My piercing gaze on your whole body, soft feathery whispers in your ear, the merciless sting of my whip…
Hello, beautiful human. You may call me Mistress Soline. I’m here to explore my desire and power, and your edges, fantasies, and fears. Perhaps you know there’s something there in your subconscious, something in the shadows of your being that you can’t quite meet in yourself. It lurks beneath the surface, whispering to you, asking for your attention. What if we can meet it?
I have always been a deeply sensitive soul. Highly observant and empathic. For a long time, I was asked to play small and to keep things hidden. The truth is, my depth and ability to see what is going underneath the surface are the greatest gifts I can offer. I want to offer that medicine to you now, as we explore a BDSM power exchange. Let’s explore, and bring your subconscious into awareness.
Tantric BDSM Practitioner | Oakland, CA | Mistress Soline
What are your ground rules in BDSM power play?
Submission is a powerful choice when it is done consciously, and I deeply honor and respect that choice. Communication & empowerment will be the foundation of our explorations, and I will encourage you to own your choice.
As the guide into your underworld, I will expect your obedience, honesty, and trust. IfWe can go as slowly as is needed to build that.
I like to know your preferences so I can guide the direction of our session. However, I am not here to solely play out your fantasy (also known as service topping). I will guide our explorations, the activities that we will engage in, and I will be choosing based on what brings me pleasure and what is asking to come alive in our connection. This is a spiritual or tantric dance.
I welcome humans of all ages and genders and if you are a male, expect that chastity may be used in our explorations.

Location
I’m based in the San Francisco Bay Area and take sessions in a dungeon in Oakland. I also offer online sessions if you own or are willing to buy any materials needed. If I go on tour (Los Angeles & Austin are good candidates), I will announce those dates on my instagram @mistress.soline
Am I a good fit?
- You ache to surrender your control to a woman’s authority – in both fantasy and reality.
- You respect clear rules, boundaries, and protocols. Structure excites you because it frees you.
- You want your obedience to fuel my pleasure. This gives you pleasure.
- You’re ready to offer your fetishes/fantasies for our explorations and a yes to the financial investment I ask for.
If you are excited about obedience, objectification, bondage, chastity, findom, or have photography skills to offer, I especially encourage you to apply!
I’m ready to explore
The next step is to fill out this form to thoughtfully introduce yourself to me. Know that your responses are confidential.
If you want to explore in a lifestyle dynamic, you can then reach out to me on https://x.com/MistressSoline with a minimum 100+ tribute.
If your interest is for an in person session, I will review your profile first. If it is a good fit, I will reach out to set up a 20 minute call to answer any questions or take it 1 layer deeper and discuss some potential logistics. This will require a $70 tribute for my presence. After the call, if both of us want to proceed, I will require a 50% nonrefundable deposit (Zelle) to hold your space, and I will start preparing for our session. The other 50% is payable in cash in person, or Zelle for online sessions.
I’m Mistress Soline, a Tantric Dominatrix, I welcome individuals of all genders and orientations.