For Conscious Lovers and Visionaries: Intimacy • Dating • Play Parties • Spaces
Are you ready to create non-monogamous relationships that feel intimate, confident, and supported by the spaces you live in?
With 20 years of lived experience in non-monogamy and a background in interior design, I support conscious lovers and visionaries—creatives, leaders, and parents—who want to build relationships and environments that reflect their truth.
How I Help (Four Pillars)
1. Intimacy
Cultivate trust, navigate jealousy, set boundaries, and strengthen connection with partners. I also guide you to identify and explore your sexual fantasies in a safe, conscious way. Clients experience deep presence, empathy, radical acceptance, and unconditional love.
2. Dating
Whether you’re dating non-monogamously for the first time or while partnered, I help you clarify what you want, design your profiles, and practice real-life role play to embody confidence and presence. Ongoing monthly dating support is available.
3. Play Parties
Learn to navigate these spaces with clarity, safety, and joy—or host your own conscious non-monogamous gatherings with beauty and intention.
4. Spaces
Transform your home or play space into a sanctuary that supports intimacy, multiple loves, and personal growth.
Deep-Dive Journeys
I also offer half-day intensives, where we uncover limiting beliefs and reprogram them at the root—opening space for the love and intimacy you truly desire.
Offerings start at $222/hour. Packages are fully customizable, with options for ongoing monthly support and deeper journeys.
About Emilie
I was born and raised in France, the country that gave rise to libertinage, where the art of living, philosophy, and beauty are woven into daily life. These roots shape my work: I bring French elegance, intention, and depth into every relationship and space I help design.
Trained in sex and relationship coaching at the Somatica Institute, and with two decades of personal experience in non-monogamy, I’ve navigated the same challenges my clients face—jealousy, communication breakdowns, dating while partnered, ending relationships, and raising children in polyamory. I also bring years of experience creating and hosting conscious play spaces that are safe, intentional, and welcoming.
I’m an interior designer who creates environments that reflect inner landscapes. Inspired by minimalism, zen aesthetics, and natural textures, I specialize in crafting spaces that elevate intimacy and connection.
I am both practical and spiritual: a guide grounded in proven methods, and a priestess embodying unconditional love and transformation. In some sessions I embody the energy of Priestess Aïa Luce, a spiritual archetype I channel to catalyze transformation.
Beyond my practice, I ground myself in meditation, yoga, and nature, and draw inspiration from art, music, and loved ones—reminders that intimacy and beauty are everywhere in daily life.
My Approach
I integrate:
Somatic awareness and body-based practices
Mindfulness and non-dual awareness
Non-violent communication, attachment theory, love languages, and Gottman principles
Design aesthetics that align inner and outer space
This multidimensional approach supports lasting transformation in non-monogamous relationships by aligning mind, body, soul, and space.
Non-Monogamy Coach | San Francisco Bay Area, CA | Emilie Ritea
Client Reviews
“I thought I understood polyamory until I hit my first major jealousy crisis. Emilie didn’t just help me work through it—she showed me how to create systems and spaces that prevent these issues. Six months later, my primary partnership is stronger than ever, and I’m dating with confidence.” – Marcus, Entrepreneur
“I worked with Emilie in a one-on-one intensive, and she guided me on a powerful journey. She has a rare gift for identifying limiting beliefs and holding space with deep empathy. By the end, I felt reprogrammed at the core—more open, more grounded, and ready to live the love life I truly want.” – Daniel, Creative Director
“Before working with Emilie, my relationships felt chaotic and my apartment was even more chaotic. She helped me redesign both my space and my approach to dating. Now I’m successfully navigating three meaningful connections, and my home actually feels like a sanctuary where everyone feels welcome.” – Sarah, Tech Executive
The Process
Intake Form: A short form about your goals, challenges, and experience with non-monogamy and/or space design.
Consultation Call (30 minutes): We’ll connect to explore your vision, discuss your needs, and determine the best way I can support you.
Personalized Path: Based on your goals, I’ll design a customized plan—whether weekly coaching, a half-day intensive, dating support, play party preparation, or a multi-month journey. Sessions can be held indoors, in nature, or in public spaces for experiential learning.
Let’s create intimacy, beauty, harmony, and freedom—in your non-monogamous love life and the spaces that hold it.
Contact Emilie
Email: barvillebusiness@gmail.com
I’m Emilie Ritea, H1, I welcome individuals of all genders and orientations, singles, couples and poly relationships.
