My Holistic Kink service welcomes individuals of all genders and orientations, couples & poly relationships.
Holistic Kink | Oakland, San Francisco, Sacramento | Lila Nyx
Hi, my name is Lila and I am a Soul-Centric Dominatrix/Liberatrix, Sensual Muse, and Sovereignty & Intimacy Coach. I am committed to supporting you to experience more aliveness, more pleasure, and more wholeness, through:
- Holistic kink
- Sensual somatic exploration
- Embodied consent
- Healthy boundaries and communication skills
- Conscious power dynamics.
I blend my background in psychology, conscious communication practices, body work, energy work, and expressive movement, with my career as a professional dominatrix, to create containers that support radical acceptance, self expression, and erotic wholeness. My work is trauma-informed and I love supporting people to experience slowness and safety as you learn more about your body, your desires, your boundaries, and your relationships.
I also have a background in shadow work and nature-based soul work, which means I am deeply curious and adept at how our work together can support you to feel more awareness, more clarity, and more integration of all the parts of you, as a soul in a body, in relationship with other humans and the natural world. My coaching work has a strong focus on connecting with the soul through the body.
Some of my favorite conscious kink activities are role plays, sensual domination, impact play, light bondage, foot and boot worship, sensory deprivation, wrestling and breath play. I also love exploring what I like to call “the technology of fantasy,” where we engage with your fantasies much like dreamwork. We get curious together about the materials of your fantasy to bring you deeper understanding of your soul-level dreams and desires, and what patterns or obstacles stand in the way of creating and experiencing what you want in your life.
Lastly, I also love creating explicitly non-sexual containers with clear boundaries for those who desire even more slowness, that allow you to contact your erotic self as you were when you were in the early developmental stages of your life. Imagine having the space to explore your bodies sensations, pleasure, and curiosities, without anyone taking from you, suppressing you, or attempting to relate sexually with you. I hold space, bear witness, and encourage you to follow your impulses, simply to know who you are as a sovereign erotic being in the world.
You may use my phone number to contact me by text only to schedule an appointment. Please do not cold call. I only accept calls by appointment.
My Holistic Kink service welcomes individuals of all genders and orientations, couples & poly relationships.
