Hi! I’m Hannah Jo, Men’s Coach!
I specialize in helping men heal their relationship to their sexuality, emotions, and desires through heart-opening, guided experiences.

Men’s Offerings:
Tantric Bodywork Sessions include guided breathing, meditation and conscious full-body touch. 1hr sessions are perfect for a unique experience, of simultaneous relaxation and pleasure. 2hr sessions give us more time to explore mutual touch (based on consent) and cultivate a deeper connection.
Before I invite you onto the massage table, we will explicitly discuss boundaries, desires, and intentions to ensure we collaborate during our intimate experience together. We will talk about edging, semen retention and how to yield your pleasure for creative power through breath + body awareness and visualization. If you desire, elements of conscious kink and BDSM can be incorporated into 2hr sessions. These special additions are always discussed in advance and not introduced on the fly.
Tantric Bodywork – 1 hr / $500 – 2hr / $1000
PolyTantric Embodiment Sessions focus on deeper, emotional healing. Sessions include guided breathing, meditation and a variety of relational practices that encourage full presence, open-heartedness and expanded awareness. These sessions are expansive for your real-life connections with women; your current or future partner(s). Sessions offer deep insight on how you can learn to regulate your emotions and stay connected to your heart.
PolyTantric Embodiment Sessions – In person 2hr / $450 – Video Call 1hr / $200
Men’s Coach and Tantric Bodywork | Santa Barbara | Hannah Jo
What men are saying:
“She held a loving container for me to express myself and I left the session feeling full of love, bliss and vitality for my life.” ~ A. Santa Barbara (Tantric Bodywork)
‘I didn’t know what to expect from our session. We focused on letting go of shame around my desires. Her words landed heavy in the best way. And I found myself lighter afterwards. I can’t recommend her enough.” ~ L. NYC (Virtual PolyTantric Embodiment)
Session Expectations: What’s beautiful about my offerings is that these experiences are highly intimate, yet there is no pressure for you to perform. My role is to invite you to slow down and be fully present to your felt experience, your role is to be receptive to a new experience of intimacy. Each session is curated specifically to the individual’s intentions – so no two sessions are ever the same.
Everything I offer is through *The PolyTantric Method; a multi-modality relational skillset you can practice, embody and apply to any relationship- from monogamy to polyamory and everything in between. These teachings and practices are designed to reconnect you to your authentic Self, your Truth, your connection to Love. This approach focuses on how the body stores repressed emotion and how we can learn to use our breath, body and conscious awareness to metabolize the emotions that have been repressed over time. This alchemy process creates a sense of freedom within oneself, expanding your bandwidth to feel peace, pleasure, and creative potential. You can learn more about the PolyTantric Method in our Virtual Community through self-paced coursework and weekly live calls.
2:1 Couples Sessions are customized to each couple’s intentions. Some folks want to learn Tantric Massage techniques, others want to try on ‘opening their relationship’- allowing me to step in as a third to explore intimacy, open sexual energy and alchemize any emotions that may arise along the way. Throughout my 5+ years of experience in professional intimacy work, my partners and I co-created the PolyTantric Method as a relational & embodiment framework to support people in opening their hearts and Eros, to experience the vastness of their unconditional love and pleasure. I am delighted to share this practice with those who resonate!
2:1 Couples Sessions – In person 2hr / $850+
– Video Call 1hr / $200
Men’s Coach and Tantric Bodywork | Santa Barbara | Hannah Jo
What couples are saying:
“Hannah Jo is phenomenal! Such a safe, sacred space to explore sexuality and partnership and how it all actually feels in the body. I’ve spent years in more traditional types of therapy and wish I’d found her sooner. She helped me and my partner lean into pleasure and desire with so much play. We laughed and got deep and were left feeling more connected and alive. Amazing!’ ” ~ G, Santa Barbara (In-person 2:1 Couples Embodiment)
“Hannah is a talented coach helping couples reconnect. She has a strong presence, intuition, and isn’t afraid to speak her truth for her clients’ benefit.” ~ R, San Francisco (Virtual 2:1 Couples Embodiment)
My context: My ideal clients see the value in applying what is offered in session as daily practices and lifestyle adjustments because they understand that integration creates lasting transformation.
Please understand, I do not offer sexual services, FS, ‘full union’ or oral sex. Pleasurable and/or sensual experiences may occur but do not represent me wanting to connect outside of our session boundaries. My sessions are an excellent complement to talk therapy and other traditional therapy models, but they are not a substitute for licensed, professional mental health care.
It’s very common to feel slightly altered after a session. I always recommend keeping your schedule open after your session as it is important to allow spaciousness for integration.
The fundamental intention of all my offerings is to lead you to remember and embody unconditional love. All of my offerings lead you to stay present in your body, to feel and embrace the full range of your humanity – every sensation and emotion.