Love Coaching

Hawaii; Los Angeles and San Francisco, CA

Aloha, I’m Syd.

For the past five years I’ve devoted my life to the practice of tantra, guiding men, women, and couples into deeper connection with themselves.

What brought me into this work was my desire for sovereignty within myself, physically, emotionally, spiritually, and through endless trials, tribulations, somatic experiences – and a multitude of vipassana sits later I’ve cultivated the spaciousness within myself to be able hold the same for others. I’ve chosen a path and frequency of unconditional love and total acceptance for oneself & others. This has become my mission to perpetuate into the collective through my services.

I’m reminded often why I’ve chosen this path. Recently, a client shared with me that after 27 years of marriage, I was the first man she had ever felt safe with. That she had never experienced being touched consciously by a man or felt safe – and from the moment I walked in through the door she immediately felt safe with me. Experiences like this are just as much of a gift for me to receive as they are for me to give and consistently reaffirm why I’ve dedicated my life to this work.

My work is rooted in creating a safe space in which you can slow down and reconnect with your truest self.

Many of the people who are drawn to this work have spent years disconnected from their body, their emotions, and even their authentic expression. Most are navigating some form of relationship challenges, heartbreak, burnout, life transitions, or patterns that no longer serve them.

Clients often share with me that they have rarely experienced a masculine presence that feels completely free of expectation, agenda, or pressure. Being met without needing to do or be anything other than authentically themselves has been profoundly supportive.

Above all, my intention is to create an environment in which all of you is welcomed & celebrated in your authenticity. All of your emotions, sensations, and self-expression are welcomed without judgment – we move at the pace your physical & emotional body feels completely ready for with an emphasis on consent every step of the way.

Love Coaching | Hawaii | Syd

Consent is foundational to everything I do. Every session begins with a conversation about intentions, we set boundaries, discuss comfort levels, and address any concerns that may be present.

Permission and consent remain an active, ongoing dialogue throughout the entire experience, with every yes and every no equally welcomed, respected and loved entirely.

Clients are encouraged to pause, slow down, or stop any practice at any time. If there are signs of tension or emotional activation, we slow down, pause, and move only at a pace that feels safe. Whenever time allows, we conclude with space for reflection and integration.

Every session is tailored to the individual. Depending on your intentions, comfort level, and what you’re looking for, sessions include somatic bodywork, breathwork, embodiment practices, sound healing, conscious touch, and other practices rooted in tantra.

My approach is gentle & grounding – rather than forcing change or pushing toward an outcome, we move slowly and work with whatever is present in the moment. Through breath, awareness, touch, sound, movement, and presence, I guide clients into a deeper relationship with themselves and their experience.

Over the years, clients have commonly shared that they leave feeling more connected to themselves, more confident expressing their needs and boundaries, and more present in their relationships and daily life. Many leave with practical tools they continue integrating into their everyday life.

I’m based in Maui, Hawai’i. I regularly travel throughout the United States for private sessions, workshops, retreats, and immersive experiences. I’m happy to travel wherever I’m called, with transportation, accommodations, and applicable travel fees arranged by the client.

More than anything, my intention is to help people reconnect with themselves, feel loved unconditionally, and feel safe. When we create space to truly listen to ourselves, meaningful change has the opportunity to unfold.

Please visit my website for additional written and video testimonials.

Phone: 808-743-3340

Formal Training

2016 – Tantric Breast Massage Training with Psalm Isadora
2019 – Master Lover Course & Masterclass with Ananda Sarita
2019 – Breath, Power & Freedom Breathwork Training with Marcel Hof
2020 – Advanced Tantra Coursework through Beducated
2021 – Sacred Embodiment & Relationship Tantra through Embodied Awakening Academy
2024 – Breathwork Facilitator Certification through the Breath of Life Institute

Alongside my formal training, I’ve facilitated private sessions for men, women, and couples, created and led workshops, and co-facilitated retreat experiences over the past five years. This hands-on work continues to be one of my greatest teachers, deepening my understanding of embodiment, nervous system regulation, and the unique path each individual walks.

Client Example

One client came to me carrying the effects of sexual trauma from a relationship sixteen years earlier. Alongside the emotional impact, she had been living with chronic phantom pain in her lower back for those same sixteen years.

During our session she experienced a profound emotional and energetic release. The following day she shared with me that the phantom pain she had been living with for sixteen years had completely disappeared. In the months that followed, she also found herself opening to a new loving relationship after years of emotional protection.

Experiences like this continue to remind me of the body’s remarkable capacity to heal when it’s met with safety, presence, and the space to unfold in its own timing.

Love Coaching | Hawaii | Syd

Client Testimonial

“Prior to this I had never received body/healing work from a man. I have a long history of sexual abuse and trauma and I never felt safe enough to be vulnerable to allow myself to receive massages or healing touch from anyone other than my previous partners.”

“Sydney is gentle, kind, open hearted, respectful, present, vulnerable and gets consent for every action involved in the healing process. He embodies divine safe masculine energy. I felt seen, heard, celebrated and first and foremost SAFE.”

“The next morning I woke up feeling like a new woman, there was a palpable difference in my belly/womb area. It was like I shed the energetic protective layer that I had been holding onto for most of my life.”

“I say all this to say my session with Sydney was POTENT.”

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Our Tantric Healing and Love Coaching service welcomes individuals of all genders and orientations, couples and poly relationships.

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