Curious about exploring or expanding your sexuality?
Unsure what to ask for with a partner?
Feeling blocked in your body or unable to access pleasure?
Seeking a safer erotic professional to explore your deepest desires?
Questioning, queer, or trans and struggling to express your sexuality or gender?
Embodied Connection | Olympia, WA | Mischa
Mischa can help with this and more!
Discover a deeper, more embodied connection to yourself and your queerness: your body, your sexuality, the roots of your desires. With a trained Sacred Intimate and Somatic Sex Coach, explore touch, consent, sensation, and pleasure! Together, we can slow down and explore how to feel more pleasure in and with your sacred Body.
Mischa (ze/zer pronouns) works with folks who are:
- Questioning, queer, trans/gender non-conforming (broadly defined and explicitly inclusive)
- Neurospicy/neuroemergent, Kinky, Polyamorous, Survivors of Trauma
- Edgewalkers: those who live or operate on the margins of cultures or subcultures
- Wanting to expand access to pleasure, improve communication, or work through shame and trauma in the body
- Wanting clearer language for desire and consent
Mischa’s lived experience with queerness, neurodiversity, and gender provides a strong foundation for supporting your journey. Over the course of our sessions together, you will be empowered with the tools to know your sexual/erotic self and desires and to communicate those desires clearly with others.
Each consent-centered and trauma-informed session weaves in breath, magic, and resonance to support your movement toward sexual sovereignty and wholeness. During each session, Mischa will offer a choice of somatic embodiment activities so that you can choose how we approach your learning and healing goals, with consistent support and encouragement!
Through this process, clients experience new tools and skills in erotic communication, increased access to desire and pleasure, and a greater integration with their erotic selves. Together, Mischa will support you as you walk down the path of erotic wholeness and healing.
Queer Erotic Coach & Intimate | Olympia, WA | Mischa
A little about Mischa and zer journey
A queer polyam kinky white trans-femme, Mischa roots zer practice in decades of community work, queer, trans, kink, and sex-positive culture, and centers neurodiversity, queerness, and transness in this work. Mischa’s own journey began in texan suburbia, where ze learned early to mask — silencing queerness and dissociating from wants to avoid abuse and punishment. That survival strategy taught resiliency, but, over time, it became clear that the cost was a disconnect from zer body, desire, and joy.
In young adulthood Mischa retreated into online spaces, queer scenes, and kink communities: places that offered both risk and radical possibility. In these communities and spaces, Mischa found belonging and real, authentic connection: experiencing what it can be like to feel the power of grounded desire and the ability to choose from an embodied place.
A lifelong connection to earth-based spiritualities (aka pagan/neo-pagan/witchy) led Mischa to explore the intersection of spirituality and sexuality. Finding that most spaces that explored the spirituality of sex (often called “tantra”) were very straight/hetero and stuck in the gender binary, Mischa felt called to explore and create spaces that centered queerness, spirituality/witchcraft, and sexuality. After much exploration and searching, ze found and trained with a queer-centric Erotic Priestess/Temple group, eventually running that group’s regular 3-day weekend Temple events, and then finished zer training at the Institute for the Study of Somatic Sex Education (ISSSE), with expected certification as a Somatic Sex Educator & Sexological Bodyworker in 2027.
Through the power of embodied eros/sexuality, kink, sex magic, and psychedelics, and some very wise teachers, Mischa learned how to center and re-discover the authentic self. The feelings of shame and fear still exist: yet they are no longer controlling and overpowering.
That slow, embodied reclamation is now the throughline of Mischa’s work: combining practical tools with tenderness and connection so clients can transform into chosen embodiment.
Trainings & Certifications
Mischa has been trained and certified in several modalities to support your journey:
- Erotic Priestess Training, 2018-2022: High Priestess, and Hierophant
- Certified Ceremonial Officiant and Practitioner, 2022 (Temple of Awakening Divinity)
- Like A Pro practitioner training in the Wheel of Consent with Betty Martin and Katie Spataro, 2024 (School Of Consent)
- Foundations in Embodied Somatic Abolitionism, 2025 (Resmaa Menakem / Black Octopus Society)
- Somatic Sex Educator (SSE) Training: In Process, expected to be certified in 2027 (Institute for the Study of Somatic Sex Education)
Session Options
Sessions can be structured in many ways:
Erotic Temple Time ~ Guided embodiment ritual to anoint your body with pleasure
Erotic Massage / Bodywork ~ Client-directed full-body touch
Masturbation Coaching & Exploration ~ Build or refine a solo or partnered practice and prioritize connection with your sexual self.
Pleasure Mapping ~ Let’s find out what feels good to YOUR body! Do you like soft, sensual, touch? Do you want to explore BDSM or rough play? Your first anal experience? Just how much pleasure can we find in your body?
Giving & Receiving ~ What does it feel like to be giving to another, to give the gift of pleasurable touch? What does it feel like to receive pleasure?
Somatic & Sensate Noticing ~ Building your capacity to feel your body and to sense into a ‘yes’ or a ‘no’ and to be present with the vast complexity of sensation, desire, and feeling in your body.
Financial arrangements and payment plans available — please ask if finances are a barrier.
The first step in working together is to schedule a 20-minute no-charge discovery video consultation: this is for both of us to get to know each other and discuss what you are looking for, so that we may mutually decide if we would be a good fit to work together. Book here, email Mischa@AuthenticQueerDesires.com, or text 360.203.5310.
“Working with Mischa has been a truly transformative experience. Ze provides an incredibly safe and sacred space that allowed me to explore my own boundaries and body autonomy in ways I never thought possible. Mischa guided me to release years of tension and old narratives, enabling me to see my life and myself with completely new eyes. If you are looking to reconnect with your body and live with greater authenticity, Mischa is an absolute gift.” ~ N.B.
“Yesterday’s experience was very profound and I am very, very grateful to you for creating such a safe and healing space for me.” ~ J.L.
“Mischa holds space with authenticity and kindness, and ze has so much wisdom to share. Ze can help you give voice to your deepest heart’s desires and understand how to ask for what you truly want” ~ K.B.
