Who My Work Is For
My work is for those who have a feeling that there is more to their sexuality they haven’t explored yet.
It’s for those carrying shame around their desires or fantasies and want to learn how to live more freely, with less judgment from themselves.
It’s for those who want to better understand their pleasure, learn how to move in ways that feel good, and feel more confident and present during physical intimacy.
It’s for people of all genders looking for sex education that is real, tangible, and practical, while still being sexy and fun.
And it’s also for those that feel totally comfortable and happy in their sexuality and simply want to have a hands on session that induces relaxation and expansion in their bodies.
Pleasure educator and Conscious Kink Practitioner
I believe pleasure is a skill. Not something you either naturally have access to or you don’t. Pleasure is something we can learn to notice, expand, communicate, receive, and trust. And it extends far beyond sex.
Let’s use dancing as an example:
Even the best dancers in the world didn’t become great dancers without having some form of influence or introduction to the skill. Of course some are more gifted than others, but a skill requires learning and refinement.
But for some reason when it comes to sex and pleasure, we are expected to be great lovers without any taboo fantasies or desires.
And let me tell you something: there is nothing more broad in this world that sexuality. We are all so different and carry different wounds, different gifts, different ways of seeing life.
My work is about helping you become more fluent in the skill and language of pleasure.
I am an educator, author, performer, and coach, and much of my work is centered around helping people deepen their relationship with themselves through sexuality, embodiment, and pleasure.
I didn’t arrive here because I always had a perfectly liberated relationship with sexuality. Much of my life has been an ongoing investigation into shame, desire, sensuality, power, self-pleasure, and what happens when we start accepting all parts of us, even the most shadowy aspects.
My own exploration eventually became my book, The Diary of a Bad Bitch, where I write openly about reclaiming my sexuality and navigating life as a woman who doesn’t fit inside a box.
Along the way, I found Tantra and BDSM.
Through both, I found a language for desire, boundaries, communication, trust, surrender, vulnerability, asking, receiving, and consent.
Today, I work with people who want a deeper relationship with their sexuality, their bodies, and their own capacity for pleasure.
Sometimes it means working through shame, getting more comfortable asking for what you want, exploring kink, learning about your body, or becoming more curious about yourself.
Pleasure Educator | New York | Selene Ashé
What we might explore
Pleasure Mapping
Exploring your turn-ons, arousal patterns, fantasies, boundaries, curiosities, and pleasure pathways.
Shame & Erotic Confidence
Working with sexual shame, self-consciousness, fear of being seen, difficulty receiving, or the feeling that you are too much or not enough.
Conscious BDSM & Kink
Using consensual power dynamics, sensation, impact, restraint, dominance, submission, and fantasy as tools for exploration, play, trust, and self-discovery.
Embodiment & Movement
Embodiment is about getting out of your head and into your body. Through physical experience dance movement, sensuality, body awareness, and guided practices.
Sex Education
Practical, judgment-free education around anatomy, pleasure, orgasm, masturbation, toys, communication, kink, and sexual exploration.
Pleasure Educator | New York | Selene Ashé
Hand on & Experiential Sessions
Not all of my work happens through conversation. I also offer in-person experiences designed to help you explore pleasure, receiving, sensuality, kink and more. I love being a collaborator in my client’s fantasies if they align with my values. Feel free to share with me what you’d like to create and I promise I will respond without judgement.
Tantric Sensual Massage
A slow, intentional experience centered on conscious touch, receiving, breath, relaxation, sensation, and reconnecting with the body.
The focus is not on rushing toward an outcome, but on expanding awareness and your capacity to feel.
Foot Fetish Exploration
Feet happen to be one of my favorite areas to work with.
I especially enjoy creating conscious, shame-free spaces for people with foot fetishes or foot-focused desires to explore that attraction more intentionally.
Next Steps
If something here speaks to you, reach out and tell me a little about yourself, what you’re curious about, and what you’d like to explore together. You can text (+17865296123) or email me.
Or fill out my intake form.
My hands on sessions typically start at $600 for 90 minutes.
Coaching call sessions are $250 and packages are available upon requests (packages are preferred for optimal results).
I can’t wait to see what we co-create together!
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