An Invitation
There are moments in life when we realize we’ve become very good at functioning, but less practiced at truly feeling.
You may be successful, intelligent, and deeply capable. Yet beneath the surface, you long to relax, to be seen without performing, to trust your body again, or to experience intimacy with greater ease, confidence, and authenticity.
Many of us learned to disconnect from our bodies long before we knew we were doing it. We learned to prioritize achievement over presence, certainty over curiosity, and control over surrender. Our experiences shape not only the way we think, but also the way we breathe, move, relate, and experience pleasure. The body often remembers long after the mind has made sense of the story.
I create experiences where you can reconnect with yourself.
Through presence, touch, conversation, movement, and carefully guided erotic experiences, I help people cultivate greater self-awareness, confidence, pleasure, and connection. Whether you’re seeking deep relaxation, embodied exploration, or a more expansive relationship with your desires, our time together is designed to meet you where you are.
How This Work Found Me
I’ve been fascinated by people for as long as I can remember. What shapes us? What helps us grow? Why do some experiences leave lasting imprints while others become catalysts for resilience?
I grew up in an environment where sexuality was often met with discomfort and fear. Achievement was celebrated, while sensuality was something to hide or control. Like many people, I was pushed to suppress parts of myself in order to belong.
Reclaiming and celebrating those parts became one of the most meaningful journeys of my life.
I studied psychology, family studies, and education before earning my Ed.M. in Prevention Science and Practice from Harvard. Early in my career, I helped advance trauma informed practices in schools and healthcare settings, experiences that deepened my understanding of how safety, connection, and our nervous systems shape the way we learn, relate, and heal.
Over the years, that work naturally evolved into movement, somatic practice, intimacy coaching, and embodied touch. Today, I bring those experiences together to create spaces where people can explore themselves with curiosity, honesty, and compassion.
Conscious Connection | NYC | Phoebe
Our Dance
The most embodied dances aren’t choreographed. They emerge through presence, curiosity, and trusting our bodies to respond to what is alive in the moment. I believe the same is true of meaningful connection.
I don’t believe in scripts or formulas because people arrive with unique stories, desires, and needs on any given day. Each encounter with me is co-created in the moment, shaped by curiosity, communication, and where our chemistry naturally takes us when we trust ourselves.
Some people come longing to slow down after years of living in their heads. Others want to rediscover play, confidence, or a deeper relationship with pleasure. Some simply want to experience what it feels like to be fully seen, accepted, and met exactly where they are.
My role is to help you recognize what is already present beneath the layers of tension, self-protection, and expectation. I create the conditions where you can relax enough to become more fully yourself.
As we spend time together, I’m naturally attuned to the subtle conversation happening beneath words. Breath. Rhythm. Body language. Eye contact. Pace. Curiosity. Hesitation. Joy. My intuition is supported by years of experience in movement, bodywork, coaching, and behavioral science, allowing me to respond with care, creativity, and presence.
Dance has always been one of my first languages. It taught me how to listen without words, trust rhythm, improvise, and follow what feels alive in the moment. It also taught me the joy of inspiring curiosity, play, confidence, and deeper presence in others. Those same qualities shape every experience I create. Sometimes our time together is slow and grounding. Sometimes it’s playful and adventurous. Usually it’s both.
When people feel safe enough to stop performing, they often remember something they thought they’d lost: their capacity to feel fully alive.
Conscious Connection | NYC | Phoebe
The Woman Behind the Work
I’m endlessly curious about what makes people come alive.
Whether I’m dancing until way too late in the morning, traveling somewhere new, wandering through a botanical garden, geeking out about psychology and neuroscience, or biking through the city, I’m happiest when I’m fully immersed in the experience of being alive.
I love beauty in all its forms. Music that makes it impossible not to move. Conversations that provoke new perspectives. Creating delicious, nourishing food for loved ones. The excitement of an extraordinary dance event. The electricity of genuine chemistry. Playful mischief. The quiet satisfaction of helping someone surprise themselves. The delight of breaking the rules that were never ours to begin with.
People often tell me they feel deeply at ease in my presence. I hope they also feel a little more curious, a little more playful, and a little more inspired to explore the parts of themselves that have been waiting for permission to emerge.
Life is too short not to laugh, flirt with possibility, and occasionally color outside the lines.
For me, this work has never been just about intimacy. It’s about creating experiences that remind us life is meant to be felt, not simply managed. I believe the world needs more people who feel fully alive. My hope is that our time together helps you remember that part of yourself.
Explore With Me
I offer deeply personalized experiences that blend embodied touch, tantra, movement, somatic coaching, authentic connection, and companionship. Whether you’re seeking an immersive experience, an unforgettable date, or a deeply meaningful shared adventure, everything is thoughtfully tailored to what we co-create together.
Every encounter is different because every person is different. Rather than following a script, we begin with curiosity and create something that reflects your intentions, desires, and the possibilities that unfold between us.
Investment
2 Hours: $2,000
3 Hours: $2,800
My most requested experience and the one I recommend for first-time guests. It offers the time and space to slow down, settle in, and allow the experience to unfold naturally.
4 Hours: $3,600
Couples Synergy Sessions
2 Hours: $2,500
3 Hours: $3,500
4 Hours: $4,500
Designed for partners who want to deepen connection, restore desire, improve communication, or explore new dimensions of intimacy together. Each experience is thoughtfully tailored to your relationship and shared intentions.
Private Commissions
Custom experiences, travel, special events, creative collaborations, and extended engagements are available by invitation and quoted individually.
Conscious Connection | NYC | Phoebe
Reservations & Policies
Reservations
A 25% deposit is required to reserve your time.
I accept Zelle, Venmo, Cash App, and cryptocurrency.
Along with your preferred payment method, please include your screening information. For first-time guests, this may be a LinkedIn profile, professional website, or a photo of yourself holding your ID.
Booking Premiums
- Same-day reservations: +$200
- Sessions beginning before 10:00 AM or after 10:00 PM: +$200
- Outcalls within one hour: +$200, plus transportation
Locations
Private studio in Park Slope, Brooklyn
Available in NYC • Worldwide
If these words stirred something in you, I’d love to meet you.
Whether you’re seeking pleasure, healing, deeper intimacy, or simply a place where every part of you is welcome, I look forward to creating an experience that helps you remember what it feels like to be fully alive.
My Conscious Connection and Erotic Alchemy service welcomes women, men, couples & poly relationships.
