Intelligent, attuned, and playful guide to embodied desire.
Conscious Connection | NYC | Phoebe
Intro
You’ve mastered control, achievement, and composure. You may move through the world competently, yet your body still carries tension, longing, or shame that hasn’t found relief through thinking alone. You want to be an exceptional lover to yourself, to your partners, and to the world.
Here, you cultivate this presence through sensation, safety, embodied desire, and authentic connection. As this capacity deepens, it naturally ripples outward, strengthening your relationships, your confidence, and your ability to fully engage with life.
How I Came to This Work
I grew up around religion and adults who were deeply uncomfortable with their own sexuality. Sensuality was something to fear, suppress, or moralize rather than understand. At the same time, my accomplishments and intelligence were praised, while my aliveness was quietly policed. I was shamed for my sensual expression early on and carried that shame for years, learning to shrink parts of myself in order to belong or succeed.
This work emerged from undoing that conditioning. Through education, somatic practice, and lived experience, I came to understand that what I had been taught to tone down was not a flaw, but a form of embodied intelligence. Sensuality, when integrated with presence and care, becomes a source of confidence, connection, and emotional resilience.
I come to this work with a graduate degree in counseling from Harvard and a professional background spanning school counseling, public health, and holistic lifestyle coaching. This foundation allows me to guide erotic and embodied experiences with insight, ethical clarity, and presence. I support people in reclaiming the parts of themselves they learned to suppress, which often hold their deepest power, intimacy, and aliveness.
About Me
A dancer at heart and in practice, I am also a trained massage therapist and a Pilates and yoga instructor. Movement, touch, and presence have always been my first language.
I am a deeply relational empath, a devoted friend, a trusted guide, and someone who naturally lights up a room. I care for plants, work respectfully with plant medicine, and approach life with curiosity, reverence, and play.
I’ve lived nomadically, spending extended time in several countries, learning how culture, intimacy, and nervous systems shift across environments. That perspective shapes how I work: adaptable, attentive, and responsive rather than rigid or prescriptive.
People often tell me they feel more alive, relaxed, and themselves in my presence. I understand how safety, pleasure, humor, and attunement work together, and I guide experiences that help others access those states for themselves.
Conscious Connection | NYC | Phoebe
Sessions & Investments
All sessions are private, safe, intentional, and curated. I guide each experience while naturally tracking breath, muscle tension, arousal patterns, emotional responses, and consent cues. Pleasure and erotic energy are used deliberately as tools for regulation, emotional release, and embodied integration.
Erotic Massage & Embodied Bodywork
These sessions are designed to be the best massage of your life and a meaningful reset for your nervous system. I work tension, emotion, and stored stress out of the tissues while supporting safety and relaxation. Touch is slow, precise, and responsive, allowing the body to soften, trust, and receive.
90-minute One-Way Touch Erotic Massage
Sensual full-body massage incorporating tantric practices, nuru, and elements of sensual dominance, guided to support release, embodiment, and confidence.
Investment: $1100
2-hour Erotic Massage
A more spacious experience allowing for deeper nervous system settling, emotional release, and sustained presence.
Investment: $1400
Mutual Touch & Erotic Exploration
Reciprocal connection within a guided container. I lead the dynamic with attention to consent, pacing, and emotional safety, supporting clarity of desire and intimacy without shame.
90 minutes – $1400
2 hours – $1800′
3 hours – $2500
Couples Synergy Sessions
For couples seeking to deepen connection, restore desire, or explore intimacy with guidance and care. I support partners in slowing down, communicating through body and breath, and reconnecting through attuned touch and shared presence.
90 minutes – $1800
2 hours – $2300
3 hours – $3300
Tantric Companionship and Surrogacy (Select Clients)
An extended relational container for continuity, depth, and erotic development. I guide exploration of desire, power dynamics, intimacy, erotic expression, and presence while tracking emotional responses and attachment patterns.
2 hours – $2000
3 hours – $2800
4 hours – $3600
Virtual Sweet & Spicy Sessions
Guided connection and erotic attunement from a distance.
15 minutes – $250
30 minutes – $500
Conscious Connection | NYC | Phoebe
My Conscious Connection and Erotic Alchemy service welcomes women, men, couples & poly relationships.
