My Pleasure Sage service welcomes individuals of all genders and orientations.
Ready to get out of your head, connect to your body, and expand your ability to experience pleasure? Craving intimate connection and touch that’s mindful and embodied yet still leaves room for playfulness and eroticism? Looking for someone who will take things at your own pace, accept you just as you are, and celebrate your emotional sensitivity? If so, you’re in the right place!
I’m Sage – a college-educated environmental justice advocate pursuing continued education at the intersection of trauma therapy, bodywork, and human sexuality. I specialize in working with clients who have limited sexual experience, are survivors of childhood trauma, identify as neurodivergent, struggle with body image and chronic shame, and/or are looking to explore expansiveness in their gender and/or sexuality.
I prioritize creating a welcoming non-judgmental container for you to express your desires, safely explore the edges of your comfort zone, and sit with vulnerable emotions. My approach is acceptance-based, consent-forward, trauma-informed, queer-affirming, kink-friendly, justice-oriented, and client-centered. I welcome clients of all ages (18+), genders, orientations, ethnicities, body sizes, and physical abilities.
Something that makes me unique is that I bring my full authentic self – quirky, playful, silly, embodied, curious, thoughtful, intellectual – to our sessions. Instead of serving up a widely-palatable caricature, I strive to be deeply genuine, present, and attuned, creating a container that welcomes and celebrates you in showing up without pretense to explore what’s alive in your mind, body, and soul today.
I incorporate a wide array of modalities into our sessions depending on your goals. Our time together may involve therapeutic somatic exercises, mindfulness-based breathwork, exploring thoughts and feelings, affectionate touch, and sexual connection. In addition to formal training, my practice is informed by my personal study of tantra, kink, yoga, somatic experiencing, Internal Family Systems (IFS), contact improvisation, and ecstatic dance.
My focus on working with a small number of repeat clients allows me to understand your unique needs and tailor my approach accordingly, tackling specific sexual, emotional, and/or relational challenges you may be experiencing. For those with limited sexual experience or particularly daunting hurdles around intimacy, I’m trained to collaborate with your talk therapist within the triadic model as a surrogate partner – a 3-12 month commitment following a more structured curriculum. Conversely, I also occasionally have openings for single-session one-way full-body tantric erotic massage.
Location
I work out of two private studios, one in Oakland near Ashby BART and the other in Emeryville. Both have ample street parking and a bathroom equipped with a hot shower and fresh towels.
Book Your Free Consultation
Fill out the inquiry form on my website to connect: pleasuresage.com
I offer free 15 minute Zoom or phone consultations to gauge compatibility and answer any questions you may have.
Testimonials
“Thank you Sage – you were brilliant with me both physically and energetically. I especially appreciated your enthusiastic willingness to respond to my requests, your verbal play with me, and your sense of delight and fun.”
“I appreciated your eager willingness to play with pain & power as per my request. You clearly have a strong sense of intuition when not guided but were communicative when it felt attuned to me to verbally connect. You easily inhabit the role of giver without anxiety or confusion.”
My Pleasure Sage service welcomes individuals of all genders and orientations.