I’m Melissa offering Body Joy service to individuals of all genders and orientations, couples and poly relationships.
Feel more, connect deeper, and ignite lasting confidence.
Whether you’re stuck in your head, bored in the bedroom, or craving deeper connection— I can help.
Move beyond performance anxiety, pressure, and disconnect… into authentic intimacy, prolonged pleasure, and embodied erotic aliveness.
My work is for those who value discretion, depth, and grounded guidance. Your time is precious—and you deserve a premium experience that is safe, exciting, and transformative.
Let’s explore new ways to touch, talk, and play.
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Body Joy | Austin, Los Angeles, Philadelphia | Melissa D, SSE, CHt
Core Offerings
The Erotic Awakening — Tantric Massage
A guided, full-body FBSM experience. Learn to relax into receiving, let go of performance pressure, and awaken your erotic confidence. A one-way touch journey designed to nourish your senses and reconnect you to your authentic desire.
Massage on the Edge — A Tactile Experience in Sensual Kink
For those craving to surrender, play, and let someone else lead. Light restraint, teasing sensation, deep nourishing touch. Explore my curated tools—or bring your own. Includes attire/scene elements. Sensual. Kinky. Attuned to you.
Sexological Bodywork / Somatic Sex Education
A hands-on, clothes-off professional container for deepening embodiment, pleasure, and rewiring the nervous system through conscious touch and breath. Learn new pathways to connection—solo or partnered. 10-session series recommended.
Sacred Intimate Immersions (Full Day)
For those called to explore their erotic truth in real time—with reverence.
These private immersions include can include touch, conscious kink, role play, guided practice, and ritual. We co-create the space for your unique journey to unfold.
This is not performance—it’s embodied learning.
Available in Austin, your city, or a retreat location. 1:1 or small groups.
Who This Work Is For
For Men:
Tired of the pressure to perform or always please her? Learn to trust your body, slow down, and expand pleasure without chasing a goal. Move from anxiety into embodied erotic confidence and full-body presence.
For Women:
Longing to feel safe, free, and fully alive in your sensual body? Whether you’re navigating numbness, disconnection, or deep desire—come home to yourself. Reclaim your voice, your power, and your pleasure.
For Couples:
Feeling distant, out of sync, or stuck in routine? Together we’ll shift from mundane to meaningful, from disconnection to erotic play. Learn to communicate, co-regulate, and rediscover each other without pressure or shame. Mismatched desire becomes a doorway.
Private Retreats: 1–3 Day Immersions
1:1 Erotic Immersions / Ritual Ceremonies
Want more time to explore, unfold, and transform?
These multi-hour or multi-day journeys are completely personalized. We co-design your schedule, explore sacred sensual practices, and support your deepest erotic expansion. For individuals, couples, or small pods.
Optional: sacrament-assisted sessions available.
I host in Austin or travel to you. Let’s co-create your private retreat.
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The Studio
My private sanctuary in Austin is smoke- and pet-free, thoughtfully curated, and impeccably clean—designed for deep nourishment and exquisite attention. You’ll feel held, respected, and free to explore.
To Book
- Send Email: embodywork@protonmail.com
- Share what you’re seeking, your goals or curiosities, and which sessions call to you.
- A brief phone consult and verification (photo ID, work badge, or LinkedIn) is required.
$150 deposit to confirm. Venmo, Zelle, or gift card. 24-hr cancellation policy.
About Melissa D
Clinical Hypnotherapist. Certified Somatic Sex Educator. Sexological Bodyworker. Director of BodyJoy Intimacy School.
With 15+ years of experience guiding men, women, and couples, I blend science, sensuality, and spirit to help people return to the wisdom of their bodies and the truth of their desires.
Training & Lineage Highlights
- Duel Certificates in Clinical Hypnotherapy (CHt) – SWIHA & Rainya Dann
- Certified Sex Educator – SFSI (2014)
- Certified Somatic Sex Educator – ISSSE (2016)
- Sexological Bodyworker – ACSB (2016)
- Wheel of Consent – Dr. Betty Martin (2017)
- Urban Tantra Practitioner – Barbara Carrellas (2018)
- Intimacy Training – Caffyn Jesse
- Sacred Kink Mentorship – Max Cameron, JD (Two Knotty Boys), Mistress Chloe (SF)
- Lead Facilitator – HimEros Project (since 2017)
- Practitioner – Back to the Body with Pamela Madsen (2022)
- Shadow EFT (in training) — The Sanctum.
You don’t have to figure it all out alone.
Whether you’re seeking to soften, awaken, or deepen—I’m here.
Let’s begin with a conversation:
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I’m Melissa offering Body Joy service to individuals of all genders and orientations, couples and poly relationships.
