Love & Intimacy Coach, Master Bodyworker

San Francisco, CA ; Austin, TX Bali, Indonesia

*Scroll down for in person services, including men’s & women’s pelvic floor therapy*

There comes a point when a man is simply done with dating games.
I work with men who are tired of feeling unseen, undervalued, and unsatisfied in love.
They’re tired of relationships where they give more than they receive. They are tired of being the provider, the fixer, the steady one, while still feeling undernourished in love. They are ready to be done with women they feel responsible for saving and relationships where their value seems tied to what they can provide.

Instead, they want a deeply fulfilling love and sex life with a woman they mutually respect and desire. A relationship where generosity is met with generosity, where attraction doesn’t disappear with intimacy, and where they can lead without carrying the entire relationship on their back.
Often, the story I hear is some version of: If only women were more in their feminine, this would be different. And sometimes, that’s true… but finding her is only part of it.

The truth is, you also have to become the man who knows what to do when she arrives.

The Work

My work with men is about building that relationship from the inside out. Together, we build clarity around what you actually want and the confidence to communicate it. We work with the relationship patterns that make you overgive, over-sacrifice, chase, withdraw, control, or lose your center. We develop the internal steadiness to remain grounded when a woman pulls away rather than immediately reacting to her.

And we work with sexuality as part of the whole man, bringing your mind, heart, and sexuality onto the same line so that desire isn’t something separate from intimacy, leadership, or love. The goal isn’t to teach you how to perform masculinity.. it’s to help you become increasingly clear and congruent in who you are, what you want, and how you move toward it. This changes everything about dating in very tangible ways.. quickly.

You begin choosing women from alignment rather than chemistry alone. You ask for what you want clearly and kindly. Rejection becomes information rather than devastation. Your generosity stops being a way of earning love. You become more capable of receiving affection, support, pleasure, appreciation, and devotion when they’re actually offered.

And the women you connect with begin to change, too.

Why I work with men this way

I’ve spent the last decade working with people through the body, mind, sexuality, energy, and relationship. My background includes ten years of Thai massage (with a specialty in pelvic floor therapy), tantric studies, ceremonial work, depth psychology, and polarity.

Over the years, I kept seeing variations of the same patterns in my male clients – sometimes there was a physical or energetic blockage affecting sexuality and pleasure. Sometimes old relationship wounds were quietly running through their dating lives. Sometimes a man simply didn’t have enough clarity around his own values and desires to recognize the right relationship, or create the conditions for it once it appeared.

I’ve become fascinated by what happens when we work with all of these pieces together. And even more at how fast the relationship materializes.
When a man’s values, communication, sexuality, emotional life, and actions begin pointing in the same direction, his external relationships tend to change with them.

Ways to work with me – Physically and Virtually

My primary offering for this work is a six-week private 1:1 mentorship, held virtually.

For men (and women) wanting to work more deeply through the physical body, I also offer in-person pelvic floor therapy: three-hour intensive therapeutic bodywork sessions focusing on the pelvis and its connected regions. This work draws from Thai massage, Karsai Nei Tsang, Daoist practices, tantra, and nervous-system regulation. These sessions are ideal for anyone with chronic tension in their jaw, back, hips or legs and to treat impotence, sexual issues, or lack of mobility.

This is therapeutic pelvic floor and bodywork. While there are tantric elements in my sessions, this is not sex work or tantra massage. While the work can support greater mobility, sensation, pleasure, confidence, vitality, and connection to sexuality, the purpose and structure of the sessions are therapeutic.

I also offer Kambo ceremonies and highly personalized 3–10 day private intensives for those who want to work across body, mind, relationship, sexuality, and spirit and are ready to go all in.

Next Steps

Email me with a little about what you’re currently navigating in dating, relationship, or intimacy, or schedule a discovery call with me directly at jettablaine.as.me

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I’m Jetta Blaine, a Love & Intimacy Coach and Master Bodyworker.
I welcome women, men, all genders, couples

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