Are you curious? Curious to explore kink? To discover new depths of pleasure? Have you ever wondered what it’s really like?
I love working with people who feel lost or discouraged, yet remain curious and adventurous. My work is about creating a safe, judgment-free container where you can let go of vigilance, surrender, and explore—through kink and/or somatic sex education. This is your invitation to awaken what’s waiting inside you.
Pleasure and BDSM Guide | New Paltz, NY | Phil Leger
If you feel there is more pleasure available to you—or if you’ve given up on pleasure altogether—I invite you to journey with me. In this space, you’ll have the opportunity to:
- Expand your capacity for pleasure and other sensations
- Find ease and freedom in asking for what you want
- Discover and articulate your boundaries
- Increase your confidence in feeling sexy, desired, and empowered
Here, you can practice asking for and receiving the touch and experiences you desire. The skills and awareness you gain in our sessions can help you advocate for your pleasure in other areas of life and relationships.
Sessions & Services
Welcome to my Lab: a space for experimentation.
Here, you can share your desires and fantasies with complete freedom of expression. You are free to experiment and discover your true desires. I will witness you without judgment and hold you with compassion as we explore together.
Your exploration/experimentation may include:
- Talking about your fantasies and how they might be fulfilled
- Investigating what lies beneath those fantasies
- Exploring fantasies as a form of healing
- Roleplay as catharsis
- Expanding your capacity for pleasure
- Trying new kinks in a supportive, shame-free environment
- And having fun!
About Me
I’ve done the deep personal work to become self-aware, grounded, and at ease in my body. I offer a strong, present masculine energy and a nurturing, nonjudgmental presence.
My background includes years of study and practice in Tantra, BDSM, Somatic sex education, Anatomy of arousal, Sacred sexuality, Shamanism.
I’m especially passionate about sharing my enthusiasm and experience with kink and BDSM. I’ve explored a wide variety of BDSM modalities and am committed to opening the door to safe, consensual kinky play for others.
I will work with you to build trust. That trust allows you to surrender, to do deep personal work, and to follow your own unfolding process. I meet you where you are and adjust in real time to support your needs.
Come to the edge and jump with me.
Contact/Next steps
I welcome your questions and am happy to take the time to explore whether we’re a good fit. If you’re interested in working together, I can send you a Client Intake Form and schedule a Discovery Call.
You can reach me at embracearousal@gmail.com or visit www.embracearousal.com for more information.
Client Love
“I owe my softness to you
My softness opened me up and is allowing me to let love in
It’s allowing me to feel others
To see others
I was never soft until I met you.”
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“Phil’s pace and goalless deep presence created a safe container for my body to melt and unfurl. His knowledge of the female form, and his respect for the patience and tending she loves and needs to open, allowed me to tap into deep and infinite wells of desire that nourished my whole system.” TG
“Phil held space for me to have a felt sense that I am free, my own sovereign being.” RC
“I felt incredibly supported in expressing my desires—even when I was a bit nervous—which made it easier to speak my truth. If you’re someone who wants to explore your desires in a safe, non-judgmental space and shed the weight of shame, go spend time with Phil. You’ll be held, supported, and truly seen!” MS
I’m Phil Leger, a Pleasure and BDSM Guide, I welcome individuals of all genders and orientations, singles, couples and poly relationships.
