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My piercing gaze on your whole body, soft feathery whispers in your ear, the merciless sting of my whip…
Tantric BDSM Practitioner | Oakland, CA | Mistress Soline
Hello, my beautiful human. You may call me Mistress Soline. I’m here to explore my desire and power, and your edges, fantasies, and fears. Perhaps you know there’s something there in your subconscious, something in the shadows of your being that you can’t quite meet in yourself. It lurks beneath the surface, whispering to you, asking for your attention. What if we can meet it?
I have always been a deeply sensitive soul. Highly observant and empathic. For a long time, I was asked to play small and to keep things hidden. The truth is, my depth and ability to see what is going underneath the surface are the greatest gifts I can offer. I want to offer that medicine to you now, as we explore a BDSM power exchange. Let’s explore, and bring your subconscious into awareness.

What are your ground rules in BDSM power play?
Submission is a powerful choice when it is done consciously, and I deeply honor and respect that choice. Communication & empowerment will be the foundation of our explorations, and I will encourage you to own your choice at every moment.
I only engage with clients that have fantasies that are a full yes for me to create. At the same time, I am not here to solely play out your fantasy (also known as service topping). I will guide our explorations, the activities that we will engage in, and I will be choosing based on what brings me pleasure and what is asking to come alive in our connection. This is a spiritual or tantric dance.
I welcome humans of all ages and genders and if you are a male, chastity will be the foundation of our explorations. I will always start light and emphasize communication. But like I’ve said, I like to go deep, so be prepared.
Location
I’m based in the San Francisco Bay Area and take sessions in a safe space in Oakland. I also offer online sessions if you own or are willing to buy any materials needed. If I go on tour (Los Angeles & Austin are good candidates), I will announce those dates on my instagram @mistress.soline

Am I a good fit?
- You want to serve or submit to me.
- You seek depth in BDSM exploration, grounded in grace and honesty. You want expansion.
- You are willing to see yourself, in your fullness and rawness, with presence and grace, even if it’s painful or uncomfortable.
- You’re ready to offer your fetishes/fantasies for our explorations and are a full body yes to the financial investment I ask for.
I’m ready to explore
I’m excited for us! The next step is to fill out this form to thoughtfully introduce yourself to me. Know that your responses are confidential.
If your profile is a good fit, I will reach out to set up a 20 minute call to feel into our connection, take it 1 layer deeper and discuss some potential logistics. This will require a $60 tribute for my presence. After the call, if both of us want to proceed, I will require a 50% nonrefundable deposit (Zelle) to hold your space, and I will start preparing for our session. The other 50% is payable in cash in person, or Zelle for online sessions.
I’m Mistress Soline, a Tantric BDSM Practitioner, I welcome individuals of all genders and orientations.