to be hot and holy.
Serving Durham, Raleigh & the Triangle
I offer private kink & BDSM sessions in Durham, with select dates in Raleigh and Chapel Hill. Whether you live in the Triangle area or are traveling to North Carolina for work or pleasure, you are welcome here.

Ready to Begin?
I love working with men who are new to kink or carrying secret longings they’ve never spoken aloud.
If your heart is racing reading this — that’s your sign.
Visit my listed site, and apply here: www.prayerotic.com/application
Please be sure to share directly what you’re looking for. No request is too wild! Be open and honest.
Together, we’ll create a custom experience tailored just for you.
Note that I do not offer same-day sessions, as I believe meaningful connection requires preparation and intention.
What Clients Say About My PRAYEROTIC Services:
“In a word, working with Praise Song was…fucking amazing. Their medicine is unique, powerful, and transformative. I’ll be back for more.”
“Praise Song continues to peel back layers of inhibition and insecurity, helping me find new parts of myself. Their work is life-changing.”
“An incredible space holder who blends skill, intuition, and divine magic.”

Your longing is holy.
Come explore it with me.
Durham | Raleigh | North Carolina BDSM & kink practitioner for men ready to surrender.

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My Holistic Kink service welcomes individuals and couples of all orientations and levels of experience.